Family & Relationships - 6 October 2007

2007-10-06 13:26:38 · 6 answers · asked by Tinkerbel 1 in Singles & Dating

alright, i'll try to summarize this briefly.

last year (and this year) i really liked this guy. he's a year older than me (a junior in high school) and since it was tradition to ask an upperclassmen to our dance, i asked him. he couldn't go (but he had a valid reason!!) and after the dance he actually apologized for not going w/ me and asked me if i asked someone else. so last year i was really shy, always doing stupid things around him.

but this year, i personally have grown much prettier (a lot say i look like vanessa hudgens) and a couple days ago we were both in the same club and i made him laugh a lot. we were so comfortable around each other!! do you think i have a chance?? even though i asked him to the dance and all?? i mean, we def are comfortable around each other, but will that be enough? since he's a year older and all??

GUY! what would you think of that?? thanks all!! i'll give 10 pts to the top answerer!

2007-10-06 13:26:12 · 12 answers · asked by My Lovee 3 in Singles & Dating

every one keeps on telling me that a guy should ask a girl out first...HOW DO U FEEL.. GUYS

2007-10-06 13:23:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

guys wicth would you rather prefer
1. a girl who is Mrs.Perfect that hates anyone who doesn't like here
2. a girl down to earth but very shy

2007-10-06 13:19:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If this is real this woman is in her own world. Post comments and see if you think this is real or fake.

2007-10-06 13:13:59 · 3 answers · asked by wanda t 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am writing a college essay about this topic and I need your help please. It's been kinda difficult to write this essay, your answers will be helpful. Why do some people look at strippers the same way they look at sex workers? I don't know why and thanks for your help with my essay.

2007-10-06 13:13:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-06 13:13:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-06 13:08:28 · 29 answers · asked by purdygoode 5 in Singles & Dating

Well, I really like this guy, see, and I want to ask him to the Sadie Hawkins dance (which is a while off, mind you). I know him fairly well and everything, but the thing is...

A) He's a senior whilst I'm a sophomore [[and apparently there's some big maturity difference Oo;]].

B) He likes a girl in a town like forty-five minutes away [[but he has no car or cell phone and she doesn't go to our school or anything]] and they aren't dating, but they may in the near future.

C) If I ask and he says no, he'll know I like him for sure and I'm quite positive many other girls in the department (like a school department) we're in like him too. There's one who follows him around who really irritates him even though he doesn't show it, and it's hilarious.

D) I'm afraid that even if he does say yes, it'll probably just be because he's too nice to say no.

Finally...

E) I dunno how the hell I would ask him as friends or a backup or anything o.o;; Any ideas?? D':

2007-10-06 13:06:44 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my ex of 1 and a half years broke up 2 weeks ago. It was her decision and she wanted to stay friends, but she was probably just using me as a rebound and keeping me close till she found something better. She's already hooked up with a guy while she was drunk I love her soooo much and I decided to play the same game that she's playing. I started going out with another girl to get her a lil jealous and try to win her back and as soon as she found out I was with another girl she flipped out on me. Should I just let her cool down before we talk or how should I handle this situation?

2007-10-06 13:06:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we were classmate before and we kinda hang out each other, then we became friends then suddenly i asked her if i will court her will there be a big chance we could be together and she said maybe, then later i told her my true feelings about her and right now she knew about my feelings but unfortunately our communication has cut short bec. she went to the other place but she'll be back this coming summer

2007-10-06 13:06:04 · 2 answers · asked by Dijon D 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm sitting here, after one of toughest fallouts of seeing this guy I though was perfect. I'm sick of these guys who use me as arm candy, or try to "get some".

I have mastered the skill of getting guys to notice me, with the eye contact, bumping into them and touching there shoulder, telling them how nice they smell, dancing with them, wearing cute outfits, staying fit. basically I have figured out if I wanted to I could leave with any guy one points out.

Every guy i have ever dated has been a pig.
I can't stop getting the attention of guys who end up breaking my heart or using me.

I wish I knew how to because so far out of all the guys who's attention i have gotten have never cared about me for who I am.
How can I go about meeting people who arnt just the obnoxious college frat boys. How do I get the nice guys attention?

i'm turning 20, i'm a virgin, and i'm clueless on how to find a nice guy

is there really such a thing?
if so
How do I meet them and flirt w/ them?

2007-10-06 13:05:26 · 5 answers · asked by Coxie Megan 4 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years now and have lived together for a little over a year. We've been discussing getting married a lot lately, and I want a real wedding like every woman wants. I have a large family, and I want them to all be there.

So, I want at least 50 or less guests. We might not be engaged for another year or so, but I'm wondering if I should set a bit of my paycheck aside for a wedding now?

2007-10-06 13:04:42 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My mom doesn't want me liking a certain type a guy and thats basically all I am attracted too, and I really want to be with this guy that she doesn't want me to go with, what should I do?

2007-10-06 13:01:04 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay I starting seeing his guy and we been hanging out almost every night. One night things got kind of serious and we had sex. Now I Have ask him to be my boyfriend but in return he said friendships last longer than relationships. So I was like okay. He still treats me nice and still comes to my house almost every night.What can be the reason he don't want to be in relationship with me?

2007-10-06 12:55:57 · 26 answers · asked by asia 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-06 12:51:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A friend of mine says it is bad that only four or five nights a week my family has a family meal together. My fiance works and my little daughters have to be in bed by 7 so I give them and my 3 year old niece that lives with me dinner at 6. My soon-to-be-step-kids eat by 7:30 with me and if their father is home him too. On Saturdays and Sundays we are always all over the place and I can never cook a meal so I order out or make something in the microwave and we all eat at different times. Is this bad?

2007-10-06 12:45:55 · 9 answers · asked by Jasmine 4 in Family

has anyone else ever felt this way?

2007-10-06 12:43:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-06 12:43:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

striped shorts and sandals, and a cowboy hat. Need all the help I can get.

2007-10-06 12:41:57 · 12 answers · asked by Sporadic 4 in Singles & Dating

Help! Me and my sis need space! Our room is so cluttered and we get so angry at each other! Our apartment is small because my mom died 2 years ago and she was making half of the money. We just moved in about 2 weeks ago. Me and my sis are getting on each other's last nerves! We do have the biggest room in the apartment and my dad and brother each have their own room. Me and my sis have our own bathroom, but it takes forever to get a turn. Is there any ideas of how to cope with my sis and sharing a bathroom in the morning? We have a bunk bed so it takes away some of the clutter but we have one desk and one laptop which we can't cope with because I (Maria) am in 10th grade and she (Kiera) is in 9th. Sure we usually get along but the room thing isn't working! If you have any tips please help!

~Maria~And~Kiera~

2007-10-06 12:41:30 · 10 answers · asked by Maria 2 in Family

of course i know the literal meaning

one of my buddy commented by photo sayin 'ur not too shabby'
and it was a good photo
was she being sarcastic, or something else?

i think she meant 'hey, u look pretty nice'

anybody got idea?

2007-10-06 12:40:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really love my children. However, I often find that it is hard for me to relate to my daughter (10). Why is it that I like it better to hold her brother(11) in my arms, to talk to him about life and to relate to him in general? I feel like a monster about this and I even have nightmares about me abandoning her. She is a lovely, beautiful, good and wonderful child. She is 2nd of three children. The youngest is also a boy. Help me please!

2007-10-06 12:36:05 · 11 answers · asked by ssncnmks 2 in Family

how should i do my hair to get my crush to notice me? please help asap!!!

2007-10-06 12:35:37 · 8 answers · asked by pinkgirl5 1 in Singles & Dating

since we got married (2 months ago) my husband started to speak very bad to me, he left his job and since then he didn't do anything to get another. he keeps saying that he has not studies to get a proper job. anyway when he used to work i earned double than him but this never it was a problem for me. also he's saying that i have studies (law school) and always i'll be better than him.he's not doing anything all day. i'm working, i'm paying the rent, i'm paying for food and his beers, i'm doing everything in the house. I never made him feel bad for this and always i tried to encourage him.but he can't appreciate all these and he's giving back only very bad words. and tonight he went to sleep at his mom's

2007-10-06 12:29:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

just trust me-they're bad. for example, i got grounded for my last report card that was 6 A's and one B+. they even admit to "controlling me". and they tell me that they do certain things for the sole purpose of "controlling me". i try to tell them that i don't want to be controlled. that i deserve to make my own decisionss. they always say that the only reason they control me is because i dont tell them enough about my own life, but no way i would ever tell them about my life, even though i have nothing really to hide. its just that i really am starting to hate them. if they find anything out about my life that they dont like, they'll just do something to make it the way they want. and also, ive never been able to talk to them about anything, and i dont want to. all they do is preach to me about what i should do, and i HATE THAT! i have no clue how to just have some independance from them! and no, i havent done anything bad in the past, so they dont have a reason not 2 trust me

2007-10-06 12:29:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-06 12:28:45 · 2 answers · asked by calliegirl93 1 in Singles & Dating

tried everything........ lots of sex, good sense of humour, dress nicely, good food (served on time) up for any new thing, Encouraging and supportive.......... what's missing? please tell me

2007-10-06 12:27:57 · 55 answers · asked by sweet-innocence 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, I really like this guy, and he knows that I like him, and I dont think he likes me, but I want him to get to know me, and I want to know him. How do I do it? The thing is I am Major shy too, and if I went up to him, I think he would walk away... I have tried to talk to him ( Help him ) in Science b4, and he only glanced at me, and spoke so low I couldnt hear him. What do I do? Expecially if he wont talk to me... HELP!!!

2007-10-06 12:27:08 · 4 answers · asked by Star 3 in Singles & Dating

What are the signs tat a guy wants to kiss you because my friend told me this guy she liked wherelike nose to nose but never kissed and she got really upset.... So y didn't he kiss her she really needs an answer and i would really appreaciate if i could give some to her... But yea y didn't he kiss her and what are the signs that he wants to kiss you but doen't know if it's the right time but you somehow show him without saying it...

2007-10-06 12:26:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating