I have problem with this girl(once my best friend). Her and I dated last year but things went down from there. She got a bf now(which is my friend). I was ignoring her until one day she just broke down and started crying. I felt kind of bad so i asked her whats wrong. I told her "you should be happy since you have boyfriend and everything" but she keeps on telling me that she can't get along with him, she is not happy, she wants me to be friends again, I am good looking, and how I was the only one who she kissed. Yes, She didn't EVEN KISS her bf yet! All they ever do is wave hi to each other. So she was talking to me about breaking up with him. From what she told me, I concluded that she liked me again (she even said "I love you"). But everything got twisted up again. Do you think she likes me again? Or is it that she just needs me as her close friend to just talk to about her problems? =]
2007-09-15 06:59:54 · 11 answers · asked by Some guy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds to me like she's confused. It would not be healthy for her to go from her current boyfriend back to you--it sounds like she could use some time out to sort out her feelings. I'm sorry you're on the receiving end of her confusion, which is confusing to you. Whatever you do, don't date her again until she's got her head straight. Hang in there!
2007-09-15 07:09:35 · answer #1 · answered by stoneinthestream 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like her bf is just kind of a phantom if all they ever do is wave to each other. She likes you. She told you so. I think she would like you as her boyfriend again, because basically she really doesn't have another boyfriend. They haven't even kissed. Why don't you just ask her? Perhaps there is a movie or game you could go to. Does she like to skate, run or just hang out at the mall? Maybe you could ask her advice about clothing, and she could go with you to pick out something new.
2007-09-15 14:12:59 · answer #2 · answered by soupkitty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to break up with the doof, first off, before you even think about if she likes you. You shouldn't take advantage of her insicurity... give her time to recover from the break up. Be FRIENDS for awhile... don't seem too eager to form back your relationship. If she seems to like you, after she's no longer insecure and you guys are buds, then ask her if she loves you. If she says yes, make your move. I know this is long, you will have to be very patient, but it is the best way to get her back without causing her confusion or pain.
2007-09-15 14:08:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a possibility that she likes u again. im not saying that theres not. She might like u again, but then again, she could just want u as a close friend like u were b4 to help her out.
Or she could want both, when she said "i love u" she could have ment that as a friend or that she honestly loves u as more.
Its hard to tell, just play it out n see what happens.
2007-09-15 14:08:54 · answer #4 · answered by emo_luvv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friend is obviously having bf problems, and right now all she needs is a good friend she can vent to , and by the looks of it, that's you. so step in, help her out, and be there for her. To start, just be friends with her.
2007-09-15 14:08:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is interested again, maybe because you're ignoring her. Don't be surprised if she runs once you show interest again.
2007-09-15 14:09:02 · answer #6 · answered by shin92475 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that she is mentally attached to you and needs more closure with you. you are obviously important to her, so I think its best you confort her. I'm not so sure she means i love you in a romantic way though
2007-09-15 14:06:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you care, then it doesn't matter what she wants.be their for her...!
the only thing better then being a best friend is being a best friend with benefits.
Goodluck bud xD
2007-09-15 14:07:01 · answer #8 · answered by Wolfie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she likes you as a close friend.
just listen to her and give her good advices. then eventually she will definitely like you more than a friend. ;)
2007-09-15 14:12:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she likes you
2007-09-15 14:10:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋