Hi!!! This is Nicole!!!
My mother died many years ago and she had told me to look after my father (Simon) and my brothers (Peter and Jack).
I am working a lot. And my father is an alcoholic, he spends all the money that I earn. I have a boyfriend- Sebastian, he is a sailor. He made me a proposal and he askes to move to Paris.
What do I do?
2007-09-15 20:24:51 · 3 answers · asked by HITME 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I believe your mother wanted you to live a life.
She didn't mean for you to spend all your life looking after your father and your brothers.
Your father needs to be the one looking after himself and his sons... You didn't mention how old your brothers are? I know you said he (your father) is an alcoholic, but you are only enabling him...
You honored your mother's wishes, now it is your turn.
You deserve it.
Good Luck, faith
2007-09-15 20:43:53 · answer #1 · answered by faith♥missouri 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
wow. your in a tough situation. and i hate to say this but unless you pay for AA for your dad then you risk loosing him while moving. If i were in your postion i'd go to paris and be with the one i loved because i've suffered so much grief already that it wouldn't matter what happened. but that's just me. it really jsut comes down to whither or not you believe that your brothers and father can live without you being there. so talk to your brothers about it.
2007-09-15 20:41:33 · answer #2 · answered by silvery102792 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm move, people in asia n africa never had no one, so be grateful.
2007-09-15 21:15:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋