OKay this summer was the best summer of my life my step cousins(Whyatt,Whaylan,Western and Patsy) were so funny but I have a HUGE crush on Whyatt I've never liked somebody so much...There are things getting in the way of us like:
1.I'm kinda his cousin
2. I don't thin his sister thinks we should be together cause I told her to tell him to check his e-mail and she keeps saying she forgot or something.
3.I don't think he likes me
4.I live in a different country so I don't get to see them until summer
Well I think abot him EVERY single day and I can't stop I told my step mother I liked him and she said she dosen't care and I wrote a letter to him telling how I feel but he dsoen't check his e-mail and he hasn' responded because I'm sure Patsy hasn't told him.I really really like him.He's so funny clumpsy,weird,interesting and all that but Whaylan is the one that likes me.I'm soooooo unlucky with guys.What should I do??His sister knows him better and probably knows we are not righ
2007-09-15 00:31:08 · 16 answers · asked by Annie is okay but not us :( 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its a much more complicated story than it sound HE IS NOT my real cousin.My father got married to a woman from canada and her sister's son I have have a crush on him.I can't control my feelings but I will have to.I'm starting to and he dosen't check his email cuz his sister made it for him and the first time I sent it for him his account wasn't set up it got messed up cuz he dosen't check it often and my step mother said it dosen't matter to her and it dosen't mater to his mother either. and patsy told him that and he didn't believe her and patsy said she thinks he likes me but she's not sure butwe do know that whaylan likes me and yes I am young een his mother knows that
2007-09-15 03:04:24 · update #1
Starting off.. step cousin is not a blood relative so if you would end up together it wouldn't be a tragedy.. I can see you have embraced your feelings for him ( told your mother, cousin, wrote him an email ), I admire that. It might be weird to him too, are you sure he hasn't read your email and is just too surprised to answer? Why not talk to him directly.. just give him a call and ask him whether he has checked his emails. Then just improvise.. if he says "no" ask him to read it and suggest that he reply. if it's "yes" then just.. react. tell him what you think.. Don't worry that his sister knows better, he has to decide and she just might not be OK with this, it still should not affect you.. His opinion matters and only his. Good luck.
2007-09-15 00:44:17 · answer #1 · answered by blabla 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not any real information. Like ages and where you live at. You sound like you are young. May be in your teens and with young lady ideas. It dose not take much to make your head spin. The feelings that you have will pass and you will meet some different and go on with your life. It may be later in life that you may meet up with him again and the time will be a better time. I have had the same problem and that is what has happen to me. But with two cousin One ask to get marry her. I said no. The one that ask me to merry her we are best of Friends. The other ask me out. We are dating each other now. We are all divorced and one spouse has past away. this is really is not right. But we are a lot older In our forty's plus. We have open minds and know it can not go past just dating We are do things that we would not do with any one. But just give things a rest. If the time comes right it will happen.
2007-09-15 01:19:56 · answer #2 · answered by tadm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you live in Kentucky? I mean this is straight out of the Jerry Springer archives or something. You can't seriously be contemplating a relationship with your cousin??!!! That is just sick and wrong on so many levels. And your step mom, she is ok with this, or is your step mom really your aunt on your dad's side??? Please tell me that you are kidding me with this!!!
Ok no it isn't ok for you like your cousin. Find a different love interest that doesn't share your bloodline, or anyone's blood line in your family. Don't worry whether he read your email. And if he did then you need to apologize and move on!
2007-09-15 00:51:30 · answer #3 · answered by Austins Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a crush on the lady who worked at the pharmacy, I finally got up the courage to ask her out and just before I said lets go out she told me that she was getting married, I was devastated.
2016-05-20 00:55:27 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol people are being mean to you!! you cant help who u like so i dont blame you for that! but i duno it all seems to confusing and the negatives will definatly outweigh the positives so maybe just stay friends with him and eventually u willl find another boy that u like and u wont even be able to remember ur step cuzin
2007-09-15 00:45:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woah. That's weird.. having a crush on a cousin. Well, I have a cousin who looks like a model, he's so good-looking and totally crush-worthy... instead of having a crush on him, I brag about having a good-looking cousin instead! Channel your feelings somewhere else, and you'll feel a lot better. yay!
2007-09-15 00:44:40 · answer #6 · answered by anne 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Whatever the connection, it's your cousin and it would make things odd when you saw one another. Get over it and him before you end up on Jerry Springer.
2007-09-15 00:42:31 · answer #7 · answered by That NC Girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean your "kinda" cousins?
Your step mom doesn't care that you like your cousin?
His brother likes you?
I don't mean to be rude, but what is wrong with your family?
2007-09-15 00:38:10 · answer #8 · answered by twiggy1823 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Woah, Weird.
2007-09-15 00:46:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He might be telling her that he doesn't like you so that is why she saying she forgot. She is jsut trying not to hurt your feelings, you have to move on.
2007-09-15 00:40:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋