ok so there is this guy i USED to like and i work with (i am18 and he is 17) and he does a lot of drugs. I mean a lot. I want to be friends with him now but he wont even talk to me and I don't even know why. he literally hates me now. I have just started to do some drugs but not very often and nothing hard core and he is starting to get mad at me for that. I went to go smoke with him and he just said that he didn't want to smoke anymore.he just got up and left. i don't know what to do. please help me
2007-10-06 18:23:56 · 19 answers · asked by wintennis91 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am not doing drugs for him!
2007-10-06 18:28:24 · update #1
I understand you're young and peer pressure is difficult to deal with, but you'll learn later in life that only losers use drugs. Drugs may be fun on a recreational basis, but people who abuse them tend to create problems. Avoid the guy! Find a new friend and with any luck, your co-worker will get fired or leave for a different job. It's not worth having any sort of friendship with the person.
2007-10-06 18:29:38 · answer #1 · answered by Answer God 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're really wondering what to do?
You need a friend who doesn't do a lot of drugs. Can't you see what happens when you pursue this loser? You start to follow in his drug taking ways. He's being manipulative to try to make you a full blown drug addict like he is.
The reason he seems to hate you now is simple. When you're a drug addict you don't have interest in girls. That's the effect of the drugs. He could have chosen you. He chose drugs instead.
Drop the creep.
2007-10-07 01:38:06 · answer #2 · answered by atheist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
darling,
don't do drugs to impress him, or even just because you feel like it. that's not only unhealthy, but also not a smart choice. you're ruining your health and your life. next, maybe he's mad at you because you're suddenly doing drugs, and he's upset you'd even try! &what if he left because he knew he made a mistake and you're doing the same thing. and if this is not the case, then just leave him alone. if things weren't meant, then they're not. you've got to communicate in a different environment, and with better people.
good luck.
2007-10-07 01:32:03 · answer #3 · answered by Monica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is what i think, because ur older than him the way he look at u is like u represent the authority in his life, whoever that could be, mom, dad, or sister or whatever. that's why he doesn't talk to u. i bet he doesn't know u like him. i say try to approach him softly and don't talk like u in control, suggest sumtin, like have a drink somewhere then tell him that u like him more than just friends if that's what u meant by "like him"
he doesn't want to smoke with u cause he doesn't like bein in authority and then have to tell u to stop.
i say it could work out
i'm not the perfect person to say that but stay away from drugs
2007-10-07 01:37:50 · answer #4 · answered by Romeo M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you want to do drugs so a druggie will accept you? Clean yourself up before its too late and find a better crowd. Who cares if he hates you maybe he'll do you a favor and stay away from you. Just don't slide down to his level by doing drugs just to get him to like you. No one is worth that.
2007-10-07 01:29:59 · answer #5 · answered by stew 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he cares about you and doesn't want you you be in the same **** state he is in, if he takes a heap of drugs no doubt he has a habit of some sort, don't try to be like him so he likes you Be the dead opposite and keep saying hi to him , if your clean eventually when he realises you haven't given up on your friendship with him , he will come around, only druggies hang with druggies i was one once , when a straighty wants to make friends with you you always guess its to "Help you" when your high you don't want help to come down, just support when you crash. good luck try your best not to get hurt xx
2007-10-07 01:32:35 · answer #6 · answered by getztaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sister. All I can say that, in my opinion, your friend cares more about you than you give him credit for.
Through his experience, he knows drugs are bad news and destructive and does not want to see you partake in that.
Your friend does not want to harm you therefore my advice is to leave him alone.
With kindness.
2007-10-07 01:35:11 · answer #7 · answered by element 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do drugs. And that guy is a druggy. He's a poor choice for a friend. Move on.
2007-10-07 01:27:53 · answer #8 · answered by Omar 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
so.....im asumming u like him cuz u didn't do drugs before n now ur doing them to b w/ by him? if its something like that then tell him straight off that let's start over hey i'm so n so n u r? o n by the way y do u hate me again? n stop doin drugs for him...... its not worth it!!!!!!!!!!
2007-10-07 01:29:03 · answer #9 · answered by sonaischandi 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, why would you want to ruin your life by doing drugs to impress someone. If he hates you then leave him alone. It looks desperate. Let him go.
2007-10-07 01:27:16 · answer #10 · answered by hatingmsn 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋