I'm in high school. I was walking to class and i feel someone pinch my butt so I turn around and this guy was standing there smiling at me and he says something like "oh sorry". So then i think "whatever" and keep walking. He does it again and i told him to cut it out. and then he did it again. So i was pissed off and I thought about punching his face but then i didn't see him anymore.
I've never seen him, but my friends who were walking with me saw him too. I found out his name and he's a year older than me. I told my mom and she called the school and reported him.
so was that right thing to do? or what should I do if he bothers me again? can i punch his face without getting in trouble at school?
eeewww creepy!!!
btw i put this under "singles and dating" cause i didn't know where else it should go
2007-10-06 16:02:05 · 29 answers · asked by e-kay? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, that was the right thing. Touching you in an offensive way is considered assault. He has no right to do that, and good for you for having the courage to do something about it.
2007-10-06 16:05:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I definately would have done the same thing. If he did it again however at school I would probably punch him or kick him you know where. But that's just me and how I would handle the situation if it got too out of hand. I hate when guys make moves on me like that. Being touched like that and reacting out of self defense in my opinon is fine. Keep the punching and kicking as a definite last resort though, fighting is never the answer, however, it can deliver a very strong message if needed.
2007-10-06 16:11:50 · answer #2 · answered by Ash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a violent person but you are well within your right to kick his *** the next time he does it. Your mom called the school so they know there's history, and sexual harassment is validated today so screw it, take advantage and beat the holy hell out of him. Remember, act quickly so he doesn't have time to react. A swift kick to the crotch will teach him a lesson. Keep at him until you're sure he won't get up again. You can always tell the principal that you were so afraid and were acting in self-defense, they'll buy it.
2007-10-06 16:08:46 · answer #3 · answered by Laeticia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
I am sorry to hear such a sick thing happening to you in school.That should be one of the safest and important places to go. You are there to learn and meet new people but not be harassed. Basically what hes doing is sexually harassing you and unwanted sexual contact. Good you told your mom and or dad and they called the school. But i bet they have not done anything about if. if they called his parents i would be surprised. If he touches you again don't hit him or punch him unless hes going to rape you or something sicker. Call your mom ASAP and tell her to pick you up and school and demand to go to the police. But beware don't report him for serious things in less he really done it ,because that can cause trouble for you as well.
Really good luck from the bottom of my heart.
AND YES HES SUPER CREEPY
2007-10-06 18:13:59 · answer #4 · answered by ho8er2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you haven't told him to stop, it's your fault. I admit, you do have to draw some people a picture. I would talk to a teacher/counselor in confidence and ask if they would help you tell him in a nice way. DO NOT do it in public. The humiliation might be more than he could stand. After you tell him, make sure you don't lead him on or TALK about it to ANYONE else about what happened. Just say ya'll have other things going on that take priority over your friendship.
2016-04-07 08:24:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen you should have went straight to the office and reported him. Then your mom should have went down town to the magistrate office and took out a warrant against him. This would have been the proper procedure. Its called SEXUAL HARASSMENT and its never ok, to be harassed: sexual or mentally. This will teach him a lesson , not to put his hands on anyone without their permission. I'm so glad you informed your mom, it was the right thing to do.If you don't stand for something you'll fall for anything.
2007-10-06 16:18:19 · answer #6 · answered by itsjustme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes that was the right thing to do. He has no right to touch you like that if you don't want him to. boys have to learn they can't treat girls like that & get away with it. If he does it again, report him again. And if the school won't do anything, call the police. What he's doing is sexual harassment.
2007-10-06 16:06:29 · answer #7 · answered by Sunshine Queen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was a sexual assault and he should be suspended. You did the right thing. This guy is a creep and a pervert. Ask the principal what your rights are if he does it again. I would slap his face as hard as I could.
2007-10-06 16:08:17 · answer #8 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing. Don't feel bad about it. He was a creep and deserved it. If he does do it again, you shouldn't get in trouble because i don't know about your school, but in my school that wold be considered sexual harrassment.
2007-10-06 16:12:49 · answer #9 · answered by Krystiana K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it was the right thing to do & yea the next time punch him in the face u can say u was defending yourself because he keeps sexually harrassing you!!!! I hope he was suspended because that's considered as sexual harrassment and if he keeps doing that you can press charges & get him in legal trouble
2007-10-06 16:08:03 · answer #10 · answered by Lindsay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋