i just broke up with my bf yesterday. well, he broke up with me coz it was kinda my fault..well, it was my fault. we argued yesterday night and i tried talking to him about our problems, if we can fix it..but he cusses me out and say all those horrible mean things to me and i couldnt take it and handle it anymore. so, i created a myspace account and messaged his friend that i had a little interest in him, which i know i shouldnt have done that coz it was so wrong for me to do and i regret doing that..i guess coz he yells at me and cusses me out and stuff. anyway, his friend called him and told him about what i wrote...then he called me and he said it was so over between me and him.
I dont know what to do. does that consider cheating, coz he said that was cheating and im a cheater. now that were not together..its like i cant help being alone..its like i have to have a bf and someone to be with. should i move on already and fine someone new? plz help me.
2007-10-06 18:35:40 · 5 answers · asked by chellcie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't stay with a man who cussed you out. That's verbal and emotional abuse, and physical abuse will follow. Talk to your girlfriends so you aren't so emotionally dependent on a man. Then you will only accept one who is respectful of a lady.
2007-10-06 18:39:20 · answer #1 · answered by nondescript 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
online cheating is still cheating, and if you messaged another guy about intrest in him, then yeah, basically you cheated on him. I'd kill my man if he did that. And I could never do that to him. We have enough respect for each other that when we get to that point, we have agreed, we will leave instead of putting each other through that kind of emotional abuse.
2007-10-06 18:42:56 · answer #2 · answered by Ms Always Right 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry dont feel you are the one at fault --- he is abusive and uncaring and you should let him go and find someone that will treat you with caring and respect ---- no you did not cheat --- you had no interest in the guy you were angry and looking to get back at your boyfriend --- i suggest the best way to get back is delete him from your life and dont have anything to do with him --- best wishes
2007-10-06 18:42:27 · answer #3 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.Move on and enjoy the fun.Find someone who'll treat you with respect and not use a silly prank.As an excuse to hold you responsible for his bad behavior
2007-10-06 18:42:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need a new man you don't need his crap
2007-10-06 18:41:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋