i'm not the hottest girl in the world but i know i'm good looking and i know he knows that. he persued me big time in the beginning. but since i wasn't ready for a relationship(he knew that too) i ended up treating him very poorly. i knew he wanted to be with me and did everything he could to get me. how do i make him want to get me back? i already apologized and told him i realized i really want to be with him and that i would change my ways. should i leave him alone for a little while? i'm younger than him, hotter, smart, admitted to be nicer to him, asked for forgiveness, he might have more money but i can potentially earn as much. it's only been two weeks and i've been blowing up his phone apologizing and to take me back.
2007-10-14 13:18:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he also knows i am a very loyal person, i'm a freak in bed but only been with two guys, it was just that i really wasn't ready when i went into relationship with him. another factor i think is he might just be needing space from me and i've been so demanding and energy consuming. should i just leave him alone? or profess my love full force? what to do?
2007-10-14 13:21:39 · update #1
It's a difficult one but you can;t really make him want to get back with you, he has to do this on his own.
Best thing would be to leave him alone, give him time, if he comes back, h'll come back but while you constamtly contact him & tell him, you will never get out of this rut or he will never realise if he does want you back.
He knows the score now, it's up to him, but don't hold your life for him & if someone else comes along, that makes you happy go with it, if he comes back then, the ball is in your court however be careful not to hurt anyone in the process (IE dont just do a rebound thing cause u know you would go back to him).
If he liked you that much & did everything then just maybe he will come back, but you need to give him time though & not pressure him or anything, after all, you've told him now so he knows the score & the ball is in his court.
2007-10-14 13:23:54 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-06 03:41:55 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
rather than phone messages etc ---- see him get him with a coffee or tea in a quiet place and talk to each other --- he may just not want to continue the relationship or he may be worried it will all go pear shaped again --- tell him what you would like from the relationship and find out what he would like --- saying all that --- we dont know how old you are and that could have a huge bearing on the opinions --- as long as you are over the age of consent (over 20 would be even better) then go for it --- if not then stay away from him ---- best wishes
2007-10-14 13:27:02 · answer #3 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over this stupiid witch hunt your on. yopu ramble on about money looks, and earning more, and bragging about yourself up downe you sound like a spoiled brat here stuck on your self and couldent care less about the guy or anything but your self. you need too find out what real life is like. you have no idea. we think you are a stuck up brat going on about you. you coulld care lees but your self. and for god sakes get too hell of the phone and leave the dude alone. hes odviously seen your kind before and running like the wind- away from you and your self rightenouss.
2007-10-14 13:25:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋