Okay I starting seeing his guy and we been hanging out almost every night. One night things got kind of serious and we had sex. Now I Have ask him to be my boyfriend but in return he said friendships last longer than relationships. So I was like okay. He still treats me nice and still comes to my house almost every night.What can be the reason he don't want to be in relationship with me?
2007-10-06 12:55:57 · 26 answers · asked by asia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
because he already got what he wanted without dating you
2007-10-06 12:57:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not a boy or a man but felt I needed to answer this: you made it too easy. You gave it up before your relationship was clearly defined and as a man, he doesn't feel he has to give anything else to you. Men like a challenge, they want to know that you are worth the time, worth a commitment. If you don't act like you are, then why should they? SO sorry to be harsh, but that's really how it is. Good luck, and next time, show him how much you're worth and make him prove himself before giving such an important piece of yourself.
2007-10-06 13:02:31 · answer #2 · answered by answergrrl3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats simple, because frienships simply do last longer then relationships. Its a fact. He probably doesn't want to be in a relationship with either because:
1. He knows what its like to date good people, and then break up with them and never talk to them again.
or.
2. He's using you.
Simple as that.
2007-10-06 12:59:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you have put a label on this ("a relationship") then the rules between you and he really do change, and possibly to something that is quite nonsensical. So I recommend that you just enjoy him now as an AUTONOMOUS friend. And if anything else should develop between you and him, then it does. But if not, then be sure to keep him ever as a friend.
Enjoy life!
WK
2007-10-06 13:05:27 · answer #4 · answered by goodguy4u63 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is that either he is afraid of losing you after what your relationship produced, therefore what he said was true. If thats not it, then maybe he is a bad guy for you and is trying to stay friends so that he get it with another girl. Not sure.
2007-10-06 12:59:41 · answer #5 · answered by Wiseman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause you gave up the milk without him buying the cow. You did not give your age, I will guess very young. You hopefully learned from this and will handle different next time. He should've been your boyfriend b4 and then you wouldn't have to ask. Hope you used protection. Learn as you grow my little one.
2007-10-06 13:05:23 · answer #6 · answered by The One 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is like a bee pinch in everyflower on his way. You are not a door mat you are more than him a flower make the place beautiful and bring the right medicine.
2007-10-06 13:24:22 · answer #7 · answered by Charmed_Lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For some reason, guys are just terrified of commitment and they consider a girlfriend status as commitment. Give him some time, if he is coming over every night, you have nothing to lose.
2007-10-06 12:58:36 · answer #8 · answered by Settelbanat 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
going by how old you sound id suggest you never have sex again until your older, he doesnt wanna have a relationship with you also because the sex was a mistake/spur of the moment thing he regrets doing it basically
2007-10-06 12:59:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys are like that, they will have sex it is not "making love" just sex to forefill their own needs and put another notch on their belt, I pity any guy that ends up with a girl who gives herself so freely, because within their marriage later on she will be roaming from guy to guy, guess it is how a cheater starts her or his cheating ways of the future, gives or gets it too freely in their younger years
2007-10-06 13:01:01 · answer #10 · answered by please ask m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mayb because he really likez u n knowz if u 2 go 2gather than it wont work hez just trin 2 keep u around in hiz life
2007-10-06 13:00:59 · answer #11 · answered by keanda g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋