Family & Relationships - 15 September 2007

There's this girl I know that was in my class last year. She was mean to me and was a smart eleck to me. She'd hang around me and my friends in class, and ask for sips of my drink and stuff. The thing is, she also had a staring problem, where I'd catch her looking at me all the time...that was last year. This year, she does the staring thing, and when I look at her, she gives me this weird look. I saw her in the office once, when I went in there, and she wouldn't even look at me or speak to me. Well 5 weeks later(yesterday) she came up to me in the lunch line and started speaking to me. She'd bump her arm into mine and smile and laugh. Then she told me she was going to make me laugh when she saw me at a certain event. She's saying and doing all that, and that was her first time talking to me this whole year. Earlier this year, she just stared at me and stuff. Why is she just now talking to me and stuff?

I went along with it, and was nice to her.

2007-09-15 03:33:41 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

We are getting married in 6 months and can have 100 people at our venue. The problem is that we have too many people that 'can't be cut'. My Fi's mum says she wants each of her 8 siblings there and a few extra family members, as well as cousins etc but if we invite all of these family members we don't get to have any more than 10 friends. If we were close to these people that would be fine but I have not even met some of these people, some I met for the first time at our Engagement party and some I have met twice in our 8 years together.
We are a very social couple and see our wedding day as a party to celebrate our love with our friends and family but we are being pressured into having only family because it is the 'right thing to do'.
Is there a tactful way to not invite all of these family members without causing grief between my fi and his mum?

2007-09-15 03:32:07 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-09-15 03:28:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-15 03:20:11 · 22 answers · asked by trincanniere 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well the cats out of the bag after 23 years of marrage I've have always been there for him stood by him know matter what. I need surgery on both my knees and can hardly walk. He's told his mother the reason he's fallen out of love with me is because I've been in pain for 3 months and he's sick of it. Sick of watching me walk w/a cane or a walker it just built up and he fell out of love w/me. The only reason he wants me here is because he doesn't know how to pay the bills or do the billing for his business. What a poor excuse for a man. I've taken care of both his parents & him when he had surgery but now I'm broken so throw me away. I'm done crying over him and feeling sorry for myself I'm going to fix myself and take it from there. I trusted this man thought I married my best friend what a joke huh!

2007-09-15 03:18:05 · 16 answers · asked by Casey 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is there something really awful you have never told anyone or regretted doing? Share your regrets.

2007-09-15 03:13:09 · 2 answers · asked by Soft Drink 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

hi
Prenuptial agreement is an agreement made by a couple before they marry concerning ownership of assets in the event of a divorce.
Maybe the couples have no money, no assets,
Can a prenuptial agreement cover the money and properties that they will get in future so that after divorce their( both spouses) assets won't be ruined?
Or one of spouses can not ruin financial situation of other one?

2007-09-15 03:00:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

After giving specific instructions that it is a matter of life and death.

2007-09-15 03:00:43 · 3 answers · asked by MariaAntonietta 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

She looks like she's wishing for something REAL?

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2007-09-15 02:53:32 · 8 answers · asked by Guinness 5 in Family

I met this guy and he really seemed wonderfull. We both work in the same place but in very different levels (he has very high function). We get along good and went out twice at the company's parties, and once just me and him. He said he wanted to be with me and he's treat me like a princess and offer me everything I wanted (I know his ex, and she lived like this while she was with him).
I appreciated the fact that he didn't press for getting my phone number or asking me to go to his place, each time he made sure I'd get home safe.
I wasn't very sure of my feelings tho, so I postponed things for 2-3 weeks, but suddenly he told me he thinks I don't want to be with him, but it's ok we can be friends and he'll support me whenever I needed.
But what surperised me is that he asked me if I wanted to date a friend og his, that is a great guy. Why? If he likes me, why he said this? Or is it just a test?? I thaught he liked me...

2007-09-15 02:52:33 · 7 answers · asked by lilith 2 in Singles & Dating

Why is it not OK for wives to go to strip clubs, look at naked male photos on-line, and check out other men, and so on, the thing all the men do and call it "normal". One man said that he went to a strip club to look at young breasts. What if his wife go to some club to look at young penises?
Shouldn't it be equal?

2007-09-15 02:52:24 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My best friend has twin boys who will turn seven in early October. I want to get them a unique gift or one that looks like I spent some thought about it. I was thinking for each boy something personalized but I am unsure what. Then I had an idea of two polaroid cameras with film and personalized photo albums. Does anyone have any great ideas for gifts? I will spend about fifty dollars on each child.

2007-09-15 02:40:22 · 9 answers · asked by Chrissy 3 in Family

Ok, there is this girl I really liked and I asked her to homecoming. We had a football game, and it was VERY cold. We talked for a long time and we were with each other 99% of the time. When I started to walk she would lock her arm up with mine. What does this mean? Someone asked her if she liked me earlier and she said "I dont know." and smiled.

2007-09-15 02:26:10 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm talking about down south

2007-09-15 02:25:05 · 1 answers · asked by mikro_poutanaki 1 in Singles & Dating

Some hire me because I'm a Veteran. They ask me if I'm all for the war. (At every wedding) I say "I'm agains the war due to us losing the war like Vietnam".

2007-09-15 02:17:15 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

will be filing for divorce soon. do it myself because its cheaper. I would like to know will I have to face the judge if my spouse can't be found? most likely he can't be found because he's house to house. after I file the divorce,how long until I would have to see judge?

how long will they search for my husband?I live in state of CA. I'm hoping it won't be so complicated.we have no kids.I was so dumb and niave to marry someone from out the country!!I hate myself for hurting myself emotionally because I was deeply too head over hills.please someone with info would be great

2007-09-15 02:12:26 · 2 answers · asked by stacey t 1 in Marriage & Divorce

if there is no emotional intimacy with your partner, then is it okay to see someone else without physical contact. i know emotional cheating is infedility, but is it accepted by a partner, if she comes to know about it.

2007-09-15 02:08:22 · 5 answers · asked by howiwishicould 2 in Family

2007-09-15 02:02:16 · 8 answers · asked by A True Gentleman 5 in Singles & Dating

Just being a perv this morning, most men if they are not hungry they are horny and visa versa.

2007-09-15 01:58:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Wow, this is depressing, it has been a long time and not getting any better. Yes, he's been to the doctor, but I don't think he's telling the doc the truth, as he's never come home with a prescription, etc. He has gone to counseling, as well, total waste of time and money.

I'm almost to the point of thinking he's fine physically, just doing this as a control issue in our relationship. It's getting to the point where I'm so demoralized over this... I'm not looking to step out, but there has to be something I can say or do. Any suggestions?

2007-09-15 01:52:05 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

none of the girls at my school like me and i don't know where else to find one. help me plz.

2007-09-15 01:34:36 · 2 answers · asked by clevelandcavsboy 2 in Singles & Dating

So last week I pre-ordered the new iPod touch with my OWN hard earned money (keep that in mind). My "parents" said that I'm not allowed to have it until my room is neat (meaning no speck of dust, neat drawers, organized closet, spotless floor, etc.) Now I'm a junior in high school and have no time between homework, school, and my job to have time to clean up a room from top to bottom. By them doing this to me, its like holding a treat over a dog's head (here's what you want, but you will never get it unless you obey my command). I'm at the point where I'm extremely pissed, and ready to just run away because of all the crap I have to put up with in this hell hole, and here I try to treat myself, since work, home, AND school has been extremely stressful, and my "parents" hold a $300 item over my head because of a room I have NO TIME to clean up. Someone please tell me a way I can convince my "parents" to get this without having to clean up my room when they feel I can, when I can't.

2007-09-15 01:34:04 · 25 answers · asked by panicaddiction 1 in Family

2007-09-15 01:32:07 · 39 answers · asked by mad&sad 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-15 01:15:48 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I know that most don't care, but what is your general opinion on this?

2007-09-15 01:02:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend got a job for which he's gonna move out to a different state. He thinks when he'll move out, our relationship won't last coz long distance relationship doesn't work. Since I m studying in Uni I can't go with him untill I graduate which'll take another 2 yrs. I love my boyfriend a lot. I don't wanna loss him. But I also wanna see him successful. I want to assure him that I'll always be with him. But don't know how to tell him.

2007-09-15 00:51:28 · 8 answers · asked by d 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-15 00:49:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'll spare you the details... ;)

2007-09-15 00:47:23 · 10 answers · asked by Mr Universe 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm in a long distance relationship. But this relationship is different from others. I live in Germany and he lives in the states. I met him when he was stationed here in Germany. When it was time for him to go back, he asked me to wait for him for 3 years. Just 'til he's out of the military. He said the military made him go through a divorce once already and he doesn't want to go through that pain again. I love him, but isn't it too much asked? Please give me some advice....

2007-09-15 00:38:52 · 28 answers · asked by amasien86 1 in Marriage & Divorce

OKay this summer was the best summer of my life my step cousins(Whyatt,Whaylan,Western and Patsy) were so funny but I have a HUGE crush on Whyatt I've never liked somebody so much...There are things getting in the way of us like:
1.I'm kinda his cousin
2. I don't thin his sister thinks we should be together cause I told her to tell him to check his e-mail and she keeps saying she forgot or something.
3.I don't think he likes me
4.I live in a different country so I don't get to see them until summer

Well I think abot him EVERY single day and I can't stop I told my step mother I liked him and she said she dosen't care and I wrote a letter to him telling how I feel but he dsoen't check his e-mail and he hasn' responded because I'm sure Patsy hasn't told him.I really really like him.He's so funny clumpsy,weird,interesting and all that but Whaylan is the one that likes me.I'm soooooo unlucky with guys.What should I do??His sister knows him better and probably knows we are not righ

2007-09-15 00:31:08 · 16 answers · asked by Annie is okay but not us :( 3 in Singles & Dating