I want to know why guys don't call or text as often as girls. I am chatting to this guy in US and we talked so much about being together and visiting each other.
We texted each other almost everyday for the first few days then suddenly everything has gone. No texts, no emails no nothing. I don't think I am too puchy but communication is so important in a relationship. Then I start to think whether he's genuine or am I being too sensitive. I would love to hear someone who is in the same situation or a guy's point of view.
Thank you for your contribution
Vicki
PS I live in Australia
2007-10-06 14:52:38 · 9 answers · asked by TheLovePrincess 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The way that men and women tend to show effection is different as night and day. Women like to talk in a relationship, men generally don't. As far as the long distance relationship goes, I don't want to rain on a sunny day, but sometimes people aren't who or what they seem to be and he may have found something else to catch his interest. But then again, he may have just been busy with work or lost his internet. There's a million reasons as to what could be going on with him. The best policy is to just email him and ask how he's been and what's going on.
2007-10-10 15:01:09 · answer #1 · answered by phukme69style 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There could be some many good reason s for the silence that I am not sure where to start.The most likely explanation is that they lost all interest in you or they did lose your contact information.there is also the chance something bad has happened and they are dealing with that leaving no room to get in touch with you. he could also be a phony.However, you could be overreacting to the situation and need to step back and reassess all that has happened.In the final analysis, he is the person with the answer and I suggest you contact him once again and resolve the whole issue.I wish you the best.
2007-10-06 22:25:37 · answer #2 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all vickie,why don't you wait for awhile and see what has happened to him,i have been thru the same thing online and when i did not hear from that person for a couple or a few days i had no choice but to wait!several times i found that their computer crashed,there was a death in the family,all kinds of things,so just be patient,and i hope everything works out for you two.
2007-10-06 22:04:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys don't get the same satisfaction that girls seem to out of a lot of phone calls and texts. If you aren't in front of them, you arent' real.
2007-10-06 21:56:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
out of sight out of mind, find someone who is more local whom you can see face to face and chat with and do stuff. it's a lot more fun
2007-10-06 21:57:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys dont like to talk very much about their feelings
and this guy might just be plain old busy
2007-10-06 21:59:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talking on here as a telephone is very cosmetic
2007-10-06 22:18:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably busy with something-else, I'm here to coup your loneliness
2007-10-10 22:01:56 · answer #8 · answered by u2_rich 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Text him.. see what happens.
2007-10-06 21:57:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋