there is this girl i met while working at my old summer job a year and half ago. i never thought we would talk outside of work. We have hunged out, we have gone to parties. we have watched movies alone, she came to my soccer games. she gets upset if we cannot hang out or somethin comes up when if she cannot hang out with me. Just last year i asked her to be my date at my formal event that i have at my college she said yes and we had soo much fun and i recently asked her to be my date at an event that i have she said yes. she text me every day, we talk on aim. she is very excited to see me whenever i come up to visit, or when she comes home she always wants to visit me. right now she is not dating anyone neither am i. if she is upset she text me or im me about it. I would like to date her and would like her to be my gf. what is the best way to go about this? does she like me? She has told guys that attempted to talk to her she is not intrested in a relationship now.what should i do/say?
2007-09-15 10:52:21 · 12 answers · asked by tbg1982 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are normally a blunt person then ask in a blunt way..don't beat around the bush and be honest about your feelings. Tell her that the last few .....have been wonderful and you are wondering if there was any chance on the friendship moving into something more serious. But be prepaired for both answers.
2007-09-15 11:02:47 · answer #1 · answered by Jennifer B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It definitely sounds like she is into you! I think you should drop subtle hints that you're into her. The best way to do this is to keep eye contact with her.(look at her gently though, don't freak her out)! Every once in a while, give her a friendly touch, and you'll see from her reaction whether she is interested or not. Just don't move in too fast! By the sound of her comment about relationships, she seems a little bit timid, and may feel like if she goes out with someone, she will be forced to do something. Let her know that you are her friend. (I hope that helps!)
2007-09-15 11:07:34 · answer #2 · answered by sumz1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Hunny.....you can't see it can you? You just can't tell.....It must be true..."love is blind." She loves you. she wants to date you. You've been on dates.....you may not have called them dates, but thats what they are.....Your best bet is just to tell her.
"Hey, can i talk to you about something?"
"Sure what is it?"
"I've been tinking lately that we have alot of fun together. I mean we hang out, watch movies, go places. You even come to my soccer games....nobody else does that."
"I agree, we have alot of fun."
"Well, i just wanted to tell you that i like you, alot, and if you were interested i would like to maybe, take you out as more than just friends sometime."
The worst that could happen is she'll say no. And if she does, don't stop hanging out with her. If you make it awkward she'll feel awkward and you'll lose everything. If she says no....dom't change anything.
If she says yes...maybe she'll be the one!
2007-09-15 11:02:34 · answer #3 · answered by K.Wo For the win 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After all those OBVIOUS signs you still have to ask if she likes you????? are you blind man????? Because if you can't see that she really really likes you then you are blind, deaf and DUMB!!!!
Yes she likes you, DUH, the fact that she tells guys she's not interested in a relationship is because she's interested in a relationship with you but you're too dumb to get the hint.
Ask her if she'd like to take your relationship to the next level, if she asks what you mean, tell her you'd like to date her exclusively.
Good luck, but if you don't wake up and ask her soon you'll be kicking yourself for being so slow.
2007-09-15 10:58:41 · answer #4 · answered by Weimaraner Mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's telling OTHER guys she's not interested it's because she's waiting and hoping that you'll make the move. GET MOVING!! If you have an upcoming event, then while you are dancing or whatever you'll know when the moment is right KISS HER!!!
2007-09-15 11:02:21 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she says that because she is hanging out with you all the time! You will never know unless you ask her - do it. Ask her to be your girl friend, what is the worst that can happen? She says NO and.....
2007-09-15 10:59:52 · answer #6 · answered by Pastey Pat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her your feelings and from the sound of you guys history, i would think she enjoy being around you and loves your company, buy her some flowers and tell her in person how you feel and maybe she will open up and tell you her feelings but you guys should date since youknown each other that long....its worth it...dont wait until its too late.....
2007-09-15 10:56:55 · answer #7 · answered by lilruby052001 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she likes you. Ask her to dinner or something, that way you can get to know her better outside the bar scene, and you can see if she acts the same way towards you. Good luck! = )
2016-05-20 05:34:50 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her you want to have a relationship in a casual manner oneday and see if she responds. It seems to me she really does like you though! God bless you!
2007-09-15 10:57:10 · answer #9 · answered by sally sue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out she's totally into you. If you're nto sure how take her to a specail place...I dunno dinner, a park. And lead up to the moment make it special. Good Luck to you ^_^
2007-09-15 10:56:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋