Family & Relationships - 15 September 2007

I wrote this cause my dads girlfriend just left again for the 6th time and I just wrote this for her but I dont know if it is good enough to give I dont want it sounding corny and me emailing it to her so is it good enough to email her it?
Well you see me in my awful stage. The tears streaming down my face. I try and stay strong
with my emotions when I see you but, I cant hold it in any longer.
You come and go each and every time, you never stay for too long, but here in my Heart you will
always stay.
As I wonder if you will come back in my Life and maybe stay, I know that
will just be a Fantasy of mine. I cant help but think of our
good times together it will last forever.
as I look up to you as my real Mom I wonder if you ever knew how much I loved you
I might have not shown it but right here and now I always thought of you as my #1 mom

2007-09-15 11:03:17 · 3 answers · asked by SCOTLAND! 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

We got a total of $5,000 from wedding gifts. We went on our honeymoon, paid off a couple things and now we have about $4,000 left. What would be the best way to spend or invest it?

2007-09-15 11:01:50 · 15 answers · asked by andrea12481 2 in Weddings

Out of an invited 200, there's loads of cake left

2007-09-15 11:01:02 · 57 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

my dads away with work and my mums out until 2mora night. i've got 2 look after my lil sister. she's 14. shes not allowed 2 leave the house now because shes on tag and has got a police curfew. i wanna go and see a few mates. do u think it would ok for me 2 leave her in the house on her own 4 an hour? or would that be irresponsible and not very nice? i think it would be ok. she's not exactly a lil kid so nothing could happen 2 her and shes alright about it but i'm still not sure. i feel like i shouldnt f u c k off out and leave her. i dno why.

2007-09-15 11:00:00 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My mom & I get along very well but we have differences too like religious belief. She wanted me to get married in her belief which I don't want & don't like. She's threatening me that she's not going to attend my wedding if I will not follow what she wants. :(. The only reason why I am pushing this big wedding thing (although this is not practical for me) is because of them. I am their one & only daughter and they will be happy to see me walking down the aisle.

2007-09-15 10:59:39 · 21 answers · asked by brittanique 3 in Weddings

Why can't they see that the children are most important and not doing what they think is "best" for them, which is usually torturing the ex.

2007-09-15 10:58:03 · 21 answers · asked by swtserenity43 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Been married over 20 years have children (youngest 12), two in college and one in HS. Over past 20 years, found out my husband is not only alcoholic but addicted to vicodin. He has been to rehave and out and back into the vicodin. I am ready to divorce him but I am afraid I may not financially be able to keep my house. He does have a salary comparable to mine. Anyone out there have any thoughts on this. We have two college students we cover payments on and a large mortgage payment . When divorced how does all the finances get divided? He has agreed to use the same attorney (because he realizes he has caused all the problems)

2007-09-15 10:53:04 · 6 answers · asked by heavnknowz 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Lately I've seemed to see a lot of sloppy, nerdy guys that are going out with middle aged asian or filipino women. Why is this? Have they struck out with American women? Ever wonder what their ladies see in them?

2007-09-15 10:52:42 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there is this girl i met while working at my old summer job a year and half ago. i never thought we would talk outside of work. We have hunged out, we have gone to parties. we have watched movies alone, she came to my soccer games. she gets upset if we cannot hang out or somethin comes up when if she cannot hang out with me. Just last year i asked her to be my date at my formal event that i have at my college she said yes and we had soo much fun and i recently asked her to be my date at an event that i have she said yes. she text me every day, we talk on aim. she is very excited to see me whenever i come up to visit, or when she comes home she always wants to visit me. right now she is not dating anyone neither am i. if she is upset she text me or im me about it. I would like to date her and would like her to be my gf. what is the best way to go about this? does she like me? She has told guys that attempted to talk to her she is not intrested in a relationship now.what should i do/say?

2007-09-15 10:52:21 · 12 answers · asked by tbg1982 1 in Singles & Dating

So, ive been wanting to end it with him for a while. We have been dating for 6 months and i feel its getting to serious. I know people are going to say "just tell him the truth" but this will devastate him. I need a good way to end and and a good excuse. Please help, and give good answers.
thanks

2007-09-15 10:52:03 · 1 answers · asked by Sly 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

this man from my home town in louisiana got off free from raping my 2 two year old granddaughters why ,the laws in deridder la,would not do nothing to him,please tell me what i can do to get him looked up for life,

2007-09-15 10:50:30 · 16 answers · asked by tawnya s 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know a girl who met a guy at a club had concentual sex. She had the thought that they were gona get to know each other better, and then he pretty much threw(Not physically) her out of his appartment...

The girl is quite upset that the guy used her for sex but at the time she was concenting to have sex...

I know this kinda thing happens quite often, but I am curious of what the law says about it...

2007-09-15 10:50:12 · 19 answers · asked by questiondude12345 2 in Singles & Dating

There are 5 of us bridesmaids and we are splitting the cost, the maid of honor is the brides sister who decided to hold it at a restaurant.The price per person was 22.50, then the other day she tells us with tax and tip it comes to 37.40!! plus decorations and a gift and favors, today she tells me that we each owe 443$ ! Is it just me or is this insane?

2007-09-15 10:48:10 · 8 answers · asked by kat 2 in Weddings

okay well my mom asked me to find some clothes of mine to let my sister wear. the reason is because my sister has gained a lot of weight from drinking and her breast implants. and she smokes terribly and i really would not want all that smoke smell on my clothes. i said no and that none of my stuff would fit. but then again don't forget that she is 21 and i am 12! its not my job to deal with this. am i right?

2007-09-15 10:43:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Not sure if I want a wedding dress, but just a really fancy dress,
we both have children, he was married by A j.p. and I was married by a preacher. so I thought about a garden wedding but simple sweet. in march.

2007-09-15 10:42:13 · 16 answers · asked by jeannekat3 1 in Weddings

I have a friend who has a myspace and her headline says "Get In My Pants, I Bet You Want Some A**....You Gotta Fantasy Of Me, Ridin D*ck On Top I Got A Fantasy Of Watchin My Glock Go Pop"

Obviously I know what the first part means, but what does she mean when she says "I got a fantasy of watching my glock go pop"?

Funny thing is she's only 14

2007-09-15 10:42:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am 18. I have never had a boyfriend. I am shy and quiet.

2007-09-15 10:41:35 · 10 answers · asked by purplekoala2007 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband goes fishing all the time, which i am totally cool with, but i am home with the kids when he goes. i dont mind that he wants some away time to relax, but i need my time to relax too. My best friend is comming into town next weekend and she wants to go out for a girls night. Maybe to the casinio or to the bar for a few drinks. My hubby doesnt want me to go cause i am the only married one in the group(whick i dont understand cause i am totally faithful), plus i dont like it when he goes to the bar without me, because the last time he went he got all stupid and got a DWI. So he hasnt been out to a bar since March, infacthe hasnt gotten completely drunk since then. I havent drank in over a year because i just had a baby last month.
So i guess my question is, should i go with my friends even if it makes him mad? if i do how do i make him understand that i need time too, i have told him, but he doesnt get it. How do i make him understand without getting into another arguement?

2007-09-15 10:41:14 · 9 answers · asked by Staci 3 in Marriage & Divorce

An yet again he say's that's he just wonder if your really ready for a real relationship what should you do?

2007-09-15 10:40:37 · 1 answers · asked by christys614 1 in Singles & Dating

MY REDEMPTION.

By:Sandy Holmes.

The day I turned to drugs..I could never forget..The coldness of my soul..The sadness in my head..I had walked many miles,I had cried many tears..The day I turned to drugs..I felt as if death was near.In the lonely path of ignorance I had met many like me.They rather used their money for drugs,than to buy their kids something to eat.But you can't look them in the eyes and point at them as dead wrong,they have no feelings for anything,the only thing they want is drugs.I struggled with my demons,for many years.Everything in my life was so full of sorrows and tears...I felt down on my knees and screamed...I wanted the lord to hear me so he could set my soul free.I had went so far away in a senseless run from my fears,I got tired of all my lies,I was sick for many years.Somewhere in my heart I'd found a ray of hope,and I tought of the children,I had once conceived in love.If I ever had a question about the way,I lived my life,how could I do this to my kids and yet they still look at me with love in their eyes? I took my last chance and I redeem my messed up life..and gave my kids a mother one they could look at with pride.I thank the lord above for giving me the strength to change,but he told me my sweet child,where there is a will..there is a way..Everyday when I wake up I feel clean air inside my lungs,everyday is a new day sense I made the right choice.I am grateful for everything in my life,Yes, the good and the bad..because no matter what I had gone trough..I'M still here and I'm still alive...I learned that there is no troubles,when I tought I had troubles in my life,I know now that the only trouble is when I gave drugs a chance.In the lonely path of ignorance,I almost lost everything that meant something in my life,to this day when I think about it,I still feel the need to cry,many say forget is over, is not good to dwell in the past,I won't forget I can't forget,this will keep me in the right track. My redemption was to me a new way to be born,I've found good things about my self that until this day were unknown.I smile at my new life,I am complete I don't feel the need to get high,I cry if I'm sad laugh when Im happy taking it one day at a time.

2007-09-15 10:39:03 · 1 answers · asked by boricua_2290 5 in Singles & Dating

and I am so offended this for those who say whoever had a good reson this is what I poseted and what was reprtedQuestion: thanks 6'5?

Question Details: want to thank you for your vote on my answer.So thanks a bunch hope I helped ya out .Did I
2007-09-15 13:47:22Additional
I am not wanting to HOOK up with him I was just being (brace yourselves) nice in thanking him for giving me a thumbs up for best answer

so now tell me where i went wrong with that ??? I think it was retaliation oh well ............. I am offended

2007-09-15 10:37:48 · 3 answers · asked by carly w 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am a christian, and believe what the word says about divorce, we have only been married 4 mths, we argue, thats it not sin against each other, he refuses to be in a marriage where we argue. He started talking about divorce within the first month and I told him he did not mean it, every time we get into an argument he wants me to leave his home, I told myself if he told me that again I would leave, he did and I did. The next few days he's filing for the divorce.

2007-09-15 10:36:27 · 25 answers · asked by bestmomtoo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

That is to say ,if a loved one is lying to you can you tell?

2007-09-15 10:34:42 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i dont but people dont seem to believe me

2007-09-15 10:32:45 · 17 answers · asked by guess wot? 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

HI, okay my boyfriend told my friend that hes going on a date with this girl Alissa. When i talked to him about it he said ""oh noits not really a date, im just going over to her house to 'hang out' we arent even ganna do anything.""

I dont understand this sounds like a date to me.. and how do i know hes not ganna do anything?

whats your opinion on this!?

2007-09-15 10:32:21 · 8 answers · asked by insert nickname here 3 in Singles & Dating

Should I keep helping my ex with her car note.She is jobless and has 4 kids.None of them are mine.She does get government assistance.I just feel so bad leaving her with all the house bills and car note.She gets about 800 dollars a month.The girl in question is 34 years old.She kinda has a bad background so its been hard for her to find a job.I feel so bad leaving her like that even though its her house. I'm 24 and trying to start my own life but I keep worrying about her.I'm in the process of moving on my own but I'm thinking about postponing it to help her.Any advice would help.

2007-09-15 10:32:02 · 7 answers · asked by I got the answer 2 in Marriage & Divorce

How often do you take your family out to eat?

Do you eat at fast food or a nice place?

Do you spend alot on going out to eat?

Do you go to the movies alot?

Or are you stuck at home all the time because it's expensive to go out? What do you do at home?

2007-09-15 10:30:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Suppose you chosen 5 then connect it with its below related number and jot down your comment about it ... so here are the whole ten numbers:

1- Distrust.
2- Love
3- Politics
4- Girls
5- Boys
6- Marriage
7- Yourself
8- Lust
9- Regret
10- Weakness.

After you chosen any random number just right down your comment and lets all share and see how we think.

Thanks,

2007-09-15 10:30:30 · 11 answers · asked by Sara007 5 in Singles & Dating

I'm really interested in what he does, but I really don't wanna be a prostitute. If I started asking him questions do you think he would be really mad? Is he dangerous?

He buys stuff from me in work, and is really friendly, really big smile on his face, quite spooky really. but he never actually say's he's a pimp, for obviously reasons. But can I ask him or not?

2007-09-15 10:29:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have asked him to get rid of at least some of it. And that was 2 years ago. And he still has it all and keeps adding to his collection. We have a 6 year old and a 1 year old in the house.

2007-09-15 10:28:58 · 14 answers · asked by aboarder82 1 in Marriage & Divorce