My mum is always on my sister's side even when she's wrong. I hate my sister, and i always have. She's 12 and i'm 14. She thinks she's older, but she acts in a really childish way that i cant stand!! Seriously, she thinks she's like 15, but acts as if she was 9. I'm 14, and always annoyed by her, she loves annoying me, even though sometimes she can be a little nice. My mum thinks she's an angel, and no matter what she does to me (many times she punched me, stole my stuff, etc) she's always on her side. Like today for example, she was blaming me of stealing 'something', and i was supposed to know what this 'something was! Of course i didn't touch her stuff, i dont even dare to go to her room. I then answered: no i didn't stop blaming me for everything! and my mum was mad at me for being rude!!! It doesn't make sense and it's unfair. I hate them both and i hate my family. All my mum worrys about is being perfect, she wants us to be 'the perfect family with no problems at all' which is
2007-09-15 08:37:45 · 10 answers · asked by . 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
really annoying. Plz help me, i dont know what to do. sometimes i feel like running away and leaving for good.
2007-09-15 08:38:34 · update #1
I was your little sister when I was young. I hate to admit that, but it's true. Only I blamed my younger sister and got away with it. Today, my sister is a drug addict and 150 lbs over weight and I feel like I am to blame. Don't let her get to you. Some day she will realize how wrong she was to treat you like that and be truly sorry. It may be 30 years from now, but it will happen.
As for your mum, she may not even realize - truly realize - how deeply this hurts you. Ask to talk to her alone when she can listen to you 100% and explain to her your sorrow of the situation and ask for her help.
Good luck. I'm sorry you are going through that.
2007-09-15 08:50:16 · answer #1 · answered by MaryBerry 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
oh mate I'm sorry about your family if you are right.
but I think you are a little upset of your mom and sister it is normally.but only know that the hate sense is more hard than love or like sense so try to like them.
you ry don't let her have your stuff and speak with your mom kindly because your mom is a mother she love you because all the moms loves their children(kids) only tell your sister every thing seriously and if she don't accept tell it your mom and if she don't accept tell it to your dad be sure your dad will help you
2007-09-15 18:46:05 · answer #2 · answered by ashrafi_m007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time you're accused of something you didn't do, explain CALMLY and POLITELY that you didn't do it.
You didn't get in trouble for what you said, but for HOW you said it.
If you seem calm and mature, you will be taken more seriously.
You do NOT want to run away, as that is a death sentence for someone of your age.
Do you have any relatives near by? When things get bad at home, you could go see them for a while, and cool off.
2007-09-15 11:32:42 · answer #3 · answered by tehabwa 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have you confronted your mom about how you feel? You should. Little sisters hmm.... I don't have one but when she tries to annoy you ignore it don't give her the pleasure of letting her know she gets to you. And do this patronize her people hate being patronized I do it all the time be sarcastic when she hits fight back. It's all about respect get her to respect you not dominate you! Hope it gets better good luck!!!
2007-09-15 08:56:30 · answer #4 · answered by Shadow of Hope 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I agree with you I hate my family they think I'm Invisable and they would be telling me to shut up omg I want to run away
2014-06-24 23:20:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart..... A lot of times parents let the younger kids get by with their accusations just to keep the peace !! I know it's wrong and unfair but they don't realize what they are doing !!! Talk to Mom about it !!! If that doesn't help talk to an Aunt, Grandmother, friend, teacher, minister, someone !!! If nothing else just agree with everything sissy says and soon she will stop because she won't be getting the reaction she wants. She wants to get under your skin and you are letting her !!! Good luck !!!!!
2007-09-15 09:07:48 · answer #6 · answered by Diana 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
And then what? Rats and pimps don't make for good siblings, I'd avoid running away. How about you just be responsible for your behavior and let everyone else worry about theirs. In a few short years you will leave both your sister and your mother behind and this won't be an issue at all.
2007-09-15 08:53:50 · answer #7 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 2⤊ 3⤋
I know what u mean my sister is just like that.
2007-09-15 12:13:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
"hate" is a very strong word...you might want to re-think that. as far as your little sister goes, you should ingore her. most times when your little sister or little brother is getting on your nerves and you stop letting them get to you, they get bored with it and start to do their own thing...as far as your mom you need to talk to her and let her know how it makes you feel when she takes your sister's side...good luck
2007-09-15 08:45:21 · answer #9 · answered by made it to the top 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
please when you think you are alone your going to wish you had somebody, so if you really want to leave and run away just think in the future you can look back on all those who hated on you and laugh
2007-09-15 08:46:22 · answer #10 · answered by Mz.Swag 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋