how can i show a guy that i really like him. i'm kinda shy and is very good in class. i don't want to come off as a nerd.
help me please
2007-10-06 15:32:14 · 13 answers · asked by sexy baby111260 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you're so smart, you'll eventually figure it out for yourself.
2007-10-06 15:36:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know I'm not a guy but you need to learn to flirt. I used to be the nerdy one in school a few years ago and I know what you're up against.
Here's some things to try: If you're not already, start dressing a little sexy/cute, use makeup, perfume and jewelry to accent your feminine side. Try being more playful with him and make plenty of direct eye contact. If you're not already, ask him to hang out after school and try to increase the amount of time you spend together. When you first see him in the morning, etc, act very happy to see him and give him a quick hug or some other simple physical contact. Start complimenting his looks once in a while, even if its just telling him that he has amazing eyes or a great smile. You can tickle him a little, get him a gift, give him your phone number, ask him to go somewhere like a concert, etc, that will have a more romantic setting, etc. There's many ways to go about it...
Or, you could just tell him and hope it works out. In my experience, flirting a little first and feeling out the situation is usually easier... but not always better. Good luck!
2007-10-06 22:52:51 · answer #2 · answered by stardust23716 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, DON"T show him that you really like him. Guys like the chase.
What you want to do is find reasons to talk to him and do a little eye flirting when you're talking to him. The idea is to let HIM make the first move or at least let hin THINK he's making the first move.
Ask him some innocent questions, pay attention to how he answers them. If he's abrupt and quick, he's not interested. Try (easy does it) again a week later. Just be patient. If you come on too strong he might be put off...Go gentle, be yourself but find reasons to talk with him for a second or 2.
Go slow and after a month or 2 if he doesn't respond, go on to another one.
2007-10-06 23:02:05 · answer #3 · answered by Carl R 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't put ur hands on him if you don't know Him.Talk to Him be more extroverted around him it's all about expressing that u like him so flirt with him.
2007-10-06 22:36:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Smile! Nothing makes me more at ease than when a woman smile sincerely.
2007-10-06 22:35:51 · answer #5 · answered by Marco V 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give him your number. Works every time.
A guy getting a girl's number knows what it means. It can mean nothing else...unless she specifies.
2007-10-06 22:35:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
.Eye contact,a friendly smile and a nod.A bit of flirting and innocent touching is ok.Skylarking and laughing is also good
2007-10-06 22:37:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
look slightly down ,and sloely look up and smile a lot,a devilish smile,if he don't get ,hes stupid,go on to the next
2007-10-06 22:37:52 · answer #8 · answered by THE"IS" 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
touch him somehow, just touch him (physically) making it look naturally when you meet him and say something, anything making it sound natural. touching sends us the message that we are "wanted"!!!!! Good luck.
2007-10-06 22:38:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can I talk to you in private after school?
2007-10-06 22:34:53 · answer #10 · answered by Oldmansea 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋