we have three children we work as much as we can and i now she does more than me and i want to do something for her we dont have a huge budget but i can do something i hope what is somethings you would enjoy
2007-09-15 18:33:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
1. A scented bubble bath with aroma therapy candles and a glass of wine or champagne while you make a fantastic dinner. And, you must put thought into that dinner... get a cookbook and learn. Arrange the plate like it's a gourmet meal. Make sure the kids are at the sitter.
2. A night away from the house. Stay at a hotel, take her out to a special place for dinner. Give her some money to get a new outfit beforehand.
HINT: women love anything that shows effort and they feel like they are being pampered. They also love a break from the ordinary.
2007-09-15 18:45:38 · answer #1 · answered by mosaic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when I had three kids at home,,,I wanted more than anything to come home to a clean house,no kids fighting,even better if they were at grandma's.My husband to meet me at the door with a kiss and a wine cooler,and something delicious simmering on the stove,or grill. I would take a shower,slip into my robe,and we would sit and have a nice quiet candlelit dinner together,just the two of us.some soft music playing in the background would be nice....dinner could just be spagetti,french bread,and salad,simple yet good.Put a checked tablecloth,a candle,and two wine glasses on a small table maybe in another room,or a bedroom,or patio,that's what I did.It was lots of fun.
2007-09-15 18:53:04 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make arrangements for someone to watch the kids for the evening or all night. Give your wife a beautiful card or one that you made with a certificate enclosed for a date on the night chosen. Take her to a restaurant, bring dinner home or cook dinner yourself. It can be candle lit or regular lighting.
Another thing you could do is send your wife flowers with a note attached stating you'll get the kids from school--all she needs to do is go home and relax and then do the dinner thing.
Romance doesn't need to be expensive.
2007-09-15 18:58:20 · answer #3 · answered by Mignon F 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her for a walk on the beach on a moonlit night and take a radio along with something to eat and drink lay a blanket on the beach and enjoy each other. Just talk to her and tell her how beautiful you think she is and how you feel your the luckiest man to have found her to share you life with.......Words are beautiful to hear from your husband but they are best when they travel with actions. Show her you love her by always telling her how pretty she is and how you see how hard she works to make your family what it is.. Words of care and love are what pull a woman's strings.. We melt like sweet butter. The trick to a happy marriage is not to forget that she is a woman first and foremost and to remind yourself that she loves to be loved and when a woman feels loved she loves back twice its fold. My husband tell me good things each and every day.. He compliments even the coffee i make him.
2007-09-15 18:54:32 · answer #4 · answered by LittleDaisy. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of my favorite memories was on a Saturday, my husband got up with the kids and made their breakfast, then they all brought me breakfast in bed. He whisked them away, let me read the paper in bed for an hour while they all straightened up the house- vacuumed, floor swept, bathroom cleaned and then when I mosied out of the bedroom he gave me a kiss and said I'll see you in a few hours.
Took the kids and left the house! When he came back in the early afternoon he was alone. Be ready to go in an hour and we went to the show and for an early dinner then back home for a few hours of "alone time". He went and picked up the kids, we played with them for a little while and then we put them to bed together. It was a wonderful day!
2007-09-15 19:03:23 · answer #5 · answered by dizzkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trying buying her a card or just 1 Rose. Have the kids kept overnite and wine and dine her. Make her feel special, like she's the only one. You don't need alot of money to show someone you love them. Affection and Attention !!
2007-09-15 18:55:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
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Give her the day and night off, you will have to keep up with all the chores, you wouldn't want your wife to have to do them all the next day, if your not sure what she does all day with 3 kids ask her to give you a list. Good luck
God bless.
2007-09-15 18:51:45 · answer #7 · answered by luvspace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your parents or a friend to watch your children one night, and cook her a nice romantic, relaxing dinner, and just do everything for her...talk to her, go for a walk, massage her, just make it all about her.
2007-09-15 18:42:29 · answer #8 · answered by amcs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all with three kids you guys arent getting alone time.have a family member babysit.get lots of candles and make it real romantic.thats cheap enough.dont forget the chocolate and whip cream.........then get ur freak on.
2007-09-15 19:03:54 · answer #9 · answered by Lilshorty69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you can cook her favorite food. Surprise her with all the little things she loves.
2007-09-15 18:50:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋