and we should wait to have sex
she felt upset.
How would you feel if your mate said that to you?
2007-09-15 18:25:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think that is sweet, but with you saying it's not physical, that may make her feel bad about herself.
2007-09-15 18:39:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not so much what you said as how you said it. It doesn't matter what the girl wants as far as sex goes, if you tell her you don't feel a physical connection with her she's going to be hurt or pissed or both.
I'd be pissed and forget the guy. But only cause physical attraction and sex are as important to me as all the other stuff.
Next time put a positive spin on it.
2007-09-17 00:27:33 · answer #2 · answered by Kat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would feel like i was being lied to. plus physical attraction is needed to make a relationship work. if u don't have the physical attraction u're probably wasting every1s time. sorry & good luck
2007-09-16 01:37:03 · answer #3 · answered by dkchick123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd think, wow you're a good friend, but I'm wanting some sex, so I'm going to go find a boyfriend/bed buddy now. Well, assuming I was single.
2007-09-16 01:33:10 · answer #4 · answered by skunk pie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Waiting to have sex is good.
But the wording would make me think the guy wasn't attracted me.
Hello insecurity. :]
2007-09-16 01:33:43 · answer #5 · answered by Dancing Chickk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should wait until you are married to have sex. That is being respectful of her.
2007-09-16 01:37:21 · answer #6 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Hurt, insulted, confused and pretty darned mad.
2007-09-16 01:54:33 · answer #7 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋