ive been apart from my ex girlfreind for the past 6 months. as much as ive tried to forget about her i just can't. i recently met her in town, ever since then i can't get her out off my mind, i think about her all the time.
I did try to get back with her but she says she wants to move on. I accepted that and im trying so hard to move on, but its so hard. We were together for 3 years, its sad because all this time she wanted us to get married and i wasnt ready...at the point that she left i was ready to make her my wife.
If only she knew how much i love her, my words were not enough to convience her - only God see's my heart and knows how much i do.
I never call her because i think thats the best move.
So can someone tell me how i forget, and how i can move on from loving the the girl i have only ever truly loved?
2007-09-15 06:48:38 · 7 answers · asked by frankie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh, Frankie, that is such a sad story.
If she is the girl of your dreams then you should pursue her. If you wrote her a letter, with all the feelings in your heart, she might understand just how strong you feel about her and how much you regret past actions and words.
She must have loved you greatly to want to spend her life with you. Now that you are sure about what you want in your life, don't give up. She might need to see that you really want her and will climb the highest mountain for her.
Good luck, sweetie. I hope it all works out for you.
xxx
2007-09-15 06:57:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
awwwwwwwww thats well sad why do things happen all at the wrong times? if you split because you wasnt commiting why dont you tell her how you are ready to commit why not even a proposal, shes bound to still love you if you were together 3 years but before you go doing any big gestures you need to check out she aint with you because for example she fell out of love with you or something. You def need a chat make her see how serious you are i wouldnt give up unless you know she doesnt love you xxx good luck x
2007-09-19 03:43:30 · answer #2 · answered by ~* Daydreamer *~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to accept that you will always love her, but at the same time be willing to move on. I think you really love her now because she's gone. then when she was with you loved her but not enough to make that commitment. You never realise how much something is special until its gone...Go out and meet new women.
2007-09-15 06:57:45 · answer #3 · answered by pisces red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt love her,, you should love the person that is right for you,, and nobody is right for someone until they feel it,, if she wants to move on you should really move on to,, you might get even more hurt then you are now,, so just try our best and forget about her,, theres lots more people out there in the world that you wanna meet but you cant get yourself outta the position your in now,, just meet someone else,, youll forget about her,, start a relationship
2007-09-15 07:00:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to get on with life and put her out of your mind
If its a REAL problem, try Autosuggestion...if that doesn't work - go to a psychiatrist and see if you can get her to go with you...that way you can sort it out together - whats the worst that can happen? End up being single?
2007-09-15 06:59:49 · answer #5 · answered by thegenuinelyscaryoctofish 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is the best thing as she has made it clear that she wants to move on. it does take time to have the courage to move on, especially if you were with her for a long time.
Time is a good healer and you will be able to move on to be with somebody who wants to be with you soon.
2007-09-15 07:35:46 · answer #6 · answered by Chopper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen brutha u need to go out and have some fun and do u wand dont worrie about her butt ok. then start getting into god word talk to all the girls and have sex with them and u will be happy and u will forget about her self
2007-09-15 07:32:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋