how do you let a person very close to you know that you think they should go to rehab?

Question

without hurting their feelings and letting them know you love them very much and that the reason that you are doing this is because you are trying to do the best thing for them, you are only looking out for their best interest. they know somethings up and have for a while. i mean with you because you have been acting sad. and just about a week ago or soo something tramatic had happened and that you were trying to make things better and so was another person but the person with the prominent problem isnt trying to do a thing about it, doesn't think that they have a problem and they blame other people about doing things and blame them about blaming them about doing something..

Answer 1

You ether walk up to them, and hug them or slap them, depends on their mentaility, then you lay RIGHTEOUS truth on them, which you might not completely grasp, because drug addiction isn't about drugs, its about a lost of purpose combinded with an inabillity to handle the world on the worlds terms, I know, I'm an addict. Its a product of a hurt mind, its really no much different then the nerd in highschool who had no friends, excelled at everything, and always seemed stand-offish. Its a product of not knowign how to handle the world.... but all that stuff aside, you show it how its hurting you, non-confrontational as possible, and leave it at that. Adding anymore will hurt the cause. But having someone cry for you, hurts even the coldest hearts, even the coldest.....