the first time he and his wife asked me to take my kids for 2 wks while i and my husband go away for for a holiday and that they would stay the 2wks in my house with their kids too i thought that was the most craziest thing i ever heard my babies were then 1yr 2yr and 4yr i was like noway.now he comes and asks me if he could take my still babies who are 2yr, 3yrs and 5yr out for 2hrs i was like no and he got annoyed with me cause i told him i dont want my babies going out with anyone without me he then tells me he now sees how i think about him and put him in the same bracket as every body and that he knows i had a university education and that i should think at a much higher level and that i not using my brain and just now i would have to build a iron cage house to put my kids in and that they r brilliant and needs to go out with different people and just now they will start to give me pressure i told him they go out with their cousins and i take my children everywhere am i wrong
2007-09-15 08:55:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
They are your kids...your responsibility. So your decision is always right. I get suspicious of adults that want access to children even if it's legitimate.
2007-09-15 09:00:52 · answer #1 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think your friend and his wife were odd for offering to watch your children for the two weeks you were away on holiday, perhaps he thought that you would enjoy the time alone with your husband. Are his children the same age as any of his own? Maybe he's asking to take them to give you a break and to have play dates with his own children? It's fine to be protective, and in this day and age you have too, but try and figure out his motives before you get angry about things.
2007-09-15 09:02:07 · answer #2 · answered by Zyggy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are doing the right thing I mean I used to stay with my uncle he babysat me and the worst thing happened he sexually abused me. I mean you cant trust anyone not even your husband wait til they are older so if anything happens they can tell you ok so just keep them with you at all times
2007-09-15 09:04:00 · answer #3 · answered by shelly89 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's wierd. They have their own children. You haven't asked for a sitter. Why are they offering this? They aren't even related to you. I wouldn't do it either, I can't imagine someone offering this.
2007-09-15 09:00:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your the parents dont let them take advange of you its your kid not thiers by law they cant its your choise think about it people you can trust is ok and look up thier record to see if thier ok
2007-09-15 09:38:38 · answer #5 · answered by chrissibug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree... he sounds weird... do not leave your kids alone with this guy.... better yet do not allow him over.....
2007-09-15 09:08:57 · answer #6 · answered by MJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋