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I'm a 15 year old guy and i'm in 11th grade. i'm really shy and i've never had a gf but i really want one. i need someone to love and i don't know where to look. I need that special girl. The girl who is really pretty, really smart, & really kind/caring. I'm looking for the girl who makes me feel weak at the knees when i just see her. I'm looking for the girl that will be there for me when i'm down. I"m looking for my true love. I'm looking for the girl that i'm going to marry. How do i find her?

2007-10-06 06:24:09 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Umm you are only 15. You need to first be comfortable mixing with girls before thinking love and marriage. Might be simplistic, but I believe love is found when both people are ready and accepting of love, and allow themselves to become vulnerable enough to fall in love.

You do need to learn a lot about people, about what you want, and what you can offer a partner.

2007-10-06 06:27:41 · answer #1 · answered by bumbass2003 3 · 0 0

Love finds you unfortunately. I know you're wanting it to happen quickly but it doesn't work like that. I promise the wait is worth it. Probably the first few girl friends you have wont be marriage material but thats how you learn. Have fun with it, you're 15 don't take everything so serious. Plus if you tell a girl you want to find the girl you want to marry - that would just run her off. Give it time - slow it down.

2007-10-06 06:27:23 · answer #2 · answered by Kimi Cabanna 4 · 0 0

Love finds you.

Now that you've established what you want, which is actually a good list of things to want, what are you putting on the table? What do you want to be for her?

The kind of love (apparently, real love) you're asking about is beautiful and is what will appear in front of you one day. You can't look for it, it appears in front of you and pretty much catches you off guard.

Because of your age, be patient. You'll likely experience a few hit and misses before you find the one you'll marry. Then again, there is such a thing as "high school sweethearts".

2007-10-06 06:26:39 · answer #3 · answered by CUrias 5 · 1 0

I think you must begin by finding yourself and loving who you are. It is impossible to truly love another person, if you do not love and respect yourself. So... even at 15, I would begin there. As far as "finding love," truthfully, I think it will find you, and probably when you least expect it. There is NOTHING like having someone make you weak at the knees. :) It's fabuous, and an experience EVERYONE should have. You are 15, and you have lots of time... Begin with yourself, and that will give you an inner confidence and beauty that "she" will see, and when you meet, and your eyes lock... It will be one of those "life moments," that you will never forget. :)

2007-10-06 06:36:47 · answer #4 · answered by Just a writer at the sea... 3 · 0 0

Well, that kind of chick lived back in our grandparents days. Try going out with friends to diffrent places, park, mall, video store, what ever, "love" won't just fall right in your arms, you have to discover it. Also, your at that age when you think that your first grilfriend is "the one". Hopefully you won't have to go through the heartaches that some of us did when we were your age.

Being shy is also what may keep you from finding a girl, try to be more confident and secure, just don't be too cocky. Just be paciant, before you know it, you'll be with the girl that wants what you have to offer!

2007-10-06 06:36:58 · answer #5 · answered by Johnny Lovegood 4 · 0 0

Don't try so hard!! It will happen in time!! Plus your 15 I'm looking for my true love. I'm looking for the girl that I'm going to marry. Dude your a bit young to be thinking that way!

2007-10-06 06:27:31 · answer #6 · answered by Wendy 7 · 0 0

Well, if you are only 15 then I am not sure that's your wife cause around that age you are other are still playing games, but if you want to start looking then start paying attention to the young Lady's around you at school cause you will get to know them better and know somewhat its like.

2007-10-06 06:30:00 · answer #7 · answered by naudia g 1 · 0 0

You sound really desperate and most women I know don't find that attractive in a man at all. Besides, at 15 you don't need to be thinking of marriage.

2007-10-06 06:26:37 · answer #8 · answered by Gabi ng Lagim 7 · 1 0

By losing yourself.
Just kidding, but youll know when you see her so stop looking but keep an eye out

2007-10-06 06:27:12 · answer #9 · answered by k1_persia 3 · 0 0

you don't find love, love finds you and then it is hang on loosely but don't let go time.meanwhile find other things to occupy you mind and spare time.

2007-10-06 06:37:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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