Family & Relationships - 6 October 2007

I find lots (i mean really big lot of) of boys fall madly in love of a girls. But rarely few girl madly love a guy. Take Indian cinema for example you find that actress dont have much role other than glamour. Glamour here means women attracting men or not women being attracted by men. More elaborately the love is 2 way or if its 1 way then its always guy to girl & never the other way. We might find other way, but they are 1 in a million. I find 1000's of boys glued to sexy sceens in tv. But how many girls would like to watch such sceens. Are men race cursed ? But wrong did we do to be cursed in such way. God you are highly unfair :( Any idea on how to go about handling this. I have been hurt many times b'cos of this. I have a crush on a girl. But the girl doesn't have a crush on me. In fact girls never had real crush on anyone, they love money, high position & other materialist things. My poor sould is like being in football in a tournament, being kiked around by these girl players :(

2007-10-06 07:02:25 · 10 answers · asked by Dhanasekaran K 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-06 07:01:52 · 8 answers · asked by september_serenade 1 in Family

when im in school, i think i am different, yesterday a new teacher of history got to the school, she was presentating herself when suddenly she asked if she was making a joke cuz i was smiling since she got to the classroom, then a guy from my class told her that i was happy all the time, and the rest of the class agreed with him, but i dont know how i feel anymore, because right now i can feel like laughing out loud but in a whiole i can feel like crying in a corner, but they say i am happy all the time, and looking it at that way, im always laughing in the school, but yet, sometimes i feel really sad, but the side of me that they know is being happy and smiling, so it is that i really am happy all the time and i feel sad because of the wrong thing, or is it that they only know that part of me?

2007-10-06 06:58:18 · 2 answers · asked by jose r 3 in Friends

a) My husband/wife cheating on me.

b) My husband/wife stealing money from me.

c) My husband/wife physically, verbally and emotionally abusing me.

2007-10-06 06:55:05 · 23 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 in Marriage & Divorce

and they cannot function without seeing/connecting with them at least once in two days?

What makes humans co-dependent in this way?

2007-10-06 06:52:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well i dunt reely know where hes from but i cant date him and we kinda were last yr..can u help me??

2007-10-06 06:52:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and i have been talking about me going on birth control. Well i made an appnt for today and went to my appnt and everything. Well i was really nervous about the appnt and i've been talking to my boyfriend about it alot and he knows how nervous i've been. So i got back from my appnt, he knew it was today. DOESNT EVEN ASK ME HOW IT WENT. He forgot. After he knew how nervous i was for it, we even discussed it yesterday. I'm just a little aggravated / hurt that he didnt even remember. Am i wrong?

2007-10-06 06:50:12 · 5 answers · asked by hot_pink_sunsets 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok so here is the story..I have been best friends with this guy for probably about 3-4 years now. A few weeks ago, he asked me out. I, too, really liked him and was glad he finally made a move. So last night at the football game, ppl were kinda pushin him to hug me or do somethin so he put his arm around me, and I really wanted it but I was nervous about the crowd, so I pushed his hand off. I felt really bad, especially when he walked away and didn't seem to talk to me much the rest of the night. I feel really bad, and I really liked the image of his arm around me and how it felt, but I guess I am just nervous about the crowd and what people will think about me. Also, my friend had just gone out w/ this guy last night and they were already hugging and everythin, and I was going out with this guy for weeks and we didnt really make any moves. Should I just let him make the moves and enjoy it, or should I be a little bit nervous about the crowd? Help?

2007-10-06 06:49:08 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I try to tease her before i actually have sex with her. But i'm not 100% sure how to do it right... Can anyone let me know how to do it properly... =P

2007-10-06 06:47:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Been back at home for 6 weeks now, and we've been trying to work things out. We both had our faults, but my spouse seems to forget everything he "realized" in the summer, and feels now that he did nothing wrong. Then, we have not been intimate for the entire time either, and he was pressuring me, having tantrums for the first 3 weeks, and then I'd feel guilty. Then, after the 3am yelling matches stopped, it evened out to maybe once every 4 or so days. The Dr. told us not to have heated conversaitons, and to each have a personal space to go to when we feel frustrated or need to relax. Now that we did, my space seems to be fair game to knock on the door every 10 mins. If I don't cuddle when he wants he views it as rejection, if I want to take a walk then all of a sudden I'm ignoring him, if we're on the couch, he stares at me and when I ask him if there's something to say, he says no. Then, if he starts discussing why I don't want to cuddle, I see the fight coming, so I keep taking ....

2007-10-06 06:46:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and i have been talking about me going on birth control. Well i made an appnt for today and went to my appnt and everything. Well i was really nervous about the appnt and i've been talking to my boyfriend about it alot and he knows how nervous i've been. So i got back from my appnt, he knew it was today. DOESNT EVEN ASK ME HOW IT WENT. He forgot. After he knew how nervous i was for it, we even discussed it yesterday. I'm just a little aggravated / hurt that he didnt even remember. Am i wrong?

2007-10-06 06:44:07 · 5 answers · asked by This is me. 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 20 years old, when my parent's live home alone i have panic attacks, i start thinking ''what if they have an accident?'' What if they never come back? What if they dissappear for ever? What will it be of me?, I start having chest pains and feeling deezy, I dont have other family in this country, i have suffered this since i was a little kid. Please help me this hurts so much, this stops me from living a peacefull life.

2007-10-06 06:42:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My fiance's ex mother-in-law just showed up to my yard sale. She was really nasty and disrespectful to me, then to him, and she left. He's afraid she will come back with the ex-wife. If that happens, what should I do? He wants to just pack up and leave town...I don't want to be run off my own porch...

2007-10-06 06:42:17 · 10 answers · asked by leletanner 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i am 14 but very responsible

2007-10-06 06:41:44 · 5 answers · asked by kellyann 1 in Singles & Dating

when you love someone and your father or mother tries to keep you from seeing them or talking to them they would do anything to keep yall away from one another

2007-10-06 06:41:30 · 5 answers · asked by mara 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i wanna know some websites to find girlfriends

2007-10-06 06:40:04 · 10 answers · asked by jamz 1 in Singles & Dating

who can i say to my father that he never spend to much time with me and if i try he says that he is working and he doesn't have time to joke with me

2007-10-06 06:38:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Is it for sex? To mold them as a perfect girlfriend? Just biology?

I'm asking about me---19 and the guy is 27.

2007-10-06 06:36:38 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i bought some g star jeans from an expensive shop called Aspecto. The buttons from both sides at the back fell off and i went to get a refund or an exchange and the manager at the store said he cant exchange or refund me because i have cut the threading. Basically he accused me for taking them buttoms off. i am not with a useless pair of jeans. what should i do ? and where do i stand ? please help thanks

2007-10-06 06:33:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

why we do this and what is the other things that we can do ?
is it bad to do this or not ?

2007-10-06 06:32:49 · 3 answers · asked by 7oody 2 in Singles & Dating

i kno that wuz bad but

i basically said i think our relationship needs a break i will call you and let you know what going on with our baby since im pregnant.

well he called my bestfriend and her boyfriend and went and asked her why i was doing this she told him it was probably just my hormones from pregnancy.

i dont really know why i did it

but anyway he kept calling me and finally i answered and he wuz cryin saying he didnt do anything wrong. he went and got 2 jobs just for us and he loves me and im the only person he has.

he cried for like a hour and its like i didnt even tell him that we needed space cuz he is still callin.

how do i tell him that i still want space. i hate hearing him cry?

2007-10-06 06:32:47 · 6 answers · asked by Money Makes Me C(u)m 1 in Singles & Dating

I am six teen years old christian who have a very overprotective mother. What can i do to make or spot being overprotective or what can i say to her to her to make this stop. I dont get to go out with friends. The inly place i get to go is church or school. What can i do. I need your help.

2007-10-06 06:31:47 · 13 answers · asked by Jay 2 in Family

I am engaged to a man who gets a little abusive when he is drinking, he slaps me pushes me and then always runs off in the truck. Last night he took all of our guns, talked a bunch of nonsense threatened to call the cops and report my car stolen I love him but i dont know what to do

2007-10-06 06:31:12 · 22 answers · asked by deeeee 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-06 06:30:07 · 5 answers · asked by Bob 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-06 06:28:38 · 5 answers · asked by abhishek r 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it wierd that me and fiance are really close, were each others best friends and spend time together. and we do gross personal stuff around eachother with no problem and some of my friends think that is wierd? i dont think it is i just wanted some feed back on it.

2007-10-06 06:28:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my mom says i'm too young but all i am gonna do is dance with my friends what do you think??

2007-10-06 06:26:50 · 17 answers · asked by .. 3 in Family

my bf has been working on a unibrow for a while now. at the beginning of the school year, his mom made him get it waxed, u no...for school pictures. but. it's growing back, and it is really...yucky, for lack of better words. i want him to do something about it, but...i dont want to hurt his feelings. how do i go about trying to get him to get it waxed?

2007-10-06 06:25:12 · 10 answers · asked by we_are_waiting 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm a 15 year old guy and i'm in 11th grade. i'm really shy and i've never had a gf but i really want one. i need someone to love and i don't know where to look. I need that special girl. The girl who is really pretty, really smart, & really kind/caring. I'm looking for the girl who makes me feel weak at the knees when i just see her. I'm looking for the girl that will be there for me when i'm down. I"m looking for my true love. I'm looking for the girl that i'm going to marry. How do i find her?

2007-10-06 06:24:09 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my friend has been going out with this guy for 2 months. he wanted me to be apart of their 3some but i dont feel comfortable around him. he liked me b4 he asked her out and he still flirts with me and i dont think its right. she is begging me cuz she said if i dont think his ex will n she hates her and he knows. i dont wanna disappoint my friend but im only 14. so wat shud i do HELP PALEEZE!

2007-10-06 06:23:25 · 11 answers · asked by Krazy K 2 in Singles & Dating