okay im single and theres this guy i really really like. but he has a girlfriend who really doesnt desevre him. shes young and immature and she starts fights and talks behind everyones back. and hes the sweetest guy i know and never said anything bad about anyone and hes never beenin a fight and tries to avoid them. I get the feeling she doesnt really like him even though she blabs on myspace about how sweet he is. it seemslike shes using him to show off. just cuz hes 2 years older than her. i dont know why he likes her shes not good for him. me and him are a better match. i wish ican make him see that. what should i do??
2007-10-06 18:18:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sooner or later he will see how she really is. Something will happen to make him see or someone will tell him what she is doing. It will just need time to work out.
2007-10-07 13:10:55 · answer #1 · answered by jeri_lynn_14 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I ma sorry but it sounds like he is happy. I know from personal experience that I felt I was better for a girl than the guy she was with, but that is their decision and if you are this guys friend you have to support him. If this girl is actually as bad as you say, he will eventually get it that she is not for him. If that happens and he is single, then you can make your feelings clear, but dont try to break them up or anyhting like that. Time will tell the truth about this girl and you and him. if they are not exclusive however then you can let him know, i dont know their sitaution. If you feel like you really cant live with yourself without telling him, although I wouldn't advise doing it, you can sit him down and tell him how you feel, just realize that if he doesnt feel the smae way that can cause problems in your friendship and put everyhting in jepordy. Also, if you tell him, dont bash his current gf, that wont get you on his good side. Good luck
2007-10-07 01:31:32 · answer #2 · answered by Dan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well don't stoop to her level and talk behind her back to everyone, just make yourself available when he finally wakes up and realizes what a joke she is... Then when he needs to talk you're there, when he needs to laugh, you're there, and if he needs to cry, well again you're there. Show him what a REAL friend is about and then everything else should fall into place...Some people seem to think it's better to have a warm body next to them than a no body, and fear being alone. Some people in this mind set take unneccessary abuse, and the others deliver the unneccessary abuse to unsuspecting victims, emotionally, mentally, verbally etc... Maybe you can show him he deserves better than what he's being given... I hope he is not sadistic and enjoys the juvenile, immature games this girl is playing.....
2007-10-07 01:27:07 · answer #3 · answered by markley_p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it wouldn't be the right thing to do no matter how much you like him. i really wish i could tell you something else but he seems happy with her and you really shouldn't interfere with their relationship. you're just going to have to realize that he has a girlfriend and move on. sorry.
2007-10-07 01:22:17 · answer #4 · answered by pinkky (: 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you are about to snap that guy out of his gf's hands. Treat him the way you want to be treated, sooner or later he will see your intention.
2007-10-07 01:26:35 · answer #5 · answered by judy06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seriously dont try to do anything ---- if he refuses to see what you do you cant force him to ---- let him go and move on to someone that cares for you ---- sorry and best wishes
2007-10-07 01:24:26 · answer #6 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋