Family & Relationships - 6 October 2007

i just broke up with my bf yesterday. well, he broke up with me coz it was kinda my fault..well, it was my fault. we argued yesterday night and i tried talking to him about our problems, if we can fix it..but he cusses me out and say all those horrible mean things to me and i couldnt take it and handle it anymore. so, i created a myspace account and messaged his friend that i had a little interest in him, which i know i shouldnt have done that coz it was so wrong for me to do and i regret doing that..i guess coz he yells at me and cusses me out and stuff. anyway, his friend called him and told him about what i wrote...then he called me and he said it was so over between me and him.

I dont know what to do. does that consider cheating, coz he said that was cheating and im a cheater. now that were not together..its like i cant help being alone..its like i have to have a bf and someone to be with. should i move on already and fine someone new? plz help me.

2007-10-06 18:35:40 · 5 answers · asked by chellcie 1 in Singles & Dating

m looking for n american relative. Can yahoo help me?

2007-10-06 18:33:46 · 2 answers · asked by tere 1 in Family

2007-10-06 18:31:49 · 9 answers · asked by Bada Bada 1 in Singles & Dating

I found out that my husband was cheating on me over a year ago, but I still can't stop thinking about it. He had just gotten back from Iraq and then he was deployed again 6 months later to the border. That's when he met her. She was the maid in the hotel the military put him in when they first got there. He was seeing her for about 2 1/2 months before he finally told me about it, but he kept on seeing her even after he told me it was over between them. He continued to see her for a total of about 4 months before he finally ended it for real. He says he's loyal to me now, but I don't know if I can trust him again. I love him very much and I want to stay with him, but I don't know what to do to get over how much he hurt me. He just doesn't seem to understand how much he really hurt me and our 4 year old son even though I have told him several times.

Please help me!! I really need to know what to do.

2007-10-06 18:27:42 · 32 answers · asked by GuardiAngel 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so there is this guy i USED to like and i work with (i am18 and he is 17) and he does a lot of drugs. I mean a lot. I want to be friends with him now but he wont even talk to me and I don't even know why. he literally hates me now. I have just started to do some drugs but not very often and nothing hard core and he is starting to get mad at me for that. I went to go smoke with him and he just said that he didn't want to smoke anymore.he just got up and left. i don't know what to do. please help me

2007-10-06 18:23:56 · 19 answers · asked by wintennis91 2 in Singles & Dating

okay im single and theres this guy i really really like. but he has a girlfriend who really doesnt desevre him. shes young and immature and she starts fights and talks behind everyones back. and hes the sweetest guy i know and never said anything bad about anyone and hes never beenin a fight and tries to avoid them. I get the feeling she doesnt really like him even though she blabs on myspace about how sweet he is. it seemslike shes using him to show off. just cuz hes 2 years older than her. i dont know why he likes her shes not good for him. me and him are a better match. i wish ican make him see that. what should i do??

2007-10-06 18:18:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay...I've been talking to a man in PA, for 2 weeks that I met over the phone on 'vibeline'. One day he is so sweet and talking about relocating to the city I live in to be with me, and the next day he is mad at me for small things, like not returning his call fast enough, and being very mean and a couple days later he is so in love saying, "couples go thru rough spots", I have to deal with it. If I bring disagreements up he shuts me down, but when he brings it up it's all good. He's very moody. He is 42 and I am 29.

2007-10-06 18:14:05 · 6 answers · asked by erica19771996 1 in Singles & Dating

what do you think of friends with benefits? a good or bad idea?

2007-10-06 18:10:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Are you more likely to be the person not returning love or the person not having love returned? It has been both ways for me. =)

2007-10-06 18:06:41 · 8 answers · asked by xılǝɥ ⋆ 5 in Singles & Dating

have you ever loved someone so much you would give an arm for not the exspression but actually give an arm for?

2007-10-06 18:06:33 · 3 answers · asked by nikkie moore 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-06 18:06:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with my husband for 4 years we have one child. I have some money saved up that he doesn't know about and my family just gave me $6000 to spend on myself and son. My husband is broke right now he quit his job 2 months ago and has been broke since but will start his own business soon. When he was working at his old job he was giving me money. now he needs to buy equipments and tools to start his own business and he is thinking about asking his parents to lend him money . if you were me would you tell your husband about the savings account and help him out? i want to help but don't want to regret it later on if marriage doesn't work out

2007-10-06 18:02:35 · 10 answers · asked by Janice 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ive know this guy for a while now , we had a really great connection but unfortunately he has had a gf for about 4 years. I told him nothing could ever go on with us because i dont mess with people who are taken. Ive just been out of town for 8 weeks when i came back my inbox was flooded with emails from him , he sent me an email just about everyday saying he misses me etc. He also says he wants to marry me he loves me more than anything and thinks were going to be together forever. He knows hes not going to get anywhere sexually with me and he also knows im not silly and am not waiting around thinking were going to be together. So why does he bother with this?. He calls me a lot as well and sends messages to my phone , hes even given me gifts ( which i sent back). why is he doing all this? he even stays home some nights to see if im online.

2007-10-06 18:00:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I left my husband because we were having problems we got in a fight because I wouldnt sleep with him because I was, well raped and im too i dont know i feel gross and he was helping me get rhough it and being very helpful taking me to counseling and all those good things to help me but i wasnt ready to get to having intercourse and well we got in a fight and the fight got physical and well the cops came and took him and sent me back to c, he's in the military, but i kn he's doing good our couosleor tells me so, and he's going to classes and all the classes for anger management and i miss him alot i been through alot and he's the only one that kns about my accident and my cousin and well my parents and everyone is acting like im no even married still like i need to fond some one else, i dont kn they kn the fight got physical but i want to back to him I need him bt i also feel like my family needs a proof that im goignt o be safe. i dont know what do you think... And PLS dont be rude....

2007-10-06 17:59:28 · 16 answers · asked by ARCE 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i want me and my bf to be a real coulpe i mean weve been datin for 6 days now and we only hug alittle and we barely talk and his locker is like four lockers across from mines so yeah...but for some reason to me i dont think we seem like a real couple wut can i do to help

2007-10-06 17:55:33 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

...your significant other goes out EVERY night and hasn't touched you in months. You have a child together so you are trying to make it work. But you are human and have "needs". If you feel your partner is cheating or has for some reason no sex drive can you have a fling to satisfy your urges or are you still just a cheater?

2007-10-06 17:54:33 · 8 answers · asked by SWEETSNBEATS 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

How long does water take to boil in the microwave?

2007-10-06 17:51:47 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i mean what the hell is wrong with the politicianss? they hav no traffic system, no balance in the economy and i was watchin indian tv wit my mom and it showed little children, specifically girls being sold to other families for money...what the hell- selling babies to make money?! thats crazy....i mean i reallly think they need a strict ruler to impose better laws/regulationss
and the prostitution system in india is really bad, they hav specific towns for prostitues...and also the caste system is absurd, who the hell cares wt god u worship, its all the same!

and wy not use thos smart brains to solve the poverty there!! jesus if they cud jus all get along equally wit out all those castes, none of this wud happen. and dont even get me started on their prostitution townss...

2007-10-06 17:47:18 · 9 answers · asked by apple 5 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating my boyfriend for 15 months, and we recently just had sex for the first time and we suck. It doesnt feel good for us, and it hurts me every time. I really regret having sex and i really dont enjoy it. Everyone always tells me how good sex feels, but i dont really kno what they are talkin about bc it doesnt feel good. im sick of my boyfriend complaining on how we suck.

2007-10-06 17:44:11 · 6 answers · asked by curioussssss jackie 1 in Singles & Dating

10 points for the most articulate answer.

2007-10-06 17:43:21 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I would bet anyone £1000 that they couldn't find someone for me...any takers?

2007-10-06 17:38:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He is soooo sweet and romantic sometimes, but other times he can be such an ***! He wont call me for like a week or two, when i say I love you he goes "ditto", and he pisses me off on purpose! We have broken up many times, but always end up together again. I do love him, I just dont know what to do. Help?

2007-10-06 17:31:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you know the real reason,
why being gay is considered a sin?
I know why, I would like see if any of you know the real reason why.
It's in the bible is NOT the answer. so give it some thought okay thanks. I've only told one person so lets see what you say. when it is done I will tell you and you will know if you don't now.

2007-10-06 17:29:11 · 11 answers · asked by nahrutu 1 in Singles & Dating

oka this is kinda a rant but theres a question on the end...

this girl who i barely know [friends w. my friends] decided to talk to my boyfriend [now ex boyfriend] and make up lies about me.. she told him that i was extreemly mad at him and that i'd been cheating on him the entire time i was with him.. that of course led to a break up.. but she says that she didnt think anything would happen... i just dont understand how she could make stuff up like that and tell him.. she kinda insecure so she "freaks out" talking to guys.. so was she just running at the mouth? ugh.. im just so annoyed. but what do you think made her do this?!

2007-10-06 17:29:04 · 2 answers · asked by TB eventer! 4 in Singles & Dating

I'm not sure if this guy likes me...I had a feeling he did, but I'm not sure now. He frequently asks me to hang out (we're in college) and a lot of times I can't make it, but I always let him know beforehand. And when he can't make it to something he usually lets me know. Well he asked me to dinner a couple days ago, and he never came. Turns out he completely forgot and was at a meeting for a club...I was kinda disappointed. He apologized though. I dunno, maybe he doesn't like me as much as I thought, or maybe not at all? or am I just overreacting

2007-10-06 17:27:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't want to offend anybody, but I've noticed through observation that black guys tends to like girls with big butts, more than white guys do... Is that true?? Do only black guys like the big butts, or is it the same all around...???

2007-10-06 17:26:02 · 11 answers · asked by djdanger92 3 in Singles & Dating

well I kindda have self esteem issues.. maybe cuz my mom has a big nose and i think i do to. but i might not.. people tell me i'm pretty all the time and guys wanna hangout with me allot. whyyy!! how can i help my self esteem issues! maybe it's just the teenage years where you start feeling ugly?

2007-10-06 17:25:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How can i get my boyfriend to wear cologne and aftershave.
I would like him to smell nice.

2007-10-06 17:22:16 · 18 answers · asked by Glamourous_Girl 5 in Singles & Dating

Son of a Frick! I'm a 28 year old with morals, I do not believe people should have sex before marriage. I hate the on-line crap, they're pscyhotic as it is in person, give them a computer and it's worse! I find the best way to meet a person is, going for a cup of coffee, or a for a drink like we did in the old days. I'm very proud of my choices in life. God forbid I find the one normal guy in LA. After all the horror stories half my clients tell me, I am happy to be single. I just find it frustrating! In a society where women are as sexually open as men are (somtimes even worse!) does someone who values it stand a chance?

2007-10-06 17:14:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

guys please help me decipher this......here are the facts:

since the day we met we have been texting a lot everday
we have been spending saturday nights alone together just hanging out
we hang out so often.....watching movies and dining out
we often spend whole day until wee hours during weekends
he listens to me intently when i speak
he shares his inner thoughts with me
we have been having deep conversations
i think we've gone really close in a matter of 3 months
one time he mentioned love is NOT his priority
he's acting like a good friend though
he empathize with my feelings

please tell me guys, with the above facts, is it just purely friendship that he wants or it could be more?

2007-10-06 17:09:35 · 21 answers · asked by damsel in distress 1 in Singles & Dating