I have known my girl friend for years. But the way we were brought up by our families are different. I am a bit conservative than she is.
In 2 years now, we haven't had a nice evening. Not one. I always seem to fight about stuff, that are important to me but not so important to her. We have talked constantly. We talk and talk. She always promises she will change. But she does not. And I can't let go of anything because I feel if I go easy on something just for once, she will think that I have changed and I don't mind some of her actions anymore. But I do, and these things are quite important to me.
How can we solve this problem?
2007-09-15 08:36:29 · 6 answers · asked by EyesOnly 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You haven't had a single enjoyable evening with her in two years and you actually feel the need to ask complete strangers what you should do?
Some folks deserve their own misery.
2007-09-15 08:46:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually the solution is simple. You should examine why it is so important to make her change to meet your view of the world when you know it is not hers. If you don't like her actions the obvious, and mature, action is to change your relationship to that of just friends (although I personally would not even want a friend who is so intolerant of my personal beliefs) and look for a "girlfriend" who will be more ready to submit to your will. In other words: you should grow up and let her have a life.
2007-09-15 15:45:27 · answer #2 · answered by Wiz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you 2 have serious communication problems. Unfortunatly if you guys can't come to even ground than this relationship will not end up working out. You both need to compromise not just her, and you need to do it together, maybe even taking baby steps if you have to. Remember progress not perfection
2007-09-15 15:43:32 · answer #3 · answered by joker:P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you are compatible with this girl. If you can't get along while dating, it would not be a good idea to continue. You are getting a preview of your life with her. Is that what you really want? You have serious issues. Move on.
2007-09-15 15:43:16 · answer #4 · answered by soupkitty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
separate for awhile and try to get back to normal life. Think about, pray about it and ask God to lead you in the right direction. He knows your future so why not allow him to guide your steps?
2007-09-15 15:40:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hard to say.. not enough info... however why has this dragged on for two years.. and since i has.. neither one of u will probably change. you may need different partners.
2007-09-15 15:40:41 · answer #6 · answered by foosieboy1953 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋