2007-09-15 00:03:22 · 20 answers · asked by forest lover 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hey lovelychoc i am not a woman. lol
2007-09-15 06:54:40 · update #1
I had a panic attack!I still get that feeling in my stomach when I think about it.My choice was to try to work things out.After 4 years,not everything has been completely resolved,but we've come along way.
Oh yeah BTW,she was an alleged friend ,and although this may sound childish,I'm still going to kick her --------
2007-09-15 00:13:24 · answer #1 · answered by Sabrina C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce is not always the answer. If you talk to your spouse and realize that they not interesting in working out the problems in the relationship and building back the trust - then ask them to leave. Get a good attorney and file for divorce.
However, if after speak to your spouse you realize, it was a one-time thing, and the relationship has not contiuned (or they dont work together) then try counseling first. See if the marriage is worth saving.
Get tested for STD's (if positive for any little thing - take a lighter and burn a hole in each and every piece of clothing they have!)
Hope this helps!
2007-09-15 07:54:02 · answer #2 · answered by Stacy J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first make sure that you have done all the right things to keep him happy at home. We as women are so hurt when we find that our spouses have cheated on us, but we never try to figure out why. Honey if you LOVE him talk to him, you can get through anything and you can learn to trust again,
Was she worth you throwing you marriage away?
me I just turned up the romance in my marriage and got things back on track and I have been happy every since. Communication is the key!!
2007-09-15 12:22:58 · answer #3 · answered by LovelyChoc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce
2007-09-15 07:10:43 · answer #4 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would first find out if he loved her....if he does, we divorce.
If she was just a piece of a$$ than I would want to know why? And what he felt he wasn't getting from our relationship.
I would then try to work it out...of course I would be hurt at first...but not everything is cut and dry, so I wouldn't just take the easy out and leave. I would try to fix it first.
I have alot involved in my marriage, I am not certain it is worth giving up ....sex on the side doesn't change that and neither does overbearing pride.
2007-09-15 07:31:48 · answer #5 · answered by blueink 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the circumstance, but, probably get a good divorce lawyer. No time for cheating in my life.
2007-09-15 07:09:37 · answer #6 · answered by snowbirdbabe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was totally sure?
Go down the cat house and cheat to the power of ten, supply the DVD for her lawyer, and then move out.
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2007-09-15 07:20:51 · answer #7 · answered by Danny Dix 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all id catch her in the act . be calm and cool about it say hi how u dewin to yo girl.
meet the other person makem think your a good guy.
leave just as relaxed as possible. now she should be torn up inside over wat she did so if u still want her take the call she gonna give you if not ex girl to the next girl
2007-09-15 07:50:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I divorced my cheating ex. I do not cheat and I will not, under any circumstances whatsoever, tolerate cheating.
2007-09-15 07:35:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cuss her out, pack her clothes, and tell the guy, if he don't take her with him when he leaves, I will put him in the hospital. That s*** don't fly with me. Been there and done that, three times.
2007-09-15 07:10:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋