Family & Relationships - 15 September 2007

well, I gave him a note and he never replied... He hasn't been getting online for the past two days and he's usually on every night. He won't return my calls or text messages. (I wonder if they number he gave me was fake sometimes...) At school, he doesn't even look at me. He's sort of new to the school and a lot of other girls like him. He's pretty outgoing too. I've liked this boy since I first saw him and that never ever happens to me. I always know the guy before falling for him. And this guy... The more I know about him, the more I like him. Anyone got some good adivce? I cant' simply abandon this crush since my shortest crush ever lasted a whole year. My longest lasted two years. The guys I've liked have never none that I like them, but this one might since a lot of people know... I'm like obsessed with him and I cant' help it!

2007-09-15 09:00:10 · 11 answers · asked by wakeofbeauty 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-15 08:59:15 · 3 answers · asked by Hathaway 2 in Weddings

I've never been more confused about liking someone before. There's this guy who has liked me for about a year now and he's asked me out about 6 times. The first 5 times were during my sophomore year and my response was, "I don't really want a boyfriend right now." I didn't want to go out with him and I was pretty sure I didn't like him. Now, starting my junior year, he asked me again, claiming AGAIN that he really liked me and no one else. At that point, I started to consider what it would be like to go out with him and I'm imagined what it would be like to kiss him and - they've been really good thoughts! However, as good as I feel about thinking those things, I'm not really sure I want to take the step forward to actually go out with him. When I first met him, I severely disliked him and now I'm thinking to myself, "This is crazy! How can you consider liking him - you're not SUPPOSED to like him!" Also, I realized that other guys have asked me out before and I've been able to

2007-09-15 08:58:29 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a kiss and a cuddle?

2007-09-15 08:58:27 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I HATE it. I just had this happen to me and it totaly put me in a HORRIBLE mood. I had just got my 2 year old daughter to take a nap cause she was SO grouchy. then my sister in law and nephew came over. I told them to be quite that it was difficult to get her in bed and what does my nephew who is 9 do... he goes in my sons room and starts pulling toys out of his toy box and throwing them on the floor. So my daughter wakes up. My husband had just gotten home from work 10min before they arrived on top of it all so i hadn't even been able to see him. I was so pissed now my husband is mad cause i was pissed and yelled at him cause he went to take a nap. Kinda uncalled for i shouldn't have yelled at him but god i just got her to bed and now had to deal with her when she was cranky BY myself AGAIN cause HIS nephew decided to be disrespectfull and wake her up. This is just this time but other times i still HATE when people just show up.

2007-09-15 08:58:10 · 13 answers · asked by Kacey D 3 in Family

We have been together for 11 years/engaged for 7 years. I am 26/he's 28. We argue a lot. I want to save money for a wedding/honeymoon/house and he spends it all and then some. He has racked up $15K debt w/o my knowledge. He's not sure if he wants to get married b/c of the fighting and he feels unfulfilled and bored. He wants to smoke pot basically daily and wants me to be ok w/ it. He's been leaving for days at a time when we argue. He says he just does not want to compromise anymore. He says he really loves me which I 100% believe but he is just really confused. We broke up today and he's moving out. I'm keep our apt and he's going to stay w/ his mom for a few months to save money. We decided that if we both realize breaking up was a huge mistake within a few months we could get back together. Maybe some time really apart and on his own he will realize what he has lost see the grass is not greener on the other side and be ready to spend his life w/ me. Anyone ever go through this... ?

2007-09-15 08:56:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the first time he and his wife asked me to take my kids for 2 wks while i and my husband go away for for a holiday and that they would stay the 2wks in my house with their kids too i thought that was the most craziest thing i ever heard my babies were then 1yr 2yr and 4yr i was like noway.now he comes and asks me if he could take my still babies who are 2yr, 3yrs and 5yr out for 2hrs i was like no and he got annoyed with me cause i told him i dont want my babies going out with anyone without me he then tells me he now sees how i think about him and put him in the same bracket as every body and that he knows i had a university education and that i should think at a much higher level and that i not using my brain and just now i would have to build a iron cage house to put my kids in and that they r brilliant and needs to go out with different people and just now they will start to give me pressure i told him they go out with their cousins and i take my children everywhere am i wrong

2007-09-15 08:55:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

there is this girl i met while working at my old summer job a year and half ago. i never thought we would talk outside of work. We have hunged out, we have gone to parties. we have watched movies alone, she came to my soccer games. she gets upset if we cannot hang out or somethin comes up when if she cannot hang out with me. Just last year i asked her to be my date at my formal event that i have at my college she said yes and we had soo much fun and i recently asked her to be my date at an event that i have she said yes. she text me every day, we talk on aim. she is very excited to see me whenever i come up to visit, or when she comes home she always wants to visit me. right now she is not dating anyone neither am i. if she is upset she text me or im me about it. I would like to date her and would like her to be my gf. what is the best way to go about this? does she like me? She has told guys that attempted to talk to her she is not intrested in a relationship now.what should i do/say?

2007-09-15 08:55:30 · 3 answers · asked by spurs257 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend she is going out with me last 2 years. And we are good friend. And I know she have a BF. Last couple of months I like her lot and we go out every night. How can I tell her my fillings what I need, and this is right to say anything to her what I want to say.

2007-09-15 08:53:49 · 12 answers · asked by s d 1 in Singles & Dating

ahh im having a last minute party. but when every one gets there and your just sitting there. how to you get every one like into the party mood. and what happens if they're bored!! i need help !

xo kaytee

2007-09-15 08:51:58 · 1 answers · asked by katayyy xo 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok I tured 14 on september 11, and my sister is turning 17 in October. So theres three year deffrence, She is a totall b**** to me and my parents. It makes me sad, like she just said god I hate that you were ever my sister, and shes saying f*** u to me, and go to hell,and I make her life suck. She is really mean to my mom also. Like we just went to a coffee shop to get a drink. And when we got back she started screaming at my mom for not geting her a tea. And she was in the shower and didn't even ask. My moms was like sorry I didn't know, do you want to drive down there? And shes like yea right I can't go like this I hate you! She is also mean to my dad. I wish I could take a vaction with just them and not her just to get away, but then she would start b*******, What should I do? I'm kind of deppresed.

2007-09-15 08:50:41 · 3 answers · asked by ? 5 in Family

my ex broke it off with me, but he has been insistent since the split that we remain friends. I have made a new life for myself and am having a baby with my new partner. When my ex found out that i am having a baby, he was furious. Guys, why was he furious and why is he insisiting that we stay friends??

2007-09-15 08:49:16 · 34 answers · asked by Loli 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

omg i have a boyfriend rite now and he doesnt do much.. weve been going out for a couple of months.. hes really nice and everything.. but now it seems like we dont have a connection anymore.. but im pretty sure he likes me... but now theres another guy that likes me (and he told me) and at the same time im starting to have a connection with him.. he always cares about me and we have alot of things in common.... but now i feel really bad that im starting to like this other guy.. is it wrong to break up with someone if u like another in a way? and if i do break up with him.. then how should i say it so it wouldnt be so hurtful to him?

2007-09-15 08:49:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

you had the choice to either:
win ten thousand dollars
or
go out with your crush and later on in life get married???

2007-09-15 08:48:57 · 25 answers · asked by ♥Blonde and still LOVING it♥ 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-15 08:48:08 · 9 answers · asked by kvcreom 4 in Singles & Dating

Since there are millions of unmarried teen-age prenancies and so many children that are abused and abandoned, don't you think it would be smarter to have birth control at or near the time of birth and then have it removed when they are adult enough to prove they could be loving, capable parents?

2007-09-15 08:47:55 · 7 answers · asked by LAL 5 in Family

2007-09-15 08:47:28 · 21 answers · asked by meatman1559 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-15 08:46:45 · 24 answers · asked by vee.amore 1 in Singles & Dating

After we got married, he stopped wanting to have sex. We haven't had sex in over a year. But he will "do his thing" on his own 3-4 times a week. What should I think about this? He doesn't even want to have any physical contact with me.

2007-09-15 08:45:49 · 17 answers · asked by Girly 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Well I am in high school and I was wondering how can you be a good flirt with a guy you barely met? I really started to like this guy in my Desktop Publishing class and was wondering what can I say, do to flirt with him?

2007-09-15 08:44:19 · 6 answers · asked by The German Girl Next Door. 1 in Singles & Dating

Well it's my B-DAY this weekend and my dads here(he lives in Texas my mom and dad r divorced) and i invited my BFF and she said she can go but then when i told her where gonna pick u up know ( see like sometimes i can be annoying but not all the time know im starting to be LESS annoying) but could it be she dosent wanna hang out w/ me?

2007-09-15 08:43:21 · 2 answers · asked by That Girrl♥ 4 in Friends

Ok so I am kind heavy...but I am like not really really fat...I have meat on me. And my uncle constantly watches whatever I eat when I am around him and he is fatter than me. My aunt calls me a lardass all the time. And like whenever I wear something that looks nice on me...like its not tight my grandmother says something like I have a big butt...So it gets on my nerves and I am losing weight but it takes time and also they just don't look in the mirror at all...I get stressed when around them...what do i do?

2007-09-15 08:42:57 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Where are you from?

Thank you for your answer! :)

Have a wonderful weekend! :)

2007-09-15 08:40:50 · 24 answers · asked by Moon :) 7 in Friends

2007-09-15 08:40:43 · 13 answers · asked by Kaliko 6 in Friends

My mum is always on my sister's side even when she's wrong. I hate my sister, and i always have. She's 12 and i'm 14. She thinks she's older, but she acts in a really childish way that i cant stand!! Seriously, she thinks she's like 15, but acts as if she was 9. I'm 14, and always annoyed by her, she loves annoying me, even though sometimes she can be a little nice. My mum thinks she's an angel, and no matter what she does to me (many times she punched me, stole my stuff, etc) she's always on her side. Like today for example, she was blaming me of stealing 'something', and i was supposed to know what this 'something was! Of course i didn't touch her stuff, i dont even dare to go to her room. I then answered: no i didn't stop blaming me for everything! and my mum was mad at me for being rude!!! It doesn't make sense and it's unfair. I hate them both and i hate my family. All my mum worrys about is being perfect, she wants us to be 'the perfect family with no problems at all' which is

2007-09-15 08:37:45 · 10 answers · asked by . 3 in Family

do u say to your friends that girls won't get in the way of your friendship like girls do !!! thx 4 answering xxx

2007-09-15 08:36:59 · 5 answers · asked by random.princess 4 in Singles & Dating

I have known my girl friend for years. But the way we were brought up by our families are different. I am a bit conservative than she is.

In 2 years now, we haven't had a nice evening. Not one. I always seem to fight about stuff, that are important to me but not so important to her. We have talked constantly. We talk and talk. She always promises she will change. But she does not. And I can't let go of anything because I feel if I go easy on something just for once, she will think that I have changed and I don't mind some of her actions anymore. But I do, and these things are quite important to me.

How can we solve this problem?

2007-09-15 08:36:29 · 6 answers · asked by EyesOnly 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-15 08:34:34 · 8 answers · asked by nicky j 1 in Family

This is how I have it now- is it correct?
Doctor Somebody Smith
and
Mister Anywho Smith
request the honour of your presence...

Is that ok?

2007-09-15 08:31:46 · 26 answers · asked by livinandlovin 2 in Weddings

I am at a top business program. The program is so screwed that women hooked up with guys to get through group projects and get good grades. Some sleep with teaching assistant or professors to get help on homework or hints on final exams to get good grades. I don't do this, so I don't get to work with the best teams and I don't get help on anythinng I do. I end up doing group projects on my own (of course I am at disadvantage as I have to handle 4 people's load as one person). I am better than a lot of people there, but I have to settle for lower grades. It is so unfair, I wonder if I should open up a little, so I won't have to live with bad grades for the rest of my life. It hurts to see women doing unethical things end up having good grades, bright future and go anywhere they want.

What should I do? Please don't give me moral preach.

2007-09-15 08:31:40 · 20 answers · asked by prettyinpink 1 in Singles & Dating