Family & Relationships - 15 September 2007

Do I move out? I have left in the same place since I have moved in a year ago. I confronted him about it and he laughed it off, but never denied it. What should I do?

2007-09-15 21:08:18 · 13 answers · asked by ms.O 2 in Singles & Dating

most of the ppl i know i would die for. is that a bad thing? i know some of them would not take a bullet for me yet i know i would for them? is that bad? how do i say that without sounding gay?why do i put myself lower than my friends who wont do the same?

2007-09-15 21:04:57 · 14 answers · asked by Nic B 2 in Friends

Not sixpack beer, Lol sixpack abs

2007-09-15 20:47:52 · 13 answers · asked by ♣Kermit the Frog♣ 4 in Singles & Dating

I talk to a girl online that is 1 grade below me. I havent seen her sincee last year and i really like her. I wasnt to know the perfect way to ask her out. I really want her to be mine. Please help!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-09-15 20:42:32 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do you think that the mcanns killed little maddie?

2007-09-15 20:41:29 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-09-15 20:29:49 · 4 answers · asked by CONSERVATIVE 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-15 20:28:00 · 4 answers · asked by grh322005 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi!!! This is Nicole!!!
My mother died many years ago and she had told me to look after my father (Simon) and my brothers (Peter and Jack).
I am working a lot. And my father is an alcoholic, he spends all the money that I earn. I have a boyfriend- Sebastian, he is a sailor. He made me a proposal and he askes to move to Paris.
What do I do?

2007-09-15 20:24:51 · 3 answers · asked by HITME 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Which girl is prettier? Please tell why you think the girl you picked is prettier!

Thank you!!!

Girl 1:
http://i239.photobucket.com/albums/ff194/amandaginnity/1111.jpg

http://i239.photobucket.com/albums/ff194/amandaginnity/111.jpg

Girl 2:
http://i239.photobucket.com/albums/ff194/amandaginnity/BigEyes.jpg

http://i239.photobucket.com/albums/ff194/amandaginnity/thispicisok.jpg


Thanks! I know how tired you must get of girls asking if they are pretty when they are actually beautiful, but I would really like to know what your opinion is!
* Thanks *

2007-09-15 20:15:04 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

can you tell me why a woman who is married and in her.40.s with childern and married make a *** out of her self make a fool out of her self make a *** out of herself .think a guy like me at.17. would want her this tramp did back and thought i was in love with her what a nut case she was she had.4. kids and wasnt all that good. you get my meaning those streach marks on her ws sicking to me but i coouldnt stand her man that.s why i did her . and really couldnt really stand her she proved to me she was a whore. really thinking i wanted her so why do women make a fool. as well whore. out of there marrage.children. and there selves as well knowing this hick from w.va. thinking i was in love with her she.s really silly to think i at.17. would want a person her age . in her.40.s she that whore was oler than my mom i was doing my.2. year missionary work and ran upon this tramp in w.va a real slut. and tramp as well to me . is all older women like this whore .

2007-09-15 20:02:40 · 19 answers · asked by matthew v 3 in Marriage & Divorce

me and this girl have been dating for 3 years, and a few times we stop talking because we got upset at each other, but finally she accepted being my girlfriend, now i know she doesnt love me as much as i love her. my question is, once you are bf and gf, is it ok to show more affection, cause i always hear that men should hold of and not smother a girl with affection, but i want to cause i'm in love with her, but if that is bad strategy or will scare her away i dont want to do that, any advice on this, and if this is not the way to go, what can i do?

2007-09-15 19:59:24 · 11 answers · asked by jack a 1 in Singles & Dating

This is so not fair.

And dont even mention "Sorry"

2007-09-15 19:56:03 · 9 answers · asked by Patrick N 1 in Family

i've been going with this girl for 2years, a few days i asked her to be my girlfriend and she said yes, but i think she is still talking to a previous friend who she went out in the past and like 3 months ago got reaquainted, which i saw on her email. before i asked her to be my girlfriend the guy asked her if she would be her date for a wedding, and he was emailing her saying your beatiful, thinking of you etc., and yesterday i saw him ask again about the wedding, now that she is my girlfriend, and she responded, maybe, i'll let you know. i cant confront her with this, cause i went to her email, but then i cant stop thinking about it. should i just let it go and take it now that she she is my girlfriend see what happens? i know she cares about me else why would she accept to be my gf, i told her that there was no obligation for her to say yes,but if she thought we had no future just say no, and at least i could move on,but she said yes.p.s. no lectures on me checkin her email.

2007-09-15 19:55:37 · 1 answers · asked by jack a 1 in Singles & Dating

I was naturally devastated but friends said he was genuinely remorseful as he told me as soon as it happened and said he would do "whatever it takes" to repair the damage. My question is; 'what do you classify as cheating'? Emotionally & physically - a kiss? sleeping with someone else? Would you take him back? Thx for your responses!

2007-09-15 19:45:30 · 24 answers · asked by Help! 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im datting a guy on an IM and he is only 3 months older than me and i know what he looks like really in real life. but the thing is should i keep dating him even if we do both love each other or not

2007-09-15 19:45:04 · 35 answers · asked by kthairfield 2 in Singles & Dating

and we'll fill in the missing colors of each other's paint by number dreams."

Do these women still exist? Is it too late for me to find her?

2007-09-15 19:24:45 · 4 answers · asked by Chazman1347 4 in Singles & Dating

I'm currently in a state of mild depression, I've already gone through a bad depression 3 years ago. I'm in Australia but I'm Italian, I don't have any friends here apart from my housemates, that are all part of my boyfriend's family.
Now, I know that being around someone in my state isn't easy or fun, but yesterday he told me this: "It's frustrating seeing you like this, it makes me really angry, it makes me livid. Sometimes I think you're just taking the piss". And this after I had another crying attack, which I'm not proud of but that I really can't control.

Now, I already feel quite lonely and isolated sometimes (I've been here for 8 months) but last night I really felt helpless, as if I really didn't know what to say or do.

He loves me, he really does, and I understand that it's hard for him to see this part of me. But sometimes the things he says make me feel even guiltier for being like this, or he uses sarcasm and ridiculises what I'm feeling.

What should I do?

2007-09-15 19:23:09 · 15 answers · asked by Steghetta 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my mother is phsycologicly messed up on tons of pills, my brother (a god to her) is stealing them, smoking pot in the house, drinking nearly everyday, and for the past 2 yrs his friend has been living here and doing the same, only he back talks my father, me and my boyfriend. my boyfriend was tired of being nice to such a punk and kicked his butt and then my family agreed to kick him out. well the next day while i was at work he came by with a pitty story and they took him back in. only been 3 days and they've already back talked my father again and brought over a bunch of people and are partying. i've planned to move out by next month with my boyfriend. the thing is, is that my mother lets the kid talk to my father like that, she thinks he's a god too. why would my mom like these pot smoking, drunk, pill popping brats more than me? i've been threatend to be kicked out 3 times if i didn't get a job, which i've been working since 16, and my brother's 18 and hasn't done anything.never, not once, did she encourage him to do anything, he doesn't even know how to drive. he even dropped out of school. i tried to help him find a job and get back to school, but him and his friend got in my face and told me to go f^&% myself. i've tried helping all of them, but i feel bad leaving the situation. my poor father is such a good man, he does all he can but my mother just yells at him to shut up if he says he doesn't like them smoking pot or drinking or partying. should i just leave it as is? should i contact someone about the drug use? i don't want my father in trouble, he tries hard to not allow it, it's all my mother.

2007-09-15 19:05:44 · 8 answers · asked by Bitterly Sweet 3 in Family

2007-09-15 18:57:36 · 25 answers · asked by hengly98 1 in Singles & Dating

last year he said he didn't like me...
this year he acted weird.
i've changed alot and everyone even the unexpected peeps said i'm pretty...
he playis b ball with me...
and we traveled with our team...
I decided to ignore him and pretend to like another guy so I starred at this other cute senior guy...
he was starring alot of time ...
my friend told me he was starring.
his friend said that he liked me.
but he continued to say no.
he starred for alot of time.
watched the girls bball game and looked at me..
he said to my friend "she doesn't like me so I shouldn't watch the game"
he starred and we laughed together about funny things that were told by people on the bus...
and my friend...
he came without a shirt after the shower and was walking through the corridor...I didn't recognize him but it was him...
and was starring.
then when we came back on the bus to retourn me and my friend sat close to him and his friend..
he came closer...we had a stop at the autogrill..

2007-09-15 18:48:02 · 12 answers · asked by kdat 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-15 18:43:13 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do you think? His parents are also cousins and my parents are not related.

2007-09-15 18:42:10 · 5 answers · asked by salia s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we have three children we work as much as we can and i now she does more than me and i want to do something for her we dont have a huge budget but i can do something i hope what is somethings you would enjoy

2007-09-15 18:33:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So this is just a random thought. I am a sophomore in college and I went out with a Jewish orthodox girl for about 2 years. I wasn't allowed to hang out with her alone, since her parents are so paranoid about us doing stuff. Anyway, they wanted to meet me once their daughter became obssesive over me. Anyway, I went to their house for tea and after, say, an hour of talking with the family and all that, I find out that they "love" me (my girlfriend told me that afterward). They thought I was nice, intelligent, and handsome. Okay, but I don't understand why they thought I am so nice or intelligent (I am, but that's besides the point). I mean, all my friends can put up the same act and come off as being nice when they are really cruel. I have many friends like that, who my dad thinks are "nice" people. They do drugs, fail school, and steal other peoples' girlfriends, yet they come out as being nice guys to parents. I don't get it! Parents need to wisen up a bit...

2007-09-15 18:32:52 · 8 answers · asked by dosahyd f 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

and we should wait to have sex

she felt upset.
How would you feel if your mate said that to you?

2007-09-15 18:25:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-15 18:25:07 · 1 answers · asked by awi_71 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband works nights, 12 hour shifts so he has to sleep all day. He also sleeps all day when he is off. I know he is tired, but i feel neglected. I stay at home with our 6 mo old and take care of all the housework so he can come home and relax. I feel unappreciated and very lonely. When I try to talk to him about it, he gets angry. He says I always try to make him feel bad. All I want is for him to set aside a little time for me on the weekends. I have no family here and no one to talk to. Am I being selfish?

2007-09-15 18:19:06 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

want to know if it's possible to let go of all the hurt and completely trust again. my boyfriend is great, we share a lot in common. problem: we were both blind-sighted in our previous marriages and have a hard time with trust. our relationship is at a stage where we love eachother and want more, but the past hurt has made us scared to move any further. Can our relationship mature without 100% trust? Sometimes I feel it's better to expect the worst so I can never be disappointed. Is that healthy? I want to be with this man, he's the first man that has truly been my friend first and I don't want to lose him or our friendship.

2007-09-15 18:17:51 · 3 answers · asked by shes_marie77 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-15 18:15:46 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i need some serious answers with explanation

2007-09-15 18:04:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends