Family & Relationships - 15 September 2007

i've been with this boy for almost a year now....and he's really nice, sweet, caring, cute, amazing, and madly in love with me. Only we live about an hour apart and neither of us drive yet (we're both going on 18) He keeps talking about forever and i'm not sure i'm ready for that commitment. I mean i barely see him...how do i know i'll be able to live with him? I don't have the heart to tell him this....what should i do?

2007-09-15 10:24:49 · 25 answers · asked by K.Wo For the win 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-15 10:24:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay, in one of my questions before I asked something about asking my guy friend out and someone said to just walk up to him and kiss him. I was wondering if anyone's actually done that before to a guy/girl you weren't dating, just crushing on?
You only see that in the movies... so yeah. I was just curious lol.
If you've done this before, please explain your results lol ;)

2007-09-15 10:21:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he said i am too jealous is why he lied but this is not the first time he puts this back on me why he does it

2007-09-15 10:19:54 · 18 answers · asked by judith s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How many of you actually put it on the holder properly and not just rest the roll on top of the holder, and then put the empty tube in the bin and not leave it on the toilet cystern behind?

2007-09-15 10:17:50 · 25 answers · asked by Lisa T 6 in Family

Architeture, painting, music, anything...

Everybody is welcome to answer, of course :)

Thank you for your answer! :)

Enjoy your weekend! :)

2007-09-15 10:17:47 · 14 answers · asked by Moon :) 7 in Friends

How do you collect child support from a man working under the table. Basically, he does not pay taxes. Child support knows this and told me there is nothing they can do and I have to wait until he gets a legitimate job. Is there anything I can do and if so how??

2007-09-15 10:14:38 · 10 answers · asked by Sunny 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I live in Sacramento, Ca and its getting harder to find black men of any substance.

No I'm not saying that they have to be proper and well to do I just want to connect with a black man on an intellectual level. I've had it happen before, but things didn't work out.

Where are the good ones hiding? (Please don't say they're with white girls because only the terrible ones go outside their race, its true!)

I'm not dating out my race so that is not an option.

2007-09-15 10:14:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My soon to be ex husband works construction, his income is never the same and some cash. How is my child support figured? a yearly income? or a check by check basis? and what about when he has a cash job and income is not documented or taxed? How does that all come into play does anybody know?

2007-09-15 10:14:21 · 4 answers · asked by MOTHER OF 3 1 in Marriage & Divorce

in your relationship

2007-09-15 10:12:38 · 12 answers · asked by ♥BEX♥ 7 in Marriage & Divorce

i am in love with this divorced lady but this thing coming to my mind that she had been with someone else, will she able to give herself fully to me? or i should change my mind and go for a lady who hasnt been married before?

2007-09-15 10:11:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im 13 almost 14.
i know im young, but i want
that "guy" i can fully trust, i can have his back, and he can love me for me. i have been single for a long time, but it hasent worked. am i ugly or what? i dont understand. i have the personality,confidence, and humor.

here are pics of me, and what ethnic do i look like??

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http://s148.photobucket.com/albums/s20/rimmagirl13/?action=view¤t=ad003.jpg

2007-09-15 10:08:56 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Seems like we always end up acting like a mom and her eighth-grader arguing about homework. But I've tried pretty much all the constructive ways I could think of to get him going on a project. On the last couple of home improvement projects, we worked on it together, and it was difficult getting him going. I would have to do all the research (borrow the books from the library and learn how to do it) I would draw out the plan and list all the material we need. This time around, I'm too busy with a baby, so I tell him it's his project. It's a project that might take a couple of weekends, so we agree on a deadline that's months away, in October. Now, with a couple of weekends left, he's still not doing any research, drawing out a plan, figuring out what he needs. And only after we end up having a big fight does he even start looking into it. This is an awful pattern to get into, but how do I get out?

2007-09-15 10:08:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I just wanted to thank them I was just defending myself so thanks for doing that had it been to the real police they would have called it a civil matter and to not read any more of my post not bother them with petty thing this is after all a fun place to go right?

2007-09-15 10:07:22 · 4 answers · asked by carly w 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

according to some films that lovers after they broke up, became friends instead. but my own experience, i was friend with my ex at the first place, we just broke up, but until now,i still cant accept that we return to be friends, i mean we broke up because of long distance, nothing special, definitely no cheating.i feel terrible losing him thou i was person wanted to break up with him. i wanted to keep a great relationship with him like a normal friend, cause he seems like a part of my life and i really want him to enjoy every single there. but i dont know, when the real moments come, i cant even talk to him, all our old memories just keep rushing back..what do you think? do u still keep a close relationship with ur ex?

2007-09-15 10:06:17 · 1 answers · asked by monroe 2 in Singles & Dating

i was reading a question about why kissing isnt safe and people said because you can get mono. what is it?

2007-09-15 10:01:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband is trying out for a thing in the military in another state and he will be returning soon. He has been gone for 1 month and I want to do something special for him upon his return home. He will have gone through some hard times physically and mentally and I want him to come home to something nice and relaxing, but special. Candlelite dinners and movies are boring. I thought about buying a sexy costume and dressing up for him, but I would have to go and pick him up from the airport, so I may or may not do that. (Especially dressed like a french maid!) I need to do something super creative and something to blow his mind away and say WOW, that was special. Can anyone shoot me some ideas? Thanks:)

2007-09-15 09:58:01 · 5 answers · asked by jtlip2002 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I live in Scotland and my mate is at the end of her tether with her wee boy- 21 year old layabout! He has not worked in the past year and continually puts pressure on her to feed, clothe and taxi him around. He paid her one month's rent almost a year ago and since, has had his mates make sure he enjoys nights out and mobile phone comforts. My mate is working all week to pay back rent arrears that were incurred when he decided to become a sponger.Does she have a legal leg to stand on if she throws him out?? Does she need police back up??She loves him dearly, but he is dragging her down and she is getting utterly desperate.Where does she stand legally if she packs his bags and tells him to go? He can throw the biggest, scariest wobbly when she tries to reason with him about the lack of contributions towards his upkeep. I'm concerned that he may try to give her a thump!! Can anybody help? Cheers.

2007-09-15 09:57:21 · 20 answers · asked by Angela M 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I have this friend who used to be really fun and stuff. She's still fun, but she's different. She started wearing makeup and really caring about her appearance when before, she was more careless and crazy. She also likes this guy, and he's like, all she'll talk about, and i promised her that i won't go out with him if he asks me cuz she thinks he might like me. But now, i think that i might like him and i don't want to tell her cuz she'll be crushed, but i don't know what to do if he does like me and asks me out.

2007-09-15 09:56:37 · 2 answers · asked by :) 3 in Friends

my last question was my husband friend wants my kids for 2hrs to carry them out and about ayr ago asked for them for 2wks one of the ans that i got suggested that because we wanted to go on the holiday they saw it as an opportunity to help out. first to begin with the first time when he asked for them for the two weeks it was so that me and my husband can go on a holiday we had no plans of even going on a holiday he and his wife came to us with this idea that we should go on a holiday and he his wife and children 10,14,and 17 will stay in my house with my kids my babies were only 1,2,and 4.now that they not much older why would he a 60yr old man want my 2yr girl my 3yr girl and 5 yr boy for 2hrs and just to carry them out and when i said no he was annoyed with me shouldn't he just accept how i feel about it.

2007-09-15 09:56:33 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

he came to me the other day and told me that he is like so in love with this girl. He described her to me and i think that they would make the prefect couple. only one thing is standing in the way of them getting together. and that is the fact that she is only 16 years old and her dad is my friends boss and my boss. i cant even look my boss in the eyes anymore ever since my friend told me that he loves our boss's daughter. What should I do? i dont want her to get hurt and since my friend is a real player she will sooner or later and if i tell her dad (my boss) then my friend will lose his job and i will lose my friend. WHAT DO I DO

2007-09-15 09:55:58 · 9 answers · asked by adandbt 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

yet I go there about once a week. I call them to just chat. When I go over we talk for a bit then he and his wife plug themselves into their computer. Normally there are three computers in his computer room so I end up surfing. He also never calls me on the phone. A few weeks ago he and his wife asked if I wouldn't mind watching their kids once a week so they can go bowling. Instead of calling me during the week, I get a call the day of when I am supposed to baby sit. I felt a bit put out, and thought " sheesh guess I am just good for a baby sitter" I think I am right to feel slighted any comments??

2007-09-15 09:55:24 · 1 answers · asked by richard c 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Obviously I don't want to be a prostitute! Why does he look so friendly? He's got a constant smile on his face!

He's given me his card with his name, date, signature and kisses on the end.

He is a pimp, how shall I say no? HE doesn't speak much english!

2007-09-15 09:55:16 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been separated for over two years now. He's currently in the Army, and pays child support for our daughter. Right now I am pregnant(due next month), and dont work. I dont know anything about this kind of stuff, someone just told me that i could try. But thats just it....I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO!!! Please Help!

2007-09-15 09:54:07 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My wifes breath smells like she used diarreah for mouthwash and her b.o. makes my eyes water. I keep avoiding sex because I cant get wood under these circumstances. Our marriage is suffering, should I file?

2007-09-15 09:52:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He generally does not have a foul mouth and loves me and says I'm the perfect woman for him etc etc etc, but during a fight and in a fit of anger he called me this. I can't seem to get over it. Bit++, I could get over, but not this......what is the general consensus from woman regarding this?

2007-09-15 09:47:44 · 27 answers · asked by Rachel☺ 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Which one sickens you worst?

2007-09-15 09:47:01 · 5 answers · asked by Lucy,I'm honry! 4 in Singles & Dating

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Thank you for your answer! :)

Have a wonderful weekend! :)

2007-09-15 09:46:17 · 15 answers · asked by Moon :) 7 in Friends

The machine usually give you a warning about a service charge. I just never heard of this. Has anybody heard of this or this happen to you.

2007-09-15 09:45:16 · 5 answers · asked by tasha 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My wife and I have been unhappy for a while now. We have really been fighting hard for the past few months. The past 2 weeks have been really bad. We work some things out, but not all. Still a lot on the table. We dicussed divorce, but never wanted that to be an option, but it is on the table. We decided to take a break for a week because we couldnt help but to bring things up everytime we see each other. So I went to a hotel for a week. I am back home now and found out she opened her own bank account without me knowing. What should I think?

2007-09-15 09:43:44 · 14 answers · asked by Steve W 1 in Marriage & Divorce