I am 23, parents been divorced about 3 years now....and my Dads new girlfriend is hella fine!!! She's 45 and is seriously gorgeous!!!! But she inappropriately flirts with me, especially when my father isn't around....especially at parties and stuff, she tries to get me drunk. One night we were both drunk when my Dad was away and we made out and did some heavy petting....she does stuff like grab my butt a lot...when my Dads gone she'll come cuddle up in my bed with me....I have mixed feelings, I know its completely wrong and inappropriate, but at the same time I like it....is it alright as long as we don't have sex?
2007-09-15 09:28:07 · 14 answers · asked by Clarence 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You do realize that when your father finds out (and he will find out), this stupidity will completely destroy your relationship with him forever?
There will always be other women. You only get one father.
2007-09-15 09:33:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jared most certainly is not alright. Your dad has been there for you throughout the 23 years you've been alive. This bimbo has been around for less than 3 years. She sounds like a real prize. I'd suggest that you let her know that you think more of the old man then to play house with his girlfriend (although I know it will be hard "no pun intended"). Maybe after your father has given her the travel card you two can play house a bit but until then give yourself some credit and don't fool around with this woman. Besides once the old man has thrown her to the curb, I'd be willing to bet that she loses interest in you pretty fast too.
2007-09-15 09:35:47 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Son, hell no it's not alright. You're helping someone stab your father in the back. Even in your heading you described this as an inappropriate relationship, so you have to be aware of it, too. Trust me, we're all men, and I know how you wound up in this situation...but you've got the strength to walk away from this chick, and a duty to do so because she's bad news and she's ultimately going to destroy you and your dad if you let her. I don't know if you should tell him or not because that will set off a chain reaction of crap that could last for a decade, but she definitely has to go. Good luck.
2007-09-15 09:37:22 · answer #3 · answered by Captain S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOL. That is a pickle. I think it's up to you. You have to make a definite decision - of NO - if you want to put a stop to this mess. If there's too much temptation, you'll still probably give in. My heart goes out to your father. His girlfriend sounds like a whore.
If anything, the only way of stopping this completely is by telling your father. And, by-Joe this isn't fair on him.
And by the way, you do know she probably laughs all of this off to her friends? Having both the father and the son?
Have a nice day!
2007-09-15 09:37:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've got seen this question till now... i do no longer think of that there is something incorrect with a father kissing their daughters on the lips... If there is a few thing incorrect, then why is it ok for a mom to kiss the two a daughter or son on the lips? i discover it unhappy that each and every thing is sexualised!!! My father has in no way EVER EVER EVER tried to do something 'innapropriate' to me... yet i'm going to periodically get a %. on the lips while this is a few thing extremely happy or extremely unhappy... i'm 27... i'm going to offer my father a %. on the lips... i'm going to offer my grandmother a %. on the lips... i'm going to offer my aunt a %. on the lips... And if i did no longer hate my uncle... i could supply him a %. on the lips... yet because of the fact he's an asshole I supply him an corporation handshake... I additionally do the ecu ingredient of a kiss on the cheek because of the fact I definitely have been uncovered to such distinctive cultures... It has grow to be 2d nature to me... friends, kinfolk, strangers... that's the way that different cultures say hi... comparable to a hand shake right here interior the U. S.. i'm going to declare it lower back! I HATE THAT each and every thing HAS grow to be SEXUALISED!! this is retarded... there is not any longer something inaporpriate with friends and kinfolk expressing their PLATONIC emotions in direction of eachother... no longer something incorrect in any respect. Tongue kiss? that's sexual... a speedy %.? completely organic and ok.
2016-11-14 12:55:18 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't , in the long run you will know it's more wrong even than you do now , what about your relationship with your dad ? is there a price on that . yes i know the temtations of sex but if you trade your values for instant pleasure once you'll do it again , stop trust me you'll be a better person for it and besides there is a girl out there who is right for you . reprioritize dude , don't chase stupid fanticies
2007-09-15 09:35:48 · answer #6 · answered by david m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It is wrong. You need to get out of the situation. If you continue to allow such behavior it could back fire and blow up in your face. Is that what you really want. This could potentially destroy the relationship between you and your Dad. His sleezy girlfriend is not worth it.
2007-09-15 09:33:51 · answer #7 · answered by Therapist 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about this.....would your best friend care if he found out you were messing around with his girlfriend? He'd be pissed. I would thin that your dad would be even more angered by this. In your situation I would let your dad know what's up. Otherwise you would be backstabbing your own father.
2007-09-15 09:36:05 · answer #8 · answered by sa_da_sa07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you doing your father in like this? What did he ever do to you?
2007-09-15 09:34:53 · answer #9 · answered by aliengirl83 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO its not alright at all,unless you talk to your father and he wants to share her then she is his gfriend,and i can assure you most men dont share ,especially with their sons.
2007-09-15 09:34:46 · answer #10 · answered by me m 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋