He asked me out on our first date and we both had a really good time. He said he liked me "a lot" and was looking to be in a relationship. Yet, as nice and friendly as he is, it seems like he's not even trying. He says he's not busy but I'm still waiting for him to ask me out again (I was the one to ask him last time).
There's a possibility I like him too and I have no qualms with asserting myself/making an effort but I just wish he would meet me half-way. Most of the time I'm usually the one to make conversation and trying to make a connection with him.
Just today I asked him if he still liked me and he said "of course" but then why isn't he showing it? He's clearly not shy and he says he's not busy. I wanna tell him how I feel but I don't want to sound too needy.
What should i do? I don't want to keep chasing after someone who's so wishy-washy and I don't want to feel like i'm making all the effort for someone who supposedly "likes me a lot" but his actions say otherwise.
2007-09-15 09:21:42 · 6 answers · asked by ohsnap 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Do you want a relationship that feels like this? Wouldn't you rather be with someone who thinks you're so wonderful that he would like to pursue YOU? Move on. Find someone who wants to make an effort to be with you. Someone who wants to SHOW you that he's interested in you. You're worth it, aren't you?
2007-09-15 09:35:06 · answer #1 · answered by Magnolia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are right. Actions speak louder than words. He clearly is not making any effort in developing a relationship with you. It is not a matter of appearing "too needy." He just doesn't reciprocate. Move on.
2007-09-15 16:35:04 · answer #2 · answered by soupkitty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG let me tell you something girly, this is how guys try to let a girl know he is not interested but not hurt their (your) feelings so that is kind of him......what if he said to you that he dont like you and think you are ugly, etc? it would offend that person and he is nice enough to not do that. the nice things he is saying is for your benefit only so you will have a good time and not be hurt. its time to move on unfortuntely.....take care hun
2007-09-15 16:38:08 · answer #3 · answered by fishgurll 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Actions speak louder than words and they're speaking "not interested!"
Move on and find someone who SHOWS they love you...not just saying the words.
2007-09-20 10:40:26 · answer #4 · answered by Amy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should stop chasing. let him make a move. you asked him out... you let him know your intentions.. so back off. you are not even giving him time to chase.. if he wanted to.
2007-09-15 16:29:34 · answer #5 · answered by foosieboy1953 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you sound like a child,do you think your old enough to even ask this?
heres a strange thought ,why not ask him instead of strangers on the net.
2007-09-15 16:29:00 · answer #6 · answered by me m 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋