i really am because of everything that has been happening in my life.... what should i do???? i'm really scared and ya.....
mostly because of this one guy i love and he hates me......
2007-10-14 12:52:51 · 7 answers · asked by scaredkate 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
What ever you do dont hurt yourself.
Think of your life after school. College. Career. Family
Its ALL not worth some guy! There will be another guy, the one for you some day when your ready. This might help-
One of my friends at school dated this guy for about a year
and this past summer they had sex. Well what do you know right before our freshman year he breaks up with her, probably so he could be single when school started. He didnt understand y she was so upset because "virginity" means alot more to girls than it does to guys. She was really hurt. He started dating this junior girl that plays volleyball with us which makes it worse. My friend really likes this guys still so trys to talk to him and get him back anyways she can. It only makes it worse he begins to hate her because of it. But now shes getting better and accualy is starting to move on and check out new guys. You will move on it just takes time.
2007-10-14 13:10:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry you're having trouble in your love-life, but your way of solving a problem is very problematic. Instead of 'going crazy' you need to sit down and think out a few things?
*What am I doing wrong?
*How did I contribute to that argument?
*How did I cause that fight?
In other words, ask yourself some serious questions about each situation that hasn't gone your way, Start with yourself!
A wrong 'attitude' can really mess up a person's life. And in regard to this young man that you claim you 'love'.... ask some questions there.
*Why does he hate me?
*Did I cause the hate?
*Do I have the qualities he's looking for?
*Do I accept criticism? and change ny ways?
*What is it that he dislikes about me?
Love is something that comes from respect. Do you show him respect? Does he show you respect? If not, why not? What do you do to build a relationship? I think if you would address some of these questions and actually 'work at them' and get your life straightened up,then you would find you have something to offer to relationships. But first, you have to like yourself.
2007-10-14 20:06:20 · answer #2 · answered by Mercedes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take this thoughts from your head , lil lady!! No one is worth hurting yourself over, sounds like your hurting too much already!!!! To do something silly, would only make him resent your power play for his attenion!! Just let him go his own way, and enjoy the rest of your life, it will be full, statisfing, full of good guys!!
2007-10-14 21:44:05 · answer #3 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not lose hope! Don't hurt yourself because of a guy!
I understand that you are hurt because he "hates" you. But think of it this way, if he "hates" you, you obviously do not need him! No one needs (or deserves) anyone who hates him or her!
You deserve better!
Go get some emotional support from your family or friends! Depend on them and erase him from your heart!
Hope you overcome this! I believe you can!
2007-10-14 19:57:20 · answer #4 · answered by Yudizzle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call a hotline don't do it or if it make u feel better u can mail me and we can talk this out plz don't hurt ur self
2007-10-14 19:56:43 · answer #5 · answered by ghette4_life 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you are thinking about doing that then you need to go to the hospital. dont hurt yourself!
2007-10-14 21:00:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do it,
2007-10-14 20:18:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋