I'm sitting here, after one of toughest fallouts of seeing this guy I though was perfect. I'm sick of these guys who use me as arm candy, or try to "get some".
I have mastered the skill of getting guys to notice me, with the eye contact, bumping into them and touching there shoulder, telling them how nice they smell, dancing with them, wearing cute outfits, staying fit. basically I have figured out if I wanted to I could leave with any guy one points out.
Every guy i have ever dated has been a pig.
I can't stop getting the attention of guys who end up breaking my heart or using me.
I wish I knew how to because so far out of all the guys who's attention i have gotten have never cared about me for who I am.
How can I go about meeting people who arnt just the obnoxious college frat boys. How do I get the nice guys attention?
i'm turning 20, i'm a virgin, and i'm clueless on how to find a nice guy
is there really such a thing?
if so
How do I meet them and flirt w/ them?
2007-10-06 13:05:26 · 5 answers · asked by Coxie Megan 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you probably unknowenly have a list that you follow in the picking of a guy. figure the list and change it.
2007-10-06 15:31:24 · answer #1 · answered by Jon G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your Korean friend might have some deeper things going on. I suggest you talk to your boyfriend about how you are feeling and the concerns you have. Maybe you might want to take a week or two break from the relationship to see if it's time to move on. But don't leave you current boyfriend for someone you are just "kind of" attracted to. Evaluate your feelings and see if you are serious about breaking up, or if your friend is just a temporary attraction. In the end, the most important thing you can do is talk to your boyfriend. Communication really is the key to relationships.
2016-05-17 21:53:55 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok here is advice from a male virgin. there are very few " nice guys" Out there these days because of how society has demanded guys and girls treat each other. Plus you in college, and thats the worst place to meet a nice guy because most college guys are party animals. Also try limiting your time at college parties.
In order to meet a nice guy you need to know where nice guys congregate at the most. There are 2 places.
1. church: many many nice guys there that are very humble and down to earth, but that might not be for you because maybe u dont believe in god.
2. this second spot is good to go for anyone.
Charity organizations or charity events:truck loads of nice guys there, and let me tell you that any guy that is willing to take time out of his busy schedule and give to a worthy cause and ask nothing in return will surely be able to treat you great.
From one virgin to another, now go forth young lady and
HAPPY HUNTINGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG!!!! lol
2007-10-08 06:00:49 · answer #3 · answered by virgin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you feel like arm candy, but it is a compliment and the simple answer is a more mature man. I've always been successful dating lady's sometimes 10yrs younger than myself. If the guy relates to your life style and your friends, go for the guy and let him treat you like your a gift.
2007-10-06 13:19:28 · answer #4 · answered by Michael M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to church! Try it!
tomorrow is Sunday, wake up early and go to the nearest church
There are a lot of nice guys who aren't "pigs" as you put it.
2007-10-06 13:10:58 · answer #5 · answered by Jared 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋