I swear to god, i am running out of ideas. It seems like 99% of the girls that i meet have boy friends. I have always had the policy to back off and not bother with those girls but if i can't find anyone who is single, should i just try to steal these girls away from their boyfriends?
And yes, i have dated before but it such a long, drawn out process to just get that first date, while only chasing after single girls.
2007-09-15 07:23:28 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Of course i don't mean married women. I'm not looking to get into that, all though most of the people my age are not married.
2007-09-15 07:24:22 · update #1
33 answers in eight minutes? Jesus christ!
2007-09-15 07:32:28 · update #2
Nope. They're up for grabs until they're married. Knock yourself out (and hope the boyfriends don't do that for you!).
2007-09-15 07:29:33 · answer #1 · answered by pepper 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe its the fact you make a women sound more like a object rather then a free spirit with a mind of their own that your still single.
A women or man can not be stolen from anyone, no-one owns anyone in a relationship and if they are truly happy or in love they will not be interested in you no-matter what you do to wow them.
I would not encourage you to go out of your way to break a relationship up, you should never do anything you wouldn't want done to you, with that said if a friendship blossomed into something more and a girl wanted to leave a boyfriend to be with you, that is her choice alone, but just how much would you trust her, would you be constantly worried that she'd do the same to you?
Try mixing with lots girls as friends and chatting with them on the Internet, you never know where it might lead and if all else fails at least you will get in touch with your feminine side and women will Find it easy to open up to you.
2007-09-15 07:42:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Every person has exclusive views on this, mine is that it's improper to 'steal' something, it doesn't matter what it is... Just do what you are doing, let destiny make a decision matters for you. Meet tons of humans and spot what happens. You may also believe a designated anybody is the one for you but you possibly fallacious. Simply be your self and you can entice folks that like you for who you're (expectantly you are a high-quality, legit, liable kind, loving character ;-) ). Good good fortune!
2016-08-04 16:17:01 · answer #3 · answered by demorizi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well yes its wrong, karma will haunt you. If you do steal the girlfriend and you guys hit it off, eventually some other dude will take her away from you. And if she's dating the guy and dumps him to be with you, she'll do the same to you.. think about it.. There's a lot of dating services, so try something different. Go places where you could meet women, like nightclubs, pools, anywhere.. There too much fish in the ocean to catch someone else fish..
2007-09-15 07:33:42 · answer #4 · answered by Melissa P 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
honestly i dont believe you can steal anyone from anyone else they have to be willing to lieave and at that point your not stealing them they are leaving the other person but on the other hand i dont have much respect for people that purposly mess with other people that they know are with someone else so i say keep looking and maybe try not looking soooo hard and she'll end up falling in your lap also remember if you do get with a girl or a guy that has another half you get what ever comes around
2007-09-15 07:30:40 · answer #5 · answered by Angela 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well depending on how old you are....but whose to say that by stealing a girlfriend you're breaking up a relationship that could end up a married one, had you not broken it up?You'll develope so many more problems by breaking up someone's relationship for you own benefit. Plus, the girl you're "stealing" will feel uncomfortable and guilty for leaving her former boyfriend, therefore, can't work it out with you. keep searching, there's plenty of girls who are single.
To answer your question, yes, it's wrong. How'd you like it if you finally found your girl just for me to take her away (heh...not that i could, but just think about how you would feel in that situation).
2007-09-15 07:31:30 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Theirs a little bit of a "Gray Area" here. But to simplify, if the girl is happy with the guy your trying to steal her away from, your probably not going to be successful. Then there's the girls that just have a "Trophy" boyfriend, and they sneak around behind their backs. You might make a play with one of these girls, but after the play she's back with the trophy. Catching one that just broke up, you have to deal with the "Rebound" thing.....So, in my humble opinion, don't give finding one that is free. Trust me, they are out there.
2007-09-15 07:35:45 · answer #7 · answered by Don A 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Thats how I met my wife! The guy she was with before me was a jerk, he cheated on her, didn't respect her, yelled at her all the time. He was and still is an a s s! I showed him up, and stole her away! All is fair in love in war, and sometimes you have to go to great lengths to get the girl! Steal STEAL STEAL!!!!!!!
2007-09-15 07:56:10 · answer #8 · answered by Big Bull 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally i believe it is wrong because if you put yourself in there place would you like it. I know people who have had this done to them and i have had to pick up the pieces and its not nice.
You mention every girl you meet is in a relationship the say there's someone out there for everyone could it be tht u r mayb just lookin in the wrong place
good luck member think about it and put urself in there place before makin any harsh decisions !!!
2007-09-15 07:36:49 · answer #9 · answered by Celtic_chic 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If there is not a ring on the finger, then the girl is still available. Let her know you are interested and then back off.
Things change. Relationships grow, change and die. One girl might be looking for her next boyfriend or lifemate and you might just be the one.
2007-09-15 07:31:02 · answer #10 · answered by unchainmenow 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
YES! If it is serious you don't need to step in. It's rude, wrong, and a little heartless. On the other hand, if you are going after a girl who isn't in a serious relationship and it is just casual... May the best man win.
2007-09-15 07:30:59 · answer #11 · answered by ϑennaß 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋