a) My husband/wife cheating on me.
b) My husband/wife stealing money from me.
c) My husband/wife physically, verbally and emotionally abusing me.
2007-10-06 06:55:05 · 23 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would say C. Cheating is bad, but if it is a one time thing and he is remorseful, I think we could overcome it. B is bad too, but probably a sign of either trust issues or personal addictions which counseling could help. But one hit and I am out the door.
2007-10-06 08:00:59 · answer #1 · answered by jellybeanchick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Technically, both A & C. I wouldn't tolerate either of those.
I don't think a husband/wife could technically steal money, since the money is shared, when in a marriage....now, they could spend excessive amounts, without truly being able to afford it, but that's not nearly as serious as abuse or adultery.
2007-10-06 13:58:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am married to a guy who verbally emotionally abuses me and the sad thing is I lived with my dad for 17 years and he was the same way but now I am with him and we have 2 kids
2007-10-06 13:58:12 · answer #3 · answered by weeping_spirit 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a) Cheating is a symptom of a bigger problem in the marriage.
b) Can't steal money that you both own.
c) This is what I would not put up with.
2007-10-06 13:58:20 · answer #4 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
C. there is NO EXCUSE for abuse. It's the root of all of the other things you listed. There are so many forms of abuse, emotional, physical, spiritual, monetary, etc etc.
2007-10-06 13:58:27 · answer #5 · answered by Amy Clark 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly I wouldnt put up with any of it but if I have to choose I think "c" is the worst.
2007-10-06 14:50:04 · answer #6 · answered by andreaf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All the above
2007-10-06 13:58:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say that the person was abusing me
2007-10-06 13:57:58 · answer #8 · answered by travelinbianca16 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can tell the Lord has done a mighty work in your life.
2007-10-06 13:59:30 · answer #9 · answered by Sassie 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
D all of the above
2007-10-06 14:03:54 · answer #10 · answered by NONAME 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋