I'm 61, told that I look much younger, I live in a small town in the south. How do I meet a nice man to date?

Answer 1

Hi, you could try a local church. If it is a small town, trouble is, everyone knows and is related to everyone else. lol. So, your best bet is to try a nearby town. You can also try one of the dating sites on line. Good luck and hope it works out for you. Some guy is gonna be very lucky!

Answer 2

First let me say good for you. Being 61 or older does not mean that you are dead or that your physical, emotional, or social needs cease.Hence, I hope people stop finding it unusual.Since you say you live in a small southern town, it is difficult to ascertain the composition of your town and how many eligible men reside there. So I will suggest a few ideas:1)don't limit yourself with artificial considerations. The only important point for you to worry about is if the guy is nice, loves you and has most of the qualities you want in a man.2)expand you contact areas, increase the social outlets you visit and not just settle for bingo parlors, churches, old people days or nights out.While all are good places to meet nice guys, you are limited to a smaller circle of men.3) decide in advance if you would date a younger man, what your range will be if you do and how much the opinions of family and friends will influence that decision before you are faced with that issue or possibility.4) if all fails, you might want to think about dating sites; but let that be a last resort. However, I have a sneaking suspicion that you are going to have more suitors to contend with than you ever thought possible and that your biggest problem will be whom to choose. Please keep us posted on how things are coming along with you. Good luck.

Answer 3

I can only speak to Pennsylvania, but State College, PA might be what you are looking for. The home of Penn State University and a huge annual Arts Festival, it has reasonable housing (though it is getting more expensive). More companies are locating there so opportunities for work outside the university are growing. I don't know if I would consider it a city...but more like a very large small town. Pennsylvania's small cities (Harrisburg, Scranton, Erie, Altoona) have high unemployment and are not exactly artsy. Pennsylvania as a whole continues to hemmorage jobs. Pittsburgh is a great place to live IF you can find work.

Answer 4

I have always found you attract guys a lot easier when you are not looking. Get involved in activities around town. Go to the library/town meetings or get involved in activities guys like, bowling allys, car races, golf courses, put yourself out there but don't be so forward you scare a nice guy away. If you meet a guy you would like to know better, invite him for dinner, with you and your friends, possibly a 4some for cards.

Answer 5

you don't, simple unless you frequent pubs and then guys will think you are easy find yourself a epal, or somebody like that and enjoy words because once you get to a certain age you are not past it by any means just it is simply harder to find that special person, good luck I guess you are a female, some of us guys are only an email away ( hint hint )

Answer 6

Would you date under-18's?