i've been going with this girl for 2years, a few days i asked her to be my girlfriend and she said yes, but i think she is still talking to a previous friend who she went out in the past and like 3 months ago got reaquainted, which i saw on her email. before i asked her to be my girlfriend the guy asked her if she would be her date for a wedding, and he was emailing her saying your beatiful, thinking of you etc., and yesterday i saw him ask again about the wedding, now that she is my girlfriend, and she responded, maybe, i'll let you know. i cant confront her with this, cause i went to her email, but then i cant stop thinking about it. should i just let it go and take it now that she she is my girlfriend see what happens? i know she cares about me else why would she accept to be my gf, i told her that there was no obligation for her to say yes,but if she thought we had no future just say no, and at least i could move on,but she said yes.p.s. no lectures on me checkin her email.
2007-09-15 07:20:58 · 3 answers · asked by jack a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
p.s. besides this, how would i bring it out, she would wonder, why am i bringing this out, and i can't tell her, oh i invaded your privacy and looked at your email. As far as she knows what i'm thinking everything thing is fine with us, but she doesnt know i know, she would get suspicious and it could spark something worse, when maybe i didnt need to.
2007-09-15 07:32:49 · update #1
Ask her , by accident , if she had met any old boyfriend that she had , ask her to tell you about him / them ( boyfriend / boyfriends ) that she had . And make a bit fun of them , be a little cocky about them .
And finally , there will be a small talk about you checking out her email adress :
- keep her email pasword in a place where only you have aceess - It is worth to check from time to time her email adress , just in case :)
2007-09-15 07:36:20 · answer #1 · answered by Miroku 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, one thing is for sure: You have to find out if she has true feelings for you. Communication in a relationship is a key. Go to her and be straightforward--Ask her if she has feelings for you or if she's just playing games. She needs to decide if she cares for you or him more.
2007-09-15 07:26:39 · answer #2 · answered by Crystal♥of♥Iris 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm . . . well you invaded her privacy, that's a BIG nono. but you should ask her, do you still talk to ------? if she is honest and says yes. ask her if she would consider stopping for you?
but if you do this, make sure you say "consider", so you don't sound pushy or bossy.
2007-09-15 11:13:57 · answer #3 · answered by Josh's Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋