Flirt with every guy i know or is it unfair i dont want to be a tease but i dont or nor do i want to do anything do i have to explain that or is it an unspoken rule
2007-10-06 16:57:52 · 6 answers · asked by rosedel83 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You gotta be you. Just be careful. Don't be false with people, and don't be mean.
You can flirt with boys who are flirts themselves and understand how flirting works. That's fun.
What you CANNOT do is flirt with boys who are very serious and/or inexperienced, because they will misinterpret your intentions. At best, you will get their hopes up and hurt their feelings. At worst, you will either offend them, or maybe inspire a crazy stalker.
You also need to be careful with the flirting because if you meet someone you really like, you're going to need to find an extra-creative way to show him you're interested. If you flirt with him, he'll just say "ah, she does that with everyone."
I'm impressed that you're even asking this question. Many people flirt without considering the consequences. It's a lot of fun when you do it right. If you flirt with too many of the wrong kind of people, it can get messy.
2007-10-06 17:09:23 · answer #1 · answered by Julie L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you flirt with every guy that you meet, then any guy that has a serious interest in you and finds that information out, will write you off as cheap. If he's a good guy that is. But if he's just a guy looking to score then thats what you'll end up with. Plus, flirting is a way to show people that you like them, and how will a guy ever know what is going i with you. My advice, flirt selectively.
2007-10-07 00:04:07 · answer #2 · answered by Elyse B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you paid more attention to your English skills, I think that would take you farther than what you're worried about.
Guys aren't extremely bright but they can catch on to you in a heartbeat. Yeh, you'll fool the moronic sect but the good ones will avoid you like the plague!
As you get older, that attitude is going to be your downfall. You'll only attract the ones who want you for your body.
Good luck, it's sounds like you're in for a life with pony tailed guys. Yee Haw!
Wise up for gosh sake!
2007-10-07 00:13:37 · answer #3 · answered by Carl R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately flirting a lot can be a lot fun, but can also lead to misunderstandings. It's okay to flirt, you just have to know when to draw the line, and it's takes time to figure out where that line is for yourself.
2007-10-07 00:09:19 · answer #4 · answered by Coela 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just dont flirt to much.. i'm a general flirt, but just dont give every guy mixed signals.
2007-10-07 00:02:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you continue to do that and then you do find someone and you want to settle down, they may not want to because of their lack of trust in you because you are always flirting. I, as a girl, don't find that attractive in a guy. So maybe guys don't find that attractive either...especially in someone as a gf
2007-10-07 00:02:12 · answer #6 · answered by Sandy O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋