Family & Relationships - 6 October 2007

Have you ever had to lower your standards and be with a person, that is normally not your type ? serious answers please,
If yes, how did the relationship play out ? did you fall in love ? what happened ?

2007-10-06 15:56:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

without hurting their feelings and letting them know you love them very much and that the reason that you are doing this is because you are trying to do the best thing for them, you are only looking out for their best interest. they know somethings up and have for a while. i mean with you because you have been acting sad. and just about a week ago or soo something tramatic had happened and that you were trying to make things better and so was another person but the person with the prominent problem isnt trying to do a thing about it, doesn't think that they have a problem and they blame other people about doing things and blame them about blaming them about doing something..

2007-10-06 15:56:31 · 1 answers · asked by me(: 2 in Singles & Dating

im 14 years old and i want to lose my virginity i mean everyone of my friends are its not freggin fair gosh why cant i get LAID

2007-10-06 15:49:56 · 9 answers · asked by ZAM 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was married for 6yrs now.Like my couples we do hv our fair share of arguements and disagreements but all ends well in a day or two.However lately we argued over the smallest things.We decided to see a marraige counsellor.After 6-7 sessions that deep down I realised things things didnt improve much and only then i realised a divorce might be inevitableand only solution I have..We both still love each other but we really had ran out of resources and solutions.Should I follow my heart to go separate ways or just carry on and live with it ? Appreciates if anyone can advise.Thanks

2007-10-06 15:49:05 · 19 answers · asked by chasen54 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My partner and I were talking and we both agree that in the event that something were to happen to her that the best place for her daughter is with me. I've grown to love them both and I treat her like my own child, but since we're aren't married what would we need to make sure I don't lose them both in the event something happens to my girlfriend? My girlfriend doesn't have any close siblings, and she talks to her mother all but once a year. I was told I can not adopt her daughter until we are ready to get married since the real father (who hasn't been around since birth and had made it clear that he has no intention of ever caring for this little girl, but he has to sign her over I guess. So.. Since we're not married, I cannot adopt her daughter. What exactly would my girlfriend have to do to make sure she's not taken from me in the event something were to happen to her? (I worry about this all the time) Thanks!

2007-10-06 15:47:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have a full custody and guardianship of my 3 year old. On my custody papers, my ex also agreed that we can move anywhere in Canada we want. It's all filed in court and legal. Now, I am in another relationship, and my boyfriend just bought a house in another province (where he works). My ex has already shared his oppinion of us moving there to live with my boyfriend, and it was not good. My question is, can he take this to court and change the agreement that he signed? Will we have to stay where we are presently if he does this? He already lives 14 hours away, and only sees his daughter about twice a year. I'm jsut afraid he would try to do something just to make life harder.

2007-10-06 15:47:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-06 15:44:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We have been married for 5 years. We both were married previously for 8 years. Both of us have children from previous marriage that we now are raising together (other parent for both sides is absent from kids lives).

After 5 years all of the things my husband does drives me NUTS! We were such a match when we got married and we have both evolved into other people. We don't agree on discipline for our kids. We don't agree on finances. We don't even agree about the dog. In fact, we do't agree about much! I love him very much and I believe he loves me. I think we could work through a lot of issues if we were to talk openly to a therapist. He refuses, saying we don't need it, we're fine.

How do I get him to understand we need this. I need this.

2007-10-06 15:42:16 · 8 answers · asked by slv02 2 in Marriage & Divorce

grow up in Princeton Minnesota?

2007-10-06 15:41:57 · 3 answers · asked by pumpkin2 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm A 16-year old brother who wants to fix the attitude of a twitched little 13-year old brat. Also, some things about her such as: she gets a meltdown when something she planned goes wrong, and if I say "get out of my room", she starts to get negative and crap, but she hasn't expose this to her friends yet, and i don't know why. She's just a 13-year old and thinks she knows everything and i can't do anything about it. She never respects other's privacy and she only wants boys that look fine or hot, and she's just a pain in the ***! Does she need extreme counseling??? or send her to the MAURY show or something??? She Is like this for about More than 3 years, even her parents say that her future is at risk and say that I have more hope. Can Somebody please help me???

2007-10-06 15:40:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I feel I should limit my daughters internet usage. What is a reasonable amount of time to let her stay on it each day?

2007-10-06 15:35:09 · 39 answers · asked by college mom 1 in Family

I am taking very good care of myself but feel it is not good for me to continue this way. Can you please suggest a solution? If I go to a pub alone for example (the people I know are married so will not join me) is it going to look wierd?? Also, I am 35 yr old male and have not been with a woman for more than a year now! I feel I'm going crazy! THANKS

2007-10-06 15:34:11 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

how can i show a guy that i really like him. i'm kinda shy and is very good in class. i don't want to come off as a nerd.

help me please

2007-10-06 15:32:14 · 13 answers · asked by sexy baby111260 1 in Singles & Dating

and whe have no contact other than me leaving voice mail, and haven't dated in a month, is it over?

2007-10-06 15:31:25 · 7 answers · asked by At peace with myself 3 in Family

especially around ur crush?

2007-10-06 15:29:57 · 23 answers · asked by asian_chicka 3 in Singles & Dating

that we have a baby on the way?

2007-10-06 15:26:43 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was dating this guy for around 3 months, I know not a very long time, but I really did like him. He was an army man, due to ship out to Iraq in December, and was living where I live because he was helping his grandfather with a bussiness venture, and would only be here temporarilly. Again, I know I shouldn't have let myself attach, but this guy, is like prince charming, no joke. Now I'm not trying to dwell on it, or be together despite the odds, I do have some realisim, but I just wanna know if he's missing me like I'm missing him.
We haven't really talked since he left, like 2 weeks ago, though he always acted like he cared and told me he would miss me. The night he left, as he could tell I was starting to get upset, he says out of the blue, you know I didnt sleep last night, and couldnt give me a reason, so I interpreted it as his way of verbalizing he was upset about leaving, and though we both knew we wouldnt he says as I'm leaving, I'll see you later...CONTINUED IN DETAILS!!

2007-10-06 15:26:07 · 1 answers · asked by Lady 3 in Singles & Dating

Be brutally honest with me, am I being unfair about this?

I desperately want to move. I'm not talking across the country or anything, just to an area that I like better It has better schools for our 10 month old daughter, housing is cheaper, and there are plenty of jobs for DH. I also think that if we are going to move, now is the time to do it, before our daughter is old enough for it to upset her.

DH says that he likes where we are living now, that it would be too much stress it sell up and move, that he doesn't want to move closer to my mother (haha!), and that he doesn't want to move away from his friends and family. He absolutely detests his job here at the moment, and there are so many opportunities for him where I want to move.

Am I wrong in wanting to move?

2007-10-06 15:25:12 · 8 answers · asked by Jade 5 in Family

Last night people were dancing at a club. There was this really gorgeous girl made eye contact with me, and kept gazes and smiles. About 10 + times over 2 hours. Finally, cause I didn't want to go over to her, I motioned to her to come. She turned her head away and pointed to the dance floor, from what I could see. So, then I dropped the whole ball, and said for get it. I don't phuking dance! And I didn't pay her much attention afterwards, nor her me. As much as women like to dance, I don't like to dance. Dancing for me is a sign of silliness. I would only dance if I was taught how professionally. I tend to like to keep my aura of confidence and cool rather than dance.

2007-10-06 15:22:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really like this guy... He stares at me in class, and we talk sometimes, and its always fun... We love the same music. But I'm not sure if he likes me back... I don't want to ask him, because it would get awkward afterwards... What should I do? Any advice will do... Tell me how I should flirt too!!

2007-10-06 15:21:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mom and dad love each other very much, but almost every day they get into a fight!!! Some nights they even start pushing each other!!! They do it in front of both me and my brother (he is 3)!!!!! They don't want break-up so what should I do to pervent a fight?

2007-10-06 15:21:11 · 22 answers · asked by Raina R 1 in Family

my guy and I were high school sweethearts and im wondering if they seem to work out usually

2007-10-06 15:18:16 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Do you think it is safe?

2007-10-06 15:16:14 · 4 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6 in Singles & Dating

5'3, long brown hair, brown eyes, full lips, high cheek bones, larger boobs, petite. That's the physical.

Here's the rest:
Cheesy sense of humor....sometimes a little dry and offbeat
Incredibly intelligent - one that can and will discuss philosophies, religion, fantasies, human conditions, anything really....
A little shy but opens up when intimate (safe and comfortable)
Enjoys silence and being alone but loves company too
Has confidence but sometimes doesn't
Very loving, romantic in ideals and the way she sees life and people
Caring but not clingy......gives space and enjoys space given
Sexual but not slutty w/ a ton of people....only when very into the guy (will explore almost anything)
Only has a few real friends
Loves to just dream most of the time......gets lost in writing and music
Mysterious sometimes
A chase, not easy......

Is this the kind of girl guys like or not? I'm trying to figure out why guys would ever go for a "Paris Hilton" type of girl.......

2007-10-06 15:11:43 · 20 answers · asked by kittygoespeeps 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my ex just broke up last night @ homecoming and 1 of my bffs is already going out with him!! should i be mad @ her or him or either or both!!! WHAT THE HECK DO I DO!!! HHHHHHHEEEEELLLLLLPPPPP!!!

2007-10-06 15:02:10 · 23 answers · asked by Emilyy ♫ (: 2 in Singles & Dating

hi am hailee and 15 im so so so sad!!!... i cant picrute living with my mom or dad with out the other ... i dont know what to do !!!... i have a sister and a brother... (their 8 and 11 years old).. help me ..all i can do right now is cry

2007-10-06 14:58:50 · 5 answers · asked by Hailee G 1 in Family

2007-10-06 14:52:45 · 9 answers · asked by whisstripes 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to know why guys don't call or text as often as girls. I am chatting to this guy in US and we talked so much about being together and visiting each other.

We texted each other almost everyday for the first few days then suddenly everything has gone. No texts, no emails no nothing. I don't think I am too puchy but communication is so important in a relationship. Then I start to think whether he's genuine or am I being too sensitive. I would love to hear someone who is in the same situation or a guy's point of view.

Thank you for your contribution

Vicki

PS I live in Australia

2007-10-06 14:52:38 · 9 answers · asked by TheLovePrincess 2 in Singles & Dating

We have the same feelings for one another but agree we can't "date" because of work. But we are really into each other... we have not spent any time together out side of work yet... we would like to but know we shouldn't... how do you know if it's worth looking into with out going on a date? Changing jobs? Everything seams so right between us but we work together.... what do you do?

2007-10-06 14:51:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-06 14:51:34 · 14 answers · asked by curious 2 in Singles & Dating