Family & Relationships - 15 September 2007

I met a single guy earlier this year and we dated for a few months. I felt sorry that his ex wife and ex fiance had both treated him really badly and left him. I supported him through the last few months but said we should put our relationship on hold as he was still hurting about his ex. He was very bitter about his ex and we spent hours, weeks and months talking this through. I was shocked at how a woman could be cruel to such a great guy and we have stayed really close as friends.

Recently he confessed that his 'pscyho' ex wants him back and that she really is not all the things he said she was, but that he was angry with her for leaving. I am so upset and angry if he has lied to me so much. I trusted him and waited for him and now he tells me they are really happy being back together and he wants a future with her now. How can I deal with this bitterness I feel. I dont know what is real and what isnt anymore. Please help : ((

2007-09-15 00:29:27 · 24 answers · asked by Sarah 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-15 00:28:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I feel better tonight after seeing my exgf there and i had no emotions for her...esp the lovey dovey kind stuff that i used to feel and the hurt i used to get. I am so happy that i am over my exgf, now i can live my life happy for myself. Just like to thank all the people who have been there for me on yahoo answers, thanks Michelle F, yay! have a nice day guys! woot!

2007-09-15 00:28:00 · 6 answers · asked by mangolove 1 in Singles & Dating

ok im 19 and I have a pretty deep voice, now its funny because I have actually been told by maybe about 5-7 random women before i have a nice voice and a few said sexy voice. and it just seems like when i talk women are interested but at the same time my guy friends sometimes make fun of my voice because its deep (its not too deep lol) so what im asking is do you females like guys with deep voices? and why? im 19 by the way lol ( and when i say deep i dont mean in a creepy way i mean normally lol.

2007-09-15 00:26:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

No? Then how is it gay people do?

2007-09-15 00:25:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

it's just the worst feeling i know!
being rejected!
it hurts so much!

2007-09-15 00:21:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have this boyfriend but he doesnt give me time and I couldnt feel his love for me...but there are this other guys who is courting me...the other 1 is the ex of my close friend..he is lately having communications with my friend but he tells me that im the one who really loves but I think he is also trying to court his ex..l8ly he asked me to come to his place and have some fun...do some intimacies with him that is...

then there is this other guy...he is my childhood friend,family friends and he is very loyal to me for 4years now..he doesnt court but he has great love for me.tested and proven.and our families really knew he has feelings for me...

and this last guy, he is my ex and he is very popular!he is handsome and has nice voice and he is good in dancing,,,we broke up last january but now he is trying to win my heart again but he seldoms have time for me since he is in 2ndyear college and im a senior in highschool..he never gives me any testimonials in friendster...

2007-09-15 00:17:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

right me nd my girlfriend hav finnished but i dont knwo if she wants me back i miss her sooo much how can i get her back? im goin to a party in a few hrs nd she'll b there is there anyhthing i could do ?

2007-09-15 00:16:50 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what does that mean.....help!

2007-09-15 00:16:15 · 6 answers · asked by fishgurll 2 in Singles & Dating

i need something to say for a opening toast at a wedding. Something short and sweet, haven't been able to come up with anything i like.
thanks

2007-09-15 00:16:15 · 5 answers · asked by gary10 1 in Weddings

do u think u need to root another person to get over ur last root? and move on? like getting someone out of ur system.???? ( for exsample u break up with a guy then still like him to u have ur next root. )

2007-09-15 00:13:33 · 6 answers · asked by Summah 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-15 00:09:27 · 15 answers · asked by Lonely B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-15 00:08:34 · 10 answers · asked by Lonely B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

the divorce is still on process but they have own lives separately, and she wish to use her maiden name instead

2007-09-15 00:07:25 · 3 answers · asked by futurelove 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-15 00:03:22 · 20 answers · asked by forest lover 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i told her i dont want her back i have a fiance now.how should i treat her??

i just dont want to hurt her u know. :o

2007-09-15 00:02:38 · 1 answers · asked by forest lover 2 in Singles & Dating

My wife and I have been married for 7 years, been together 10. Since we met I've been trying to get her to go on vacation with me. I told her wherever she wants to go- Paris, Italy, Hawaii- wherever- I would take her. She won't go because she's deathly afraid of flying.

Her best friend is a gay man and they've been friends since high school. I've met him (and his partner) numerous times- he's a nice enough guy. He even came to our wedding. My wife talks to him on the phone all the time and they go shopping together.

About 3 months ago he moved to Seattle (we live in Michigan). My wife told me yesterday that she booked a flight out to see him for a few days. I reminded her that she hates flying and won't go anywhere with me so why is she flying out to see him? She said she misses him- he's her best friend.

I am very upset and hurt right now over the fact that she'll fly for him but not for me. She didn't even consult with me before booking the flight. What should I do??

2007-09-15 00:00:12 · 8 answers · asked by Troy 2 in Marriage & Divorce