Family & Relationships - 15 September 2007

No one can Know just what youve lost,
no one can understand the cost,
I know you feel your energys Drain,
But please dont give in to this pain,
I cant replace the ones that gone,
But if you let me, ill help you to carry on.

Deadicated to a special somone Who should of Realized Im always here for him, Luv xxx

2007-09-15 07:49:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have loved a guy for more than a year and he flirts with me, but i don't think he will ever do anything. I still really care about him, but I am realizing that nothing is going to come out of it. I recently met a guy online and we have been talking usually twice a day. We have a lot in common and I think I'm starting to like him. There is a possibility of us meeting in persona d actually having a relationship. The thing is, i don't feel as strong of an attraction as I do for the other guy, but this could be because we only talk online. Should I give the new guy a shot or wait for the one I have stronger feelings for?

2007-09-15 07:45:08 · 34 answers · asked by crazyjen 2 in Singles & Dating

We're going to start marriage counseling sessions in a few months, but what sort of things should we discuss now? We really want to make sure we're focusing on our marriage not just a wedding.

Thanks!

2007-09-15 07:42:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a date with this guy tommorrow night and everyone at work knows that we are going out tommorrow and that we really like each other. He is one of the managers and we are 20 years apart(Im 22), but we both dont care. (SIDE NOTE: its okay at my job for employees to date each other since its not a coporate restaurant). Well anyways its our first date tommorrow night. IM JUST SO FREAKED OUT! I have dated older guys but not as old as him. Im just worried if he is going to want sex or not because Im not one of those women who has sex on the first several dates. I like to really get to know a guy before I do. Should I just tell him straightforward that we are NOT having sex on the first date? Will that ruin things??

SIDE NOTE: I date older guys not guys my own age because me and guys my age dont get along. Please dont lecture me about our age gaps.

2007-09-15 07:37:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i just found out about an hour ago that my friend got raped..

ya know i hear abou this kind of stuff and i feel bad for the person and stuff but its different in a way when it happens to oe of your friends..
after she told me i sat in my car and cried..
i told her that i would be there for her and sence she doesn't want to tell her mom that id take her to the doctor to get checked out and even pay for it...

but what about the guy? should i take her to report him? she said he did it to another girl the next day...
i can't believe this...

what should i do???

thanks michelle

2007-09-15 07:32:25 · 7 answers · asked by Michelle 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I swear to god, i am running out of ideas. It seems like 99% of the girls that i meet have boy friends. I have always had the policy to back off and not bother with those girls but if i can't find anyone who is single, should i just try to steal these girls away from their boyfriends?

And yes, i have dated before but it such a long, drawn out process to just get that first date, while only chasing after single girls.

2007-09-15 07:23:28 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hey guys, i always hang out with my friends, alot, and well the past year, my boyfriend and i hang out now, but my friends hang out too, i still talk to them and call them, (even tho they almost never call me, or wish me Happy b-day or nething) i still try, and then i see pictures of them hanging out together on myspace and stuff, why do they not include me anymore....should i just forget about them or not take them seriously??

2007-09-15 07:21:58 · 37 answers · asked by vernoica 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

and I LOVE this question lol

2007-09-15 07:21:27 · 30 answers · asked by Fearfully & wonderfully made 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

i've been going with this girl for 2years, a few days i asked her to be my girlfriend and she said yes, but i think she is still talking to a previous friend who she went out in the past and like 3 months ago got reaquainted, which i saw on her email. before i asked her to be my girlfriend the guy asked her if she would be her date for a wedding, and he was emailing her saying your beatiful, thinking of you etc., and yesterday i saw him ask again about the wedding, now that she is my girlfriend, and she responded, maybe, i'll let you know. i cant confront her with this, cause i went to her email, but then i cant stop thinking about it. should i just let it go and take it now that she she is my girlfriend see what happens? i know she cares about me else why would she accept to be my gf, i told her that there was no obligation for her to say yes,but if she thought we had no future just say no, and at least i could move on,but she said yes.p.s. no lectures on me checkin her email.

2007-09-15 07:20:58 · 3 answers · asked by jack a 1 in Singles & Dating

see i have been wit my boyfriend for almost 3 months now and i am starting to like this other guy and i am starting to like him and he likes me and i dont want to cheat on my current boyfriend so i want to break up wit him cuz if i didnt i would be lyin to him sayin i like him i want him to stay my friend so i need to kno how to breka it to him that inclused all the things i want to be friends and i want to break up cuz i want to see other ppl please help ME!!!!!!!!!!!(also dont say ur bein mean he has been mean to me ever since school started he barely talks to em and acts different around me and he talks to my friends more then me and he gets mad at me for gettin mad at him for it so dont blame this whole thing on me i just liked it better as friends) also i am 13

2007-09-15 07:20:15 · 9 answers · asked by Kit Kat Bar 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-15 07:18:46 · 9 answers · asked by latina girl 1 in Singles & Dating

a first date?

2007-09-15 07:14:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I broke up with my ex about 7 months ago and my son lives at his house, cause I live in an apartment and want my son to have a house...I see him daily though so Im always there...he will be 3 in december..the thing is m not in love with his dad nor do I have any romantic feelings for him, but I dont want my son to hate me either later in life...what should I do, I shoudl also say Iam currently with a great guy who i do love, but I am worried about my kid.

2007-09-15 07:11:54 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

we went out on 4 dates, he invited me over to meet his family for his birthday. They had a pool party and I went over and swam with him & his family. He had stayed up all night the night before partying for his birthday with his buddies. He was completely exhausted and after we swam he asked if I wanted to hang around while he took a nap then we could hang out. I was like I'm going home, call me when you wake up. I sent him a text saying thanks for the good time with your family and he replied then I never heard from him again. I have no clue what happened?? I really liked him and I thought he liked me too or he wouldn't have introduced me to his folks. Any ideas anyone???

2007-09-15 07:10:53 · 2 answers · asked by ooolala 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm throwing a bridal sower for my best friend, it's a desert/tea party themed bridal shower. I'm pretty hand with photo shop nad am amking my own invitations but I'm clueless on poems to go on it.

She said will and now she waits
For the most special of honored dates
To help the time fly by
Join us for cake and pie!
Bring a long a gift or two
As we celebrate her upcoming I do!


I wrote that one but I'm not sure I like it! any other suggestions?

2007-09-15 07:10:50 · 6 answers · asked by pixi_doll 3 in Weddings

My finacee and I picked out this amazing 1/2 karot ring from Walmarts. It costs 700 dollars and it's beautiful. We never even looked at Walmarts, just jewelry stores. I saw almost the exact same ring but with smaller diamonds at a jewlery store for over 2,000 dollars but it was 1/4 karot. I looked the rings at Walmart on a whim and saw this beautiful diamond ring and just knew it was the one for me.

Only problem is one of my friends found out it was from Walmart and she thinks it's trashy to have a walmart ring and keeps making fun of it whenever we are out among all our friends. Her fiancee bought her a ring at a jewlery store and paid twice as much as mine but I don't think hers is as nice.

Do you see anything wrong with an engagment ring from walmarts as long as it's pretty and is real diamond?

2007-09-15 07:03:36 · 85 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I have problem with this girl(once my best friend). Her and I dated last year but things went down from there. She got a bf now(which is my friend). I was ignoring her until one day she just broke down and started crying. I felt kind of bad so i asked her whats wrong. I told her "you should be happy since you have boyfriend and everything" but she keeps on telling me that she can't get along with him, she is not happy, she wants me to be friends again, I am good looking, and how I was the only one who she kissed. Yes, She didn't EVEN KISS her bf yet! All they ever do is wave hi to each other. So she was talking to me about breaking up with him. From what she told me, I concluded that she liked me again (she even said "I love you"). But everything got twisted up again. Do you think she likes me again? Or is it that she just needs me as her close friend to just talk to about her problems? =]

2007-09-15 06:59:54 · 11 answers · asked by Some guy 2 in Singles & Dating

what would ur reactions be??
what wld u tell themmm?
advice..pleaz!!!!!!!

2007-09-15 06:58:17 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-09-15 06:55:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I mean - its bad for them...and I DO feel sorry for them, but its like they're using their probably dead daughter to gain attention from the media..."look at us - our daughter is missing" - YEAH, WHAT ABOUT THAT POOR RUNAWAY KID I JUST RAN OVER IN MY BUS?! - NOBODY CANCELS FILMS BECAUSE THEY MAY UPSET HIS PARENTS...who are devastated by the way...

I reckon they both have Munchausen syndrome by proxy and they've got her locked up in that church...

2007-09-15 06:55:16 · 9 answers · asked by thegenuinelyscaryoctofish 4 in Family

yeah this guy in school, we don't talk that much but he kinda knows that I like him, but like he kinda ignores me when hes around me and only talks to other people, but sometimes he looks at me like for 5 seconds or so....but dosen't say anything. What does it mean?! i like him but i don't know like what to say, I've talked to him a few times but it was always about general stuff....what should I do?

2007-09-15 06:54:17 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My gf and i are thinking about getting married. She is just fine for me, but there is a thing that bothers me. She is more experienced in sex than me (yes, she is 2 years older than me either) and I really hate that. It’s a male stuff, i don’t know. Yes, i know that only love matters, etc, but i can't control this feeling. Will i ever get over that? Are there any other cases that ended well?

2007-09-15 06:53:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ive been apart from my ex girlfreind for the past 6 months. as much as ive tried to forget about her i just can't. i recently met her in town, ever since then i can't get her out off my mind, i think about her all the time.
I did try to get back with her but she says she wants to move on. I accepted that and im trying so hard to move on, but its so hard. We were together for 3 years, its sad because all this time she wanted us to get married and i wasnt ready...at the point that she left i was ready to make her my wife.
If only she knew how much i love her, my words were not enough to convience her - only God see's my heart and knows how much i do.
I never call her because i think thats the best move.

So can someone tell me how i forget, and how i can move on from loving the the girl i have only ever truly loved?

2007-09-15 06:48:38 · 7 answers · asked by frankie 2 in Singles & Dating

to hit a guy in the "family jewels"? didnt your mother tell you do that? have you ever done it before?

2007-09-15 06:48:08 · 30 answers · asked by Jane 1 in Marriage & Divorce

thanks please .... :(

2007-09-15 06:46:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Got w/a girl almost 4yrs ago. Had lots of fun, and hard times. She's upbeat, very affectionet, loved haning out like one of the guys, loved being with me, began to learn to be a mom after the kid was already 6yrs, knew how to take advantage of situations. I fell in love, and found myself swallowing things I know I didn't like in a girl. She always had my back, and I had hers, it kept our bond strong. It seemed like everytime there was peace, she, her family, or something from her past would disturb it. Strong attitude, this was good for some things, bad for others, irresponsible with money, lied to get things her way. Married the girl a few months ago, found out she hung out w/a guy from work while I was at work, she swore nothing happened but couldn't get it out of my heart, time passed. Found she had been talking to an ex 4 almost a yr, tried to lie about that too. Finally got her to admit that slept w/the guy from work she hung out with. Found out recently she's having my baby.

2007-09-15 06:44:19 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My son is not allowed to date until he is 25. I told him this when he was young, but his friend told me that he already has a girlfriend. He is only 16! I have to get them to break up. My son is not allowed to focus on women at his age. How can I get them to break up?

2007-09-15 06:39:59 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I even tried everything under the sun and over the sun to get him to notice me! I never thought to question prior the fact that he joined a motorcycle club that hosted all types of parties that brought out the most finest trash in all there is to see of woman yes I felt some type of way and expressed it on numerous occasions and yet he tried to reassure me he wasn't about all that! One day I took my womanhood to a low stream to catch something so I looked in his cell phone! I don't regret to today looking in there because I called him for a little over a day and a half and he ignored me and yet I found the same day prior he was texting messages back and forth with a female that he claimed he had no interest in but I felt he put her before me by responding to her messages! I asked him how they became friends just as I thought being part of the club! The trust from that day forwad had went a wall!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Should I had taken his word or look at him as a liar and game player?

2007-09-15 06:37:32 · 5 answers · asked by rita_hiemy 3 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I planned to get married on September 25. I found out that's the day Halo 3 comes out and I just want to postpone our wedding by a month (to October 25) so I have a month to play Halo 3 with my friends. She won't let me and she's even thinking of calling off the wedding. Please help. How do I talk some sense into her? It's just one month anyway.

2007-09-15 06:35:30 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

even if you are the one who broke up the them in the first place.

2007-09-15 06:33:51 · 16 answers · asked by xblush 2 in Singles & Dating