omg i have a boyfriend rite now and he doesnt do much.. weve been going out for a couple of months.. hes really nice and everything.. but now it seems like we dont have a connection anymore.. but im pretty sure he likes me... but now theres another guy that likes me (and he told me) and at the same time im starting to have a connection with him.. he always cares about me and we have alot of things in common.... but now i feel really bad that im starting to like this other guy.. is it wrong to break up with someone if u like another in a way? and if i do break up with him.. then how should i say it so it wouldnt be so hurtful to him?
2007-09-15 08:49:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you were truly in love with the first guy, you wouldn't even consider the second guy. Relationships are built on trust. Seems your first guy can't trust you, and you would be doing him a favor by breaking up with him. Tell him you don't feel a connection with him anymore, and want to break up. You don't even need to mention the other guy. Or, you could tell him you've met someone new. Your choice.
2007-09-15 09:00:37 · answer #1 · answered by soupkitty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you have to see which one you really like?all guys are nice in the beginning now if you have more common things with the new guy then you should be with him if you like him and get along with him.now if you get along with the other one then don't break up just cause he's not so nice any more cause that's nothing new the one you are talking to is going to change too.
now first you should talk to him and tell him you don't really feel comfortable because things are not the same if he loves you he will try to make things better and comfortable for you!
then if he dose not then you can tell him "look i tried but we don't have a connection no more we need to break up i need some one that loves and cares about me"
hope i helped
2007-09-15 09:07:27 · answer #2 · answered by l4cub4nit4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think what i would do if i was in your shoes to just see if ur boyfriend really seems like he would do ANYTHING to be with u and doesnt just keep to himself around u because he is afraid to loose u. A good boyfriend would know u good enough and be confident enough that u dont care about if he messes up or goofs off but that u love to be around him no matter what so see whcich guy fits this and if u do break up with ur bf let him know the reason before u do then, if u really like him, he can improve.
hope this helped
<333 nicole
2007-09-15 08:58:47 · answer #3 · answered by {a m b e r r} {♥} 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow thts a tough 1. from tht situation you reli sudnt force yourself to choose. just try and wait it out and see what happens, try talkin to th guy your dating now and seeing if you can repir your relationship. and if you cnt then it wnt last much longer anyway, but u shudnt dump him rite now bcoz you feel different, the ova guy mite not last at all and you mite wish the ova 1 bac if u just end it now. hope this helps
2007-09-15 09:01:15 · answer #4 · answered by Yends 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hope "wif" was a spelling error and you arent trying to act like a thug or something lol
Why would it be wrong to break up with someone that you dont have a connection with and be with someone that you do?
thats dumb
2007-09-15 08:56:08 · answer #5 · answered by la428282 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"simple really, I climbed the mountain and nearly died just because it was there."
men see most women as a goal to accomplish. now that he has you and he knows it he is losing interest. you need to break up with him. i have done the same thing and myself and my gf agreed that we needed to break up. if he sees you as a gaol than you dont want him.
2007-09-15 08:56:12 · answer #6 · answered by valorandmadness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope jus break his heart he will get over it better to be honest then be a lil ho tho! So get r done u big meanie
2007-09-15 08:56:05 · answer #7 · answered by yepunhuh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to break up with ur boyfriend. this isnt fair to him...and sorry to burst ur bubble but there is NO way to say it that it wont hurt him...sorry...just do it soon and get it off ur chest
2007-09-15 08:57:01 · answer #8 · answered by Baby_G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋