me and my ex just broke up last night @ homecoming and 1 of my bffs is already going out with him!! should i be mad @ her or him or either or both!!! WHAT THE HECK DO I DO!!! HHHHHHHEEEEELLLLLLPPPPP!!!
2007-10-06 15:02:10 · 23 answers · asked by Emilyy ♫ (: 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask yourself this question: Are these the kind of people you want in your life? Here's another: Would you do what she did? I agree that he was a perfect idiot for doing such a thing; but what your girlfriend did without speaking with you first is unforgivable. So get rid of both of them---unless you love to torture yourself--in which case, keep both of them.
2007-10-06 15:08:03 · answer #1 · answered by iintrepidone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same thing happened to me. This shows you that neither respected you enough to care about your feelings anyway. A real friend wouldn't do that to you. This situation varies on how long you've actually been dating too. Try to talk to your friend and let her know it really bugs you, find out if she really likes him or just decided to swoop in on your loss. If she is a jerk about it all, then I'd say don't bother with her anymore. As far as him, alot of guys need to find another girlfriend right away to validate themselves, so don't think it was all a big plot against you. High school relationships are so fickle, and things change so much throughout high school. Forgive them if they are decent to you, but don't forget!
2007-10-06 15:08:11 · answer #2 · answered by brittybear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be mad at the guy, normally i would go easy but DAYM he's a playa, one night he break up with u and then next day with ur bff? nah i don't think so, he shouldn't treat u like that; but the fact that hes dating ur FRIEND makes it worse...a guy like that is worthless, don't be jealous i know its hard, but what he did doesn't earn anything to deserve u. ur bff on the other hand...well, this is a hard one...talk to ur friend, since ur bff's it should be easier to talk to...if she throws a fit and overexaggerates...then im sorry, u might have to prepare for the worse...
don't kill urself over this, take it easy and move on, he was never a guy for u if he is able to just pick another girl on the next day. this is not ur fault
2007-10-06 15:08:22 · answer #3 · answered by bboyReLive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friend didnt consult you on this then i wouldnt consider that person much of a friend. This happens alot in Highschool ..the best way to deal with it is consider yourself lucky that you got out of the relationship with a guy that would do that to you.
Find out if your BFF is really in love with this guy before you get too mad at her..matters of the heart are tricky to deal with involving friends..
move slow and find out the facts before you get too angry at either of them.
GOODLUCK
TRINITY
2007-10-06 15:07:19 · answer #4 · answered by Trinity 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...that's pretty harsh of them both. You do have a right to be angry with them both...you should talk to your best friend about how much this upsets you. If she doesn't seem to care, then drop them both, because no one deserves that. If your friendship is true, then she'll drop him. Or, you can be the better person, and try to be happy for your best friend. If you do this, it reveals good things about your character and it reveals a lot about your best friend's and ex's characters because they decided to do this. Good luck!
2007-10-06 15:16:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hm, sounds like they could use some sensitivity training. In the mean time, think more highly of yourself and start looking for some new friends who have some character unlike the shallow types you've been hanging with.
2007-10-06 15:09:27 · answer #6 · answered by soulguy85 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's pretty obvious that she liked him before the breakup. Let her have him, and find a new best friend. And since they both were not worthy, I wouldn't bother being mad at either of them. They are not worth you spending the extra energy being angry with them!
2007-10-06 15:06:15 · answer #7 · answered by Sherri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.. i think that you should be mad at your friend the most, because if he knew that you two were dating then if he was a good friend then he wouldnt of did that, so i think that you shouldtalk to him about and tell him how you feel. and if you and the girl were dating for a while then you should be mad at her too. even if it was for a while it is still messed up what she did and be a little mad but forgive and forget about her. but talk to your friend!!
2007-10-06 15:08:19 · answer #8 · answered by Cosmetology Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you do is drop both of them completely out of your life period.. A real friend would never do that to you and your ex is just a creep, you can do better then either one...
2007-10-06 15:06:03 · answer #9 · answered by I Heart 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be very upset but by being at the both of them what will that solve. They were not your friends in the beginning if they did something like that to you.
2007-10-06 15:09:28 · answer #10 · answered by LoveAlways 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋