what would ur reactions be??
what wld u tell themmm?
advice..pleaz!!!!!!!
2007-09-15 06:58:17 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
go see a doctor just incase
2007-09-15 07:03:24 · answer #1 · answered by blue_eyesbc 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
A lot of people do not understand who deangerous unprotected sex is I mean in the most extreme cases it can kill you. But don't worry that is only if you leave it.
You need to help you friend do two things...
Firstly she needs to get tested for STD's I know its not a fun thing to do but its a lot better than having one and getting it untreated because this can lead to AIDS and even stopping you from being able to have children. There are lot of places you can get tested but you will probaly be best looking in you local phone book or even the internet. They will be listed on there.
The second thing she needs to do it take a pregnancy test. I would advise when doing this she takes more than one as they can be unaccurate the first time. The test also needs to be taken one at least one week after she had sex.
I wish you both the best of luck and hope this helped :) xx
2007-09-15 07:08:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them they are in danger of getting an STD and/or getting pregnant. Tell them having children can be very nice, but can be a big problem if it means they have to leave college. They could end up being single parents and have big financial and emotional burdens. They need to plan for these things. People die from STD's. Thoughtless sex is not love.
2007-09-15 07:10:13 · answer #3 · answered by LindaLou 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My response to a friend saying they had unprotected sex would depend on the context. First - remember that your friends are free to make their own decisions, and are probably aware of the possible repurcussions. If it's really important to express your concern with their decision, say something like "I worry about you." or "Ya gotta be careful." Maybe a soft reminder that a moment of ecstasy isn't worth a lifetime of pain. Above all, though, your friends are your friends because you support them. Make sure they know that you support them, although you don't always agree with their decisions. And be honest.
2007-09-15 07:08:08 · answer #4 · answered by bethanyturon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'd stay calm because freaking out wouldn't help anyone.
Then I'd take my friend to the pharmacy to get a pregnancy test. I'd wait for her while she took it and pray for the best.
If she ended up being pregnant, then I'd ask her if she wants to keep the baby, and if she wants to tell her parents. If she didn't want to tell her parents, I'd ask her who she wants to tell[because SOMEONE needs to get involved] and I'd be with her every step of the way.
I'd be there when she has her abortion, or when she's giving birth or when she's putting up her baby for adoption, or when she just needs a baby sitter.
Because that's what friends do.
2007-09-15 07:05:54 · answer #5 · answered by blueJay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the nature of the relationship.
If your friend has a one night stand with no protection, this is pretty dumb, especially if she doesn't know her partner well.
If however, you friend is in a long term committed relationship, then there is nothing wrong with it. Of course if she is not on birth control and is simply hoping not to get pregnant, then that's just stupid.
You have to be careful about advising your friends. People rarely like to be told they are wrong. But you might want to point out to your friend that she risks serious disease, or pregnancy if she is not taking appropriate precautions.
2007-09-15 07:02:51 · answer #6 · answered by ZCT 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That I would still come visit them in the hospital when they were dying of AIDS!
No just kiddin, I'd take them to the health Dept to get tested for STD's or pregnancy (if it's a female) and give them a good talking too about how stupid that really was!
2007-09-15 07:04:30 · answer #7 · answered by char__c is a good cooker 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sure I'd tell them. Tell them that there are way too many STD's out there that aren't cureable. Unwanted pregnancy isn't too much fun either. If you are in a committed relationship with a partner who has gone through STD testing with you, thats alot different.
2007-09-15 07:05:44 · answer #8 · answered by Crazymomo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unprotected sex = parenthood. A lot of responsibility and risk for a few moments. Stress the importance of protection for both parties. Nowadays its foolish to take that risk
2007-09-15 07:03:23 · answer #9 · answered by Beatrice C 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would tell them what a bad idea it was and NOT to do it again. Offer to buy them some condoms or take them to free clinic or doctor for some type of birth control, if you can.
Tell them you are concerned for their health and well being, because you two are such good friends and don't want to see anything happen to them.
2007-09-15 07:03:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If it was a good friend I would tell them how dangerous that was and suggest that they go and get tested for everything just to be on the safe side
2007-09-15 07:04:04 · answer #11 · answered by ~Kayla S~ 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋