I even tried everything under the sun and over the sun to get him to notice me! I never thought to question prior the fact that he joined a motorcycle club that hosted all types of parties that brought out the most finest trash in all there is to see of woman yes I felt some type of way and expressed it on numerous occasions and yet he tried to reassure me he wasn't about all that! One day I took my womanhood to a low stream to catch something so I looked in his cell phone! I don't regret to today looking in there because I called him for a little over a day and a half and he ignored me and yet I found the same day prior he was texting messages back and forth with a female that he claimed he had no interest in but I felt he put her before me by responding to her messages! I asked him how they became friends just as I thought being part of the club! The trust from that day forwad had went a wall!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Should I had taken his word or look at him as a liar and game player?
2007-09-15 06:37:32 · 5 answers · asked by rita_hiemy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sometimes you can do so much for someone and you forget about youre self and maybe he isnt the right guy for you ! you need to think about youreself and do something special for youreself and forget about him because it sounds to me that it is more than a friendship and when you dont have trust you dont have a relationship so find someone that will love you for who you are and respect youre feelings and let you be apart of their clubs or friends too
2007-09-15 06:51:35 · answer #1 · answered by foxy lady 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is definitely a liar and a game player. You can't trust him. Relationships are nothing without trust. If he is with trashy women at motorcycle parties, you could end up with an STD. Don't risk it. Dump him!!! You deserve better.
2007-09-15 13:46:23 · answer #2 · answered by soupkitty 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have some insecurity issues and I think you may need to work on those before being in a relationship. If you don't need confident after 3 yrs it's time to move on
2007-09-15 13:46:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Move on.
If he's interested, he'll seek you out.
If you've tried everything, (you said you have), sometimes it's no-body's fault, relationships have to be a good fit.
You sound like a decent person, allow yourself to meet someone who'll appreciate you for who you are. (from your description, he doesn't seem to)
Sorry
Luck
2007-09-15 13:42:54 · answer #4 · answered by spam_free_he_he 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let it go, he's trying to play you. he only will play you if YOU let him.
2007-09-15 13:46:58 · answer #5 · answered by Ms. Understood 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋