2007-09-15 09:05:53 · 21 answers · asked by toeheadtinsmile 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This may sound cold, but you do what's best for you. He's going to say and do anything, it seems, to keep you to himself. Obviously it's not working for you, right? Do you want to be with a guy this weak, this pitiful, this desperate? I think not. Say goodbye to Charlie Brown as far as I'm concerned.
2007-09-15 09:11:57 · answer #1 · answered by Music Seawater 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Well, if he does, then you have no more problems...guaranteed.. "
^^ the person that said that, you're a loser.
Anyways, this is a serious problem if you honestly think he'll commit suicide. Why do you want to break up with him?, if you don't mind me asking. If you are set stone on breaking up with him, you need to tell someone about him probably commiting suicide so they can get him the help he needs, if you really think he would.
â¥-Chelsea
2007-09-15 16:14:58 · answer #2 · answered by Chelsea♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get professional help involved, or at least people or someone who he trusts. Talk to his parents, or whoever is more approachable, and explain that you are no longer interested in your boyfriend in a way that exceeds more than friendship. Or talk to anyone that you trust with this matter, a guidance counselor, teacher, let someone know that your boyfriend is troubled and wants to hurt himself if you break up with him. Overall, do what you feel is right and don't continue to go out with him because you don't want him to attempt suicide.
2007-09-15 16:20:41 · answer #3 · answered by mymacbookisahorcrux ツ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully he won't take his life. You need to be happy and cannot be held responsible for how he may take or react to the end of the relationship. He may very well be telling you that he would kill himself without you his life as a ploy to keep you around because you feel so guilty in case anything happened. You could speak with his parents and/or friends of your concerns also and ask them to kind of keep an eye on him while he grieves this loss. Finally inform him of your decision and do not allow yourself to be suckered into staying if this is not what you want. Life is far to short to be in an unhappy or unhealthy relationship, so do what is best for you. Best of luck and believe that all will be alright.
2007-09-15 16:12:40 · answer #4 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need 2 sit down and talk 2 him about this. its not ok for him 2 threaten you with suicide. let him know that by doing this, hes only making you want 2 break up more, because you feel like youre being forced. if that doesnt help, take him 2 a therapist
2007-09-15 16:10:53 · answer #5 · answered by shybluesky ( : 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need 2 call the sucide hot line and they will help u (or refure u 2 some1 else) with how to break up with him and help 2 make sure that he doesnt commit sucide. this service is usally provided 4 no cost but pls dont listen 2 ppl on line talk 2 the profestionals
also take ALL sucide threats seriously
2007-09-15 16:12:32 · answer #6 · answered by archery_cats 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is something immature little boys threaten when they want to manipulate and control you. RUN, RUN, RUN, the other way and if he "off's" himself, it was meant to be and not your fault. I guarentee he won't do that but he is a dangerous individual to bring that up to you. Be careful. He could stalk you or threaten to kill himself AND THEN kill you. Believe me, he is a wack job. Get a personal protection order from the police when you break up with him. Never look back.
2007-09-15 16:11:51 · answer #7 · answered by spinster wife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't stay just out of pity for him. This is your life. Suggest a good counselor for him and move on. Tell one of his friends to keep an eye on him. It isn't up to you to stay because you're afriad he'll do something like that. So far it has convinced you to stay and that's all he's doing.
2007-09-15 16:11:54 · answer #8 · answered by chevygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's using the "suicide" comments, if he's made any, to keep you within his control. Guilt is a powerful tool.
You have no choice but to break up with him.
2007-09-15 16:11:29 · answer #9 · answered by Sci-Fi Jones 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats on him/ if he is suicidal he will eventually do it anyway. if you stay with a person ..who is using that excuse to keep you.... then it is only a matter of time.. before you start wondering if life is worth living. trust me. leave him and give someone a heads up.. on his threats. like his folks..or some other persons of authority, and GOD forbid if he does... remember you are not responsible.
2007-09-15 16:12:04 · answer #10 · answered by foosieboy1953 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋