Family & Relationships - 6 October 2007

2007-10-06 17:04:10 · 11 answers · asked by K 1 in Friends

ok so i'm a virgin i have a great boyfriend, he's hot sweet sensitive and respects me and my decesions, but lately he has been asking me if we could have sex...i have told him i want to wait till i get married..but he gets mad...he has always done every thing for me and he said its time to give him something fo a change!!...should i make his dreams come true or should i stick with my religus thingy..i really dont want to but...uh soooo confused...and yeah i'm anly 14...yeah crazy! and i'm only in 9th grade! uh help!

2007-10-06 17:03:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-06 17:02:50 · 6 answers · asked by mmmlong10 3 in Singles & Dating

I have a little boy and I want to try so hard to teach him not to disrespect girls. To not play them. Is that even possible? Can I actually make a differnence? Do you think the fathers of boys change all that the mother tries to avoid. Or can he contribute and really make a difference. I just see young men who act like idiots treating women like crap and I wonder where did the mothers fail.

2007-10-06 16:58:49 · 6 answers · asked by Lordes Skye 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Flirt with every guy i know or is it unfair i dont want to be a tease but i dont or nor do i want to do anything do i have to explain that or is it an unspoken rule

2007-10-06 16:57:52 · 6 answers · asked by rosedel83 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I got into our first huge argument today. It's been building for about a week now. Anyways, I took our two daughters and decided to spend the night at my moms since all my sisters and their families were over for dinner and a campfire etc etc.. so this may be a silly question--but since we've never had a huge argument before (usually we just talk things out before it ever gets to this point, but for some reason lately he's been moody and irrational) So tomorrow when i go home- do I just keep ignoring him? Should I make the 'first move' and apologize? (even though i did nothing wrong- he's being selfish and immature) or do I just wait for him?

2007-10-06 16:52:33 · 10 answers · asked by Amy Clark 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I've recently seen people hurt (emotionally) other people without any cause. Why would they do this?

2007-10-06 16:42:10 · 7 answers · asked by shermynewstart 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-06 16:38:47 · 2 answers · asked by Nicole 1 in Singles & Dating

Me & my husband have been together since we were young and had children at a young age. When I met my husband qualities like humorous, caring, loving, giving, friendly, outgoing, and likeable. What I didn't look into was his family. On some issues, they have low morals and don't live what you would call righteous lives. This is something that is important to me. I'm not a "bible beater", but I am a God fearing individual. Our children are getting older and it fears me more and more that they will inherit my inlaws' ways. My husband is a loving husband and father. He has excuses for his actions, but they are not righteous ones. I don't want certain actions, behaviors, or activities in my household for my childrens sake. This is something that we have argued for over a decade. It seems to be imbeded and I don't want it to be imbeded in my children. So why not just up and leave? Easier said than done. I've left before. Being a single parent was the hardest thing I've experience

2007-10-06 16:38:09 · 27 answers · asked by . 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I got preg under bad term when me&my hubby was apart. when I was preg me and my hubby got back together.He was there the whole time.When I was preg the other guy put me thru hell I almost lost my son over it _ my hubby was trying to be a stand up guy and call him when I went into labor he said he was to bussy. Me and my hubby decided we did not want him in my son's life after we tried 4 a little while the stress was getting 2 me so we decided it was to much to handel ( with the calling him to see my son - calling 2 get help-thing -money everything and always get a excuse) We give up! Now I changed my number moved everything a few days ago he called my mom talking about he want to see my son. I dont want to deal with this again. My family is down our throat talking about it's not about us it's about what's best for my son. We feel we r whats best! what do we do?It's not far to my hubby,but should I let the other one back in,will it really hurt my son.am lost in this help! whats best

2007-10-06 16:36:29 · 22 answers · asked by sparkelita 2 in Marriage & Divorce

im a messy kid.

but my mum is so immature, today she just threw everything of mine on the floor (my spectacles, watch, bag with ipod and hp inside, my keys). and she dumped some of my things into the garbage wtf i mean.... she's a successful career woman. a boss. she's used to ppl rushing to complete her orders

but that doesnt give her the right to throw my things about like a demented person. she doesnt care if she breaks my things

and i'v adopted this attitude of " if you scold / throw more, i dont care i'm going to ignore you till you cool down " and of course she throws more =XX

2007-10-06 16:35:25 · 17 answers · asked by nobodyknowsme™ 5 in Family

Still living with mom and dad?

2007-10-06 16:34:37 · 4 answers · asked by Hope 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

why does your boyfriend cheat on your i don't understand

2007-10-06 16:31:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean it's not that bad, I have been married for two months and I know both my husband and I need our own space, but the thing is that we were supposed to do something together one night, and he suddenly changed plans and invited all of his buddies to our house to have a few beers. I know it is not a big deal, this is something that helps him get stress out of his system. But I can't help feeling a bit angry and jealous about it. Am I being to selfish?

2007-10-06 16:28:59 · 12 answers · asked by supi25 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-06 16:28:52 · 5 answers · asked by greysanatomylover3 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-06 16:27:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dont know what to do... I REALLY need help. You see, I am 21 years old and am going throught a lot. I have been with my man for 4 and a half years. We have a 3 year old son and I just dont want sex AT ALL. I dont even want to touch myself. I am overweight( PLEASE DONT COMMENT IF ITS GOING TO BE RUDE) I work on it periodicaly but am so tired after work its hard. I know that this isnt the only reason I dont want it but I am starting to worry. I am on birth control and have heard that that can make you lose intrest is that true? What do I do. I not only hate myself but our relationship is suffering. He wants a 3 some and to be honest I wouldnt mind but no way in HELL am I going to been in front of another woman (they are WAY to judgemental. He is losing intrest because I wont attempt it (had one a year ago, a 3 some and loved it) but just can bring myself to it. We both are not happy with sex. Are we over? Please help us!

2007-10-06 16:26:15 · 14 answers · asked by lilzephyr 1 in Marriage & Divorce

She recently legally changed her name from Surina to Carmen. She's so angry at me right now because I couldn't get used to calling her Carmen. Sometimes I would slip and say her old name and she would flip on me. I am trying to remember her new name but am a little frustrated by her not giving me any time to get used to her new name. Does she have the right to be angry? Thx.

2007-10-06 16:22:34 · 5 answers · asked by roxylee11782 4 in Family

I still see and have sex with my ex. We dated for 2 years on/off. At one point we were so serious he was talking marriage to me, but I broke up with him. We started seeing each other again, but he left me for another girl who isn't really his type. He lied to me by telling me they were going to break up, to have sex with me. This hurt me so much that now (a year later), I still feel so hurt. I'm seeing this new guy but he's a freshman/I'm a junior (we're in college), and he doesn't seem too serious with me. Anyway, my ex is jealous of this guy and it's getting in the way of my social life (we have mutual friends, and my ex has a problem with me bringing this new guy to our clique's parties, etc). Now my ex is ignoring me. What should I do about both guys? What should I do, period?

2007-10-06 16:16:55 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A woman friend just ended her relationship with her boyfriend yesterday. For a year i've been acting as a confidant to her. I call her the night she broke up to cheer her up, because she's been crying all night. I've known her for over a year.

How long do you think I should wait for her to calm down to ask her out to a movie or some sort of a friendly date? I really like her.

I'm good friends with her ex, and i know any move i make could end my friendship with him. But i don't really care.They had been dating for over 3 years until they broke up.

2007-10-06 16:14:51 · 10 answers · asked by Alyssa Peterley 1 in Singles & Dating

Some back story: My mother has always been around to provide for me my entire life however during that time she has berated me for being who I am, talked down to me, kicked me out of the house, called me names and put me down on my looks. There were times it go so bad I considered suicide rather than living at home. When I was 19 she completed credit card offers in my name and charged 8K of debt that I have just paid off.

I finally got the nerve to pack all my things and leave 4 years ago. After moving out I was able to build up my confidence, get my own job and apartment with by boyfriend. I have slowly tried to rebuild my relationship with my mother but usually she just asks me for money.

Just recently my mom has taken ill. She is currently recovering and would like me to move in and take care of her...indefinitely. I absolutely do not want to move back in with her but I am guiltridden by saying no.

What should I do?

2007-10-06 16:10:54 · 37 answers · asked by Kai 1 in Family

My girl wants me to hang out with her and her exe and I wont do it because it makes me uncomfortable. Is it me, should I open up and have a little bit more confidence and do it or should I stick to my guns and stay away from that situation. I dont want to deny myself of time spent with my girl but I dont want to b a fool either. What do you think? What would you do?

2007-10-06 16:10:00 · 2 answers · asked by marc21 1 in Singles & Dating

We divorced because of my drug addiction. I've been clean for a while now and I've really changed my life. I'm happy. We've been together for 10 years and are 27. She told me that she loved me very much but was just afraid of having children with me because of the drug use. I understand that. I neglected her needs financially, emotionally, and physically, but now I have the tools to meet them and want to very badly. I want to tell her that I don't want to throw away our investment of time and energy in each others lives. That I have such deep feelings for her and a strong belief that we can make a happy, loving, intimate relationship now and that it will be really difficult and painful for me if I give up on the love of my life without trying. I've processed what happened and understand my part in things. I won't be perfect. I'll make mistakes, but I love her endlessly, and I'm willing to do anything to fullfill her needs and her life. I'm ready to share my life fully.Should I tell her

2007-10-06 16:04:40 · 16 answers · asked by B. Nowlin 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm in high school. I was walking to class and i feel someone pinch my butt so I turn around and this guy was standing there smiling at me and he says something like "oh sorry". So then i think "whatever" and keep walking. He does it again and i told him to cut it out. and then he did it again. So i was pissed off and I thought about punching his face but then i didn't see him anymore.
I've never seen him, but my friends who were walking with me saw him too. I found out his name and he's a year older than me. I told my mom and she called the school and reported him.
so was that right thing to do? or what should I do if he bothers me again? can i punch his face without getting in trouble at school?
eeewww creepy!!!




btw i put this under "singles and dating" cause i didn't know where else it should go

2007-10-06 16:02:05 · 29 answers · asked by e-kay? 3 in Singles & Dating

Over the summer my bff told me that he liked me and has liked me since 6th grade. Well we couldnt go together because he had a GF. Well, I talk to him everyday because he is my BFF but I dont know what to do. It is weird. What do I do? how do I kno if I like him?

2007-10-06 16:01:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

tonite i went over to my girls house. Most awesome, pretty, girl ever. I love her soo much. So i went over to see a movie (1408) and we cuddled and kissed and held hands and everything. Then she looked up at me and i looked up at her, and we had like a 2-3 second open mouth, not tongue, kiss. So basically, is there a basic way to start a real makeout? we were infront of her sister and friend, so that may be part of it.

For those of you that NEED to know to answer im in 8th grade. NO TELLING ME IM TO YOUNG, NO I DONT HAVE SEX WITH GIRLS! IM A 1/4 GOOD LIL MORMON BOY ok.. just answer..ty =)

2007-10-06 16:00:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My parents won't let me have a second piercing in my ears, but I REALLY want them. Any opinions or suggestions are accepted. I'll choose the one that convinces my parents to let me have the second piercing.
THANKS
Alla

2007-10-06 16:00:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

He seems pretty open and in his late 20's. The staff is all new to him and we're not sure what to get him. We're thinking of a gift card to Ikea? Cake?

Help!!!

2007-10-06 15:59:30 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i've known this girl for a long time now.....and i really like her alot.......im 13 shes 14......my dad and her dad are great friends.......my dad invited them to go see my soccer game....thing is....im not very good at soccer and im afraid i will look like a sucky player in front of her.....WHAT CAN I DO???????

2007-10-06 15:59:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I came to New York to try to make it as an actress or a model and haven't had any luck. That was three years ago. My mom kept telling me not to come and that I wouldn't be successful and that I should go to college but I had to have things my way and came here anyway but every agency I've gone to has rejected me for modeling mainly because I'm too short (I'm 5'5') and it's hard to even get considered for an audtion. I want to go home because not only am I not getting jobs but NY is much more costy and people are really mean not like in Stillwater (Where I'm from) but I don't want to look like a big failure plus I have my boyfriend here who loves me but he doesn't do much that will support me. I mean we live in an apartment with 7 other people most of them are like me, people trying to make it. What should i do?

2007-10-06 15:57:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships