...your significant other goes out EVERY night and hasn't touched you in months. You have a child together so you are trying to make it work. But you are human and have "needs". If you feel your partner is cheating or has for some reason no sex drive can you have a fling to satisfy your urges or are you still just a cheater?
2007-10-06 17:54:33 · 8 answers · asked by SWEETSNBEATS 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
In my personal situation, the answer was yes ....
2007-10-06 17:58:18 · answer #1 · answered by beckymarie2 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Babe. Yes you are cheating. I think you should confront him and tell him your suspicions of what hes doing. Would it make you feel ok to live togeter but not sleep together? just break it off and play. sounds abit shi t but your really in a spot. Just say in these words "I dont think u love me anymore; we arent having sex and i think ur sleeping around. Im going out and having some fun and i suggest you do the same. its between me and you and lets keep it together for " " ".
thats all u need to do. im sure heel be happy.
2007-10-06 20:36:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you want to be a CHEATER yurself!! Have him see aa Dr., go with him, don't be shy, you can find out alot!! Talk to him, don't cheat!! If you need a man that bad, then live alone&get yourself a boy toy for those special needs!!
2007-10-07 04:35:33 · answer #3 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk it out and find out what the problem is with this significant other. If he/she cares, they will entertain this idea and talk it with you, and y'all will have an understanding of the situation. It may be medical, or even to the extreme, boredom. Happens to alot of couples, and can be worked out. If y'all want it to. Good luck.
2007-10-06 22:05:24 · answer #4 · answered by tennman012000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to cheat, I don't think your heart is happy, and kids shouldn't be a reason to stay together, if momma isn't happy no one is happy,...that means kids too. Cheating will cause fights, sadness, and pain. To me sounds like you already have that.
2007-10-10 17:28:13 · answer #5 · answered by butterflygirltats 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
still just a cheater unless you decide that its over and tell him first.
2007-10-06 17:58:28 · answer #6 · answered by Ms Always Right 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i guess it is...why not talk to him and make out a solution?
2007-10-06 18:00:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have had a child then yes its cheating! Have sex with the father duh!
2007-10-06 17:58:50 · answer #8 · answered by babygirlluvsgreen570 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋