2007-09-15 18:57:36 · 25 answers · asked by hengly98 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lol....
2007-09-15 19:00:52 · answer #1 · answered by MJ 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Depend on how you define cuddling. To me cuddling is just having your arms around each other. That's easy. Talk, watch TV.
Now if you start kissing, things start warming up. If you let it get too hot then you have to back off and do something else to get your mind off it.
If for some reason, neither of you have any power of self control, I would cool it altogether or invest in condoms and use them. (Not trying to be funny.)
2007-09-16 02:10:00 · answer #2 · answered by Lucy's Mama 1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on who you are afraid of trying to direct it to other things. If it is the person you want to cuddle with, just simply say "I really want to cuddle" or "Will you cuddle with me?" That way the other person will be less likely to view it as an open door on your part. If it is you, you must maintain will power! Every time that you consider taking it further, just think of something that will completely turn you off. One example, your parents getting it on. Or someone that you are absolutely NOT attracted to.
2007-09-16 02:06:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anneybo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on who u cuddle with.... I say every time u cuddle with a girl be prepared in could lead to more... just life...But, to avoid, cuddle with girls u really have no feelings for other wise. Avoid direct skin to skin contact - wear clothes all over, do not kiss or touch skin, watch movie while cuddling...etc..
2007-09-16 02:02:35 · answer #4 · answered by Willing to learn 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Non-sexual contact is fairly simple. Just hug softly, around the torso, without either party leaning across the other too hard. If a hand starts moving towards an area you don't want it to, just redirect it softly with your own hand. They should understand.
2007-09-16 02:02:31 · answer #5 · answered by matrim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its around someone i really like i dont think i would be able to cuddle without anything happening
2007-09-16 02:07:59 · answer #6 · answered by Lilshorty69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep your wits about you and set out beforehand mentally how far YOU want to go and make sure it doesn't go past that. Your partner will be disappointed if they wanted to go further but they will understand your decision. Rushing things can be bad.
2007-09-16 02:01:47 · answer #7 · answered by Chris457 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's not that hard. as long as your intention is only to have a good night and cuddle then it will not be on your mind. if you have to there is nothing wrong with relieving yourself before hand so that you are more relaxed.
2007-09-16 02:05:21 · answer #8 · answered by Star 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Start cuddling... and say sigh contently and say something like "I love just cuddling with you like this".
they should get the hint. :)
If they don't, and they try to keep going with you... explain kindly that right now, you just want to be close to them.
2007-09-16 02:02:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
cuddling doesnt lead to things KISSING does :)
2007-09-16 02:00:54 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
your kidden rite?
god did not give men the will power on this subject!
if you want to cuddle, get a puppy
2007-09-16 02:03:01 · answer #11 · answered by FATCAT 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋