Family & Relationships - 15 September 2007

Would you let your children crawl in bed with you in the morning, if you and your spouse made love in the bed the night before? Why/why not

2007-09-15 09:42:57 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i know its random but its just so wierd, its like any guy that talks to me or is nice i fancy desperately. This is okay i suppose but it also applis to distant family members and teacher......:( oh dear any advice on how to cope, btw im not going to act on my feelings before u say anything about that! ( im 15 btw) please answer

2007-09-15 09:42:53 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend whom I have been with for a year now with a lot of ups and downs, told me, over dinner:
'Do you know that you are my love? Our relationship has changed drastically and I now feel very confident about it. Before that, YOU were unsure about your feelings. NOW you are sure, and I am sure...'
I was a bit taken aback because I did not feel like entering a serious convo! So I just smiled to him...
Does he mean that we are getting serious? Any input? Thanks in advance...
I must add something here: he DID ask me to marry him several times, but that was 6 months ago. At the time, I laughed a little, not acknowledging his proposal.
Then we broke up, my fault again. When he came back to me, and that was about 3 months ago, we both made an effort to be nice to each other; BUT, he did not mention 'marriage' again.
Any input please ? Many thanks in advance...

2007-09-15 09:41:09 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We have been together for 11 years/engaged for 7 years. I am 26/he's 28. We argue a lot. I want to save money for a wedding/honeymoon/house and he spends it all and then some. He has racked up $15K debt w/o my knowledge. He's not sure if he wants to get married b/c of the fighting and he feels unfulfilled and bored. He wants to smoke pot basically daily and wants me to be ok w/ it. He's been leaving for days at a time when we argue. He says he just does not want to compromise anymore. He says he really loves me which I 100% believe but he is just really confused. We broke up today and he's moving out. I'm keep our apt and he's going to stay w/ his mom for a few months to save money. We decided that if we both realize breaking up was a huge mistake within a few months we could get back together. Maybe some time really apart and on his own he will realize what he has lost see the grass is not greener on the other side and be ready to spend his life w/ me. Anyone ever go through this... ?

2007-09-15 09:39:24 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

weird or wonderful

2007-09-15 09:38:28 · 45 answers · asked by gigglewiggles 3 in Friends

ok if you anwered my otther thing message whatever im going for the guy who i like cuz i feel like it and im not a slut for likeing him even though he has a gf he gives me hugs so thats love lol

2007-09-15 09:36:52 · 10 answers · asked by ailna's in love 1 in Singles & Dating

my ex and i are not in touch alot but we check in with each other once in a while, to say hi. he was mad when he found out i was pregnant, and last week, he was asking how things were going with the pregnancy and doctors etc. I found out yesterday that i am having a boy, so along with all my other friends, i text him to say that i was really happy and that i´m having a healthy boy. I know that we are not together, but he hasn´t even replied to say that he is pleased, (this would be the polite thing to do), and considering that he was asking me how things are a week ago, why is he blowing hot and cold??

2007-09-15 09:35:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It's been almost 2 years since I left my cheating ex. Now I'm thankful to be happily engaged to the most wonderful man. But ever once in a while, a thought pops up and makes me wonder why did he do it?

To spare you with the detailed story, here's the specifics:
- we're both between 24-27 yrs old
- I helped him financially while he before and after he went out of the country to teach English. He ran into some trouble overseas, and I was up 24/7 supporting him, helping him.
- I later found out he had been cheating on me in the US and Asia. I told the girls here, so he still blames me for ruining their friendship.
- I questioned him, he denied everything. I never told his family members what happened.

He's tried to contact me to see if I was still angry with him. I never responded. I felt so betrayed & minipulated-

How do I heal this pain? should I confront him again? I really just want to move on with life, but am having such a hard time -

2007-09-15 09:32:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 23, parents been divorced about 3 years now....and my Dads new girlfriend is hella fine!!! She's 45 and is seriously gorgeous!!!! But she inappropriately flirts with me, especially when my father isn't around....especially at parties and stuff, she tries to get me drunk. One night we were both drunk when my Dad was away and we made out and did some heavy petting....she does stuff like grab my butt a lot...when my Dads gone she'll come cuddle up in my bed with me....I have mixed feelings, I know its completely wrong and inappropriate, but at the same time I like it....is it alright as long as we don't have sex?

2007-09-15 09:28:07 · 14 answers · asked by Clarence 2 in Singles & Dating

I am almost 25, and I plan on having sex soon with my boyfriend /fiancee. I have never had sex before, and he knows it. I would like him to be a little more impressed by the fact that I have managed to put off sex for such a long time (I was very focused on my career and studies). He doesn't seem impressed at all, and I would even think he is a little disturbed by it.

On the other hand I also feel very shamed for being a virgin in my mid 20s and he knows that. So what do you think? Does he fake not caring about my sitation to help me over this embarassing step, or does he not care period.

I know it's a silly one.

2007-09-15 09:22:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am very confused about this whole divorce & custody issue. The man I am trying to see is divorced, has been that way for over 2 years, he is now in a custody battle between his ex-wife to get more access to his children - right now he can't take them out of the city, and only sees them with it is covenant for his ex-wife.

Now my confusion starts with wanting to have this relationship, but getting mixed signals from him ... one day we can be getting hot & heavy and the next day he's cold as ice towards me.... I don't know if he's been advised by his lawyer not to date someone right now, or if he has chosen that himself. I know this custody thing is taking allot out of him - emotionally, mentally, and financially, but what am I suppose to do?

Should I take a step back, and wait for things to calm down with the custody of his kids, and let him make the next move with this relationship? Or should I still be around, but in a less active nature?

2007-09-15 09:22:20 · 15 answers · asked by very_confussed 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I would first like to say that iam not a ***** and I do have values but this is a problem.There was this guy that works in the restaurant next to me and one night when I went to his restaurant with my friend he started speaking to me in my language (spanish)so my friend couldn't understand.As he knew I was going away to Spain forever he asked me to kiss him.We went round the back and just kissed,I loved it ,we had such a connection I was really feeling him.I went to Spain,it was horrible so I came back.That night when I came bck he told me he was married,I played it quite cool but I was pissed off and I told him he was an idiot.He wants to carry on seeing me.What shall I do?I really do like him.Part of the reason why he got married was to be in this country,he has given me his number and he must of felt guilty because he told me straight away,he is always asking my mum about me.Hes just 21,im 19 please help I really have feelings for him and I think he does for me,maybe it is just lust

2007-09-15 09:21:48 · 79 answers · asked by sxy latina XXX 1 in Singles & Dating

He asked me out on our first date and we both had a really good time. He said he liked me "a lot" and was looking to be in a relationship. Yet, as nice and friendly as he is, it seems like he's not even trying. He says he's not busy but I'm still waiting for him to ask me out again (I was the one to ask him last time).

There's a possibility I like him too and I have no qualms with asserting myself/making an effort but I just wish he would meet me half-way. Most of the time I'm usually the one to make conversation and trying to make a connection with him.

Just today I asked him if he still liked me and he said "of course" but then why isn't he showing it? He's clearly not shy and he says he's not busy. I wanna tell him how I feel but I don't want to sound too needy.

What should i do? I don't want to keep chasing after someone who's so wishy-washy and I don't want to feel like i'm making all the effort for someone who supposedly "likes me a lot" but his actions say otherwise.

2007-09-15 09:21:42 · 6 answers · asked by ohsnap 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-15 09:21:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It is my B-Day today and I am 27. I have 2 daughters,one is 10,the other 3. I left my hubby 9 months ago because his drinking was taking over all of our lives. He decided he didn't want to change for me or the girls so I have no choice but to divorce him.(I don't want to get in it cause it is a long story)Anyway,I am so upset with myself because I have nothing to my name and I am not getting any younger. I don't even have a Ged. I work at a grocery store and all these young kids are going off to school and it just makes me upset because I feel like my life is going nowhere. Has anyone out there gone through a situation like mine? I feel like my Birthday is a big slap in the face.

2007-09-15 09:16:11 · 13 answers · asked by lvbrdy4vr 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have been going through alot of crap the past 12wks. In my original question I explained the situation in depth but to make a long story short, a "friend" of his (female and very jealous) told him I had cheated on him 2yrs ago (lie). He packed up, left his job and has been running ever since. He said it was all his fault anyway. (The night in question he left me, angry, didn't call and came home later the next day). Then for the next 6 wks or so he would just disappear and then show back up at his moms house. Finally, he gave me a chance and we are working thru things. But, he has been going back and forth to IN to work(???) When he came home two nights ago, there were txt msg to 2 #'s saying "I want to f*** with you" and "Is it too early to come make you breakfast?" He says he let his friend use his phone. This does sound like his "friend". My husband DOES NOT cook. But I am having doubts because the #'s were saved in the phone. Why wouldn't he just erase it all???

2007-09-15 09:15:24 · 9 answers · asked by TNT05 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If prostituition brings crime down n men are happier doesnt everyone profit,money can go to state to help with whatever ,rape goes down molestation goes down loners stay happily lonely n hurt no one not even themselfs n they get laid,last competition to get the best women n sum women even lose thier fake royaltyness n become less selective or more many things can come from this ?

2007-09-15 09:15:05 · 9 answers · asked by latinoheat69 1 in Marriage & Divorce

in April...I cant stop thinking about him..although he's moved on to other girls,but I just keep holding on to something thats not even there anymore...I really just wanna move on and stop thinking,talking,and wishing we were bback together...any ideas?

2007-09-15 09:15:02 · 3 answers · asked by xnanax143 1 in Singles & Dating

i really like this girl and lately she doesn't hug me whenever i c her somewhere like after work or before and at a football game last night i saw her and she didnt there either and she kinda doesnt seem interested in me anymore but im crazy about her and i cant stop thinking about her, and i have no idea what i should do right now cuz i kinda just feel like i am being drug down with her like she doesnt like me anymore and i like her and im the only one trying to put forth effort to try and get a relationship going so i just want to hear some opinions

2007-09-15 09:13:20 · 15 answers · asked by The Game91 1 in Singles & Dating

Let me add to my heading, I work full time as well. I'm not a full time student who has a husband who supports him. I'm also the bread winner as I make more money than my husband.

2007-09-15 09:12:50 · 8 answers · asked by Breezy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Feel like having her by my side forever. Tell my parents I am gonna adopt her one day when I grow up and have my own family.

What do u think guys?

2007-09-15 09:10:50 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

but it has only been 4 weeks and i dont kno anyone who likes me yet.

2007-09-15 09:10:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My bf just said that to me...confuses me....what does he mean?plssss help!!!

2007-09-15 09:08:49 · 18 answers · asked by MiMi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm going out with this boy and him and and his best mate has had a fight bt i think its my fault and i don't no what to do now ? please help me !


thx xxx

2007-09-15 09:08:30 · 5 answers · asked by random.princess 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-15 09:05:53 · 21 answers · asked by toeheadtinsmile 1 in Singles & Dating

I already changed my licencse...and am going to Social Security on monday...what else do I have to do?

2007-09-15 09:04:47 · 13 answers · asked by MsBabyPhat 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-15 09:03:15 · 2 answers · asked by jenna_92673 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

you can't live without them, and what your feeling is something that you can't explain you just know it's there. In your heart, in your mind, in your body, in your soul..

2007-09-15 09:02:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

You say i am miserable to be around,
that i act like a total clown.
you always end up putting me down.
But maybe i just want to be found.

I want to pursue my dream...
for when i get to be fourty-three,
I won't be like you, way extreme,
I will just be...well just Me.

You tell me I am a bad kid.
And everything i do, you forbid,
For all of the times i hid,
and all of the things you did

Everything you say ends up in a scream.
You say, "it's a done deal, a guarantee",
Then it comes back to haunt me in my dream.
You are interfearing with who i want to be, just me.

2007-09-15 09:01:47 · 2 answers · asked by Oh yes...It is Macie!! 1 in Family

He asked me out on our first date and we both had a really good time. He said he liked me "a lot" and was looking to be in a relationship. Yet, as nice and friendly as he is, it seems like he's not even trying. He says he's not busy but I'm still waiting for him to ask me out again (I was the one to ask him last time).

There's a possibility I like him too and I have no qualms with asserting myself/making an effort but I just wish he would meet me half-way. Most of the time I'm usually the one to make conversation and trying to make a connection with him.

Just today I asked him if he still liked me and he said "of course" but then why isn't he showing it? He's clearly not shy and he says he's not busy. I wanna tell him how I feel but I don't want to sound too needy.

What should i do? I don't want to keep chasing after someone who's so wishy-washy and I don't want to feel like i'm making all the effort for someone who supposedly "likes me a lot" but his actions say otherwise.

2007-09-15 09:00:23 · 3 answers · asked by ohsnap 2 in Singles & Dating